My sisters who are still single but slaying everyday in their glorious singlehood...... My successful Slay Queens who are desirous of getting married .... Pls remember to unmask yourself to that man you want to marry before you tie the knot with him..... Odikwa very necessary

He sees you all the time in all your slaying glory..... With your fabulous lace wig, your flawless make up, your artificial eye lashes, your generous push up bras that enlarge your tiny bosom, your bum enhancer which gives you an amazing curvy booty.....

He thinks that's the way you are naturally..... In addition to falling in love with your character, he is also falling in love with the body you present to him...... He wants to marry you, so he can own that amazing body...... He dreams of the wedding night and how he will peel off those clothes and behold the image of your voluptuous curvy beautiful unclad body..... He has no idea he might end up with quite the opposite..... After the wedding

He sees you as very fair skinned..... The top quality bleaching agents you use have successfully bleached your skin till it is nearly "Snow White"..... Like Bobrisky..... Even your knuckles and your feet have also succumbed to the bleaching agents..... And you are now flawlessly fair skinned..... With no trace of the dark skinned woman you were in the past.

He doesn't know that that fairness is not genetically driven.... It is acquired..... You were not born that way and he deserves to know..... He may be expecting that your fairness will rub off nicely on his children..... His reason for wanting a fair woman may be to attenuate the prevailing dark skinned colouration in his family...... He may want his children to be fairer that he is.... And he has a right to want that and pursue that..... Pls let him know that your fairness is not genetic.... Let him know it was acquired and so it cannot be passed on to your children.

He needs to know that the hair is a wig, the lashes are artificial, your boobs are not that large, your bum is not that big and rounded, and your fairness is acquired...... So that he doesn't get a rude shock and frightfully run out of the room after the wedding..... He should understand that it's all packaging.

Moreover you don't have to sleep with him before he can be made aware of these things.... When going out with him, be your natural self sometimes, go without makeup, remove the wig, let him see your natural hair, drop the artificial lashes sometimes, wear ordinary bra sometimes, do not enhance your bum occasionally and be sure he notices all these..... You and he should freely discuss these things..... If you do it often enough, he will see the real you as he will see on your wedding night and will be realistic in his expectations of you.

That way when you "gaj up" in all your slaying attire..... And he will understand that it is just packaging ..... Nothing more nothing less..... At least he will not be under any misguided impression about how you really look..... You guys will be on the same page.

Slay on Nnem..... But slay with style when it comes to your man..... Unmask yourself to him from day 1.... Skilfully..... So that he knows what he is getting at the end of the day.

God help us all Amen

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What surprises me is when ladies think we are moved my all these things ... Trying so hard to look pretty in our sight..

And yet they claim its a woman's world...