You'll know that a girl is in a serious relationship nd you'll still be chasing her up & down....
Wat exactly is ur aim, for her to leave her bf & start dating U?
Wen same tin is done 2 you you'll run to nairaland & start crying how ur gf left u 4 a rich dude.

Lol dem don hit this one

Hehehehe I don do that style taya mehn.

Well, guys just want to drill them

There are women that do the same , then wonder why they are not the wife.

StrongandMighty:
You'll know that a girl is in a serious relationship nd you'll still be chasing her up & down....
Wat exactly is ur aim, for her to leave her bf & start dating U?
Wen same tin is done 2 you you'll run to nairaland & start crying how ur gf left u 4 a rich dude.

Nobody's Single, Life's too short.... snatch someone's boo n enjoy

kiddoiLL:
Nobody's Single, Life's too short.... snatch someone's boo n enjoy

U re one of doz guys abi..... Continue karma Dey wait u at d Oda end

MissRaine69:
There are women that do the same , then wonder why they are not the wife.

Beht y?

ikbnice:
Well, guys just want to drill them

Must u drill anoda guy's gf?

StrongandMighty:

U re one of doz guys abi..... Continue karma Dey wait u at d Oda end

This wan way ur blood dey hot now, e be like one guy don do... n Taaaaa !! gbafuo dia !! all the girls u've dated n screwed were they all single before u got em ? Dem don do u now u dey para...
P.S: If ur girl should leave u fr another guy, either she dznt luv u anymore, or she's given up on u, or she's d greedy type, dem slay mamas...OR U DIDNT TREAT HER LIKE THE QUEEN SHE DESERVED TO BE TREATED AS

If you have not wedded a lady, you have no right to stop other guys from chasing her.

My advice, set a standard in her life that would be difficult for other guys to meet. That way, she will always fall back on you even after flirting with other guys. Thank me later.

kiddoiLL:
This wan way ur blood dey hot now, e be like one guy don do... n Taaaaa !! gbafuo dia !! all the girls u've dated n screwed were they all single before u got em ? Dem don do u now u dey para...
P.S: If ur girl should leave u fr another guy, either she dznt luv u anymore, or she's given up on u, or she's d greedy type, dem slay mamas...OR U DIDNT TREAT HER LIKE THE QUEEN SHE DESERVED TO BE TREATED AS

N'akpa gi

StrongandMighty:
You'll know that a girl is in a serious relationship nd you'll still be chasing her up & down....
Wat exactly is ur aim, for her to leave her bf & start dating U?
Wen same tin is done 2 you you'll run to nairaland & start crying how ur gf left u 4 a rich dude.

From my understanding of situations like these though, just because someone is in a "serious relationship" doesn't mean that they're in a caring/ loving/ good relationship.
If the outsider (male or female) has better intentions or is more compatible with the person in a relationship, I see no harm in it.

Why is it done?
Because one might feel that they are better for/more suited to the person in a "serious relationship".

It could also be that the person in the serious relationship didn't reject the advances of the outsider, hence they're not necessarily interloping.

It could just be for sexual reasons as a PP stated.

Jman06:
If you have not wedded a lady, you have no right to stop other guys from chasing her.

My advice, set a standard in her life that would be difficult for other guys to meet. That way, she will always fall back on you even after flirting with other guys. Thank me later.

Standards like what?

WildWine:


From my understanding of situations like these though, just because someone is in a "serious relationship" doesn't mean that they're in a caring/ loving/ good relationship.
If the outsider (male or female) has better intentions or is more compatible with the person in a relationship, I see no harm in it.

Why is it done?
Because one might feel that they are better for/more suited to the person in a "serious relationship".

It could also be that the person in the serious relationship didn't reject the advances of the outsider, hence they're not necessarily interloping.

It could just be for sexual reasons as a PP stated.

If I'm getting u ryt.... Wat u Re saying is dat dia is no harm in anoda guy scopin ur gal?

StrongandMighty:

Must u drill anoda guy's gf?

guys go for what they like. It is up to the gal to give the cold shoulder.

ikbnice:
guys go for what they like. It is up to the gal to give the cold shoulder.

OK... I get it

StrongandMighty:

Standards like what?

Show her real love. Prove to her that you are the most faithful guy she can ever find. Make money and lots of it. Buy her lots of gift. Any reasonable girl will not settle for less when she has the best, unless you are dating an immature teenager who doesn't know what it entails to have a successful married life, ie, those who still think it's all about fine face.

StrongandMighty:

If I'm getting u ryt.... Wat u Re saying is dat dia is no harm in anoda guy scopin ur gal?

Lol...
Yeah, What I am trying to say is that there's no harm in another guy scoping my girl.
There's no harm in another guy trying to/stealing my girl if I don't treat her right or if they're more compatible.
There's definitely no harm in another guy taking her if I'm aggressive or violent or anything along those lines.
There's no harm in another guy scoping my girl is she's not actually in the relationship out of like/love/care but because she's gaining something materially.

If I was a good bf/partner and I was with the right girl, she would know and appreciate our relationship and would find it easy to reject the other guy.

If there's no ring on her finger, then she's still available to other suitors. She's still has to be treated right and treat her husband right after there's a ring if not, suitors will become available to both of them.

Jman06:
Show her real love. Prove to her that you are the most faithful guy she can ever find. Make money and lots of it. Buy her lots of gift. Any reasonable girl will not settle for less when she has the best, unless you are dating an immature teenager who doesn't know what it entails to have a successful married life, ie, those who still think it's all about fine face.

Awryt bro.... Tnkz

WildWine:


Lol...
Yeah, What I am trying to say is that there's no harm in another guy scoping my girl.
There's no harm in another guy trying to/stealing my girl if I don't treat her right or if they're more compatible.
There's definitely no harm in another guy taking her if I'm aggressive or violent or anything along those lines.
There's no harm in another guy scoping my girl is she's not actually in the relationship out of like/love/care but because she's gaining something materially.

If I was a good bf/partner and I was with the right girl, she would know and appreciate our relationship and would find it easy to reject the other guy.

If there's no ring on her finger, then she's still available to other suitors. She's still has to be treated right and treat her husband right after there's a ring if not, suitors will become available to both of them.

Wat of in a case wia u re nida aggressive nor violent?
U know some guys re d architect of dia own problem.... U asked a girl out nd she rejected reason being dat she already have a guy she loves yet u re still pestering her 4 friendship .... Is dat not stupidity nd foolishness?

StrongandMighty:
N'akpa gi

Apka amu

StrongandMighty:

Wat of in a case wia u re nida aggressive nor violent?

I didn't mean those were the only situations where it was okay... I was just listing a few examples that could come to mind.

There are a number of other things like being faithful, being responsible, etc. There are a lot of ways to be the right partner to your gf/bf(or whatever) but at the end of the day, it doesn't matter if one is the "Perfect" boyfriend/girlfriend if you're in a relationship with the wrong person. The wrong person will never appreciate what they do have.
As long as deep down inside, you have a clear conscience, and you know that you put everything you had, emotionally, etc. Into the relationship then you'd get what you deserve in the end.


If I may ask, is this a follow up to that?
www.nairaland.com/3775009/should-worried

[quote author=StrongandMighty post=57413139
U know some guys re d architect of dia own problem.... U asked a girl out nd she rejected reason being dat she already have a guy she loves yet u re still pestering her 4 friendship .... Is dat not stupidity nd foolishness? [/quote]

Just saw the addition.
Well you've simply said it, it's stupidity and foolishness. If the case is that she has a guy she loves... Who loves her back.
It's a 2- way thing.
If she loves her guy but he's not reciprocating, then her guy could end up being the fool because if the "pesterer" has honest intentions, she might eventually succumb to him.

WildWine:


I didn't mean those were the only situations where it was okay... I was just listing a few examples that could come to mind.

There are a number of other things like being faithful, being responsible, etc. There are a lot of ways to be the right partner to your gf/bf(or whatever) but at the end of the day, it doesn't matter if one is the "Perfect" boyfriend/girlfriend if you're in a relationship with the wrong person. The wrong person will never appreciate what they do have.
As long as deep down inside, you have a clear conscience, and you know that you put everything you had, emotionally, etc. Into the relationship then you'd get what you deserve in the end.


If I may ask, is this a follow up to that?
www.nairaland.com/3775009/should-worried

OK I get...
No, it's not a follow up... It's anoda issue

[quote author=WildWine post=57413678][/quote] OK...... If u say so

StrongandMighty:

OK...... If u say so

Okay, okay.
It's just my own perspective/opinion, nothing more.

WildWine:

Okay, okay. It's just my own perspective/opinion, nothing more.

Awryt

Just the way young girls do ask married men out.

Fact is men loves to hunt and conquer. That is where some men's pride lies.

You said another man's GF not another man's wife na. when did chasing someone else's gf become a crime? Dude na was for you ooo

If it aint another person's wife...lol btw in grade school i liked tasting other people's food.