Myself for example , I'm working , done with nysc about a year ago, and my current girl friend is just in 100level in the University .

It just happened too fast tho and before you know it we're dating

I'm beginning to feel the gap is too much and she might not keep up to par with me in every aspect,

So I'm wondering cuz I'm abit confused here..

You're not in love with her. Simple. The rest is just excuses. Because of you truly loved, all this other stuff wouldn't matter.

There are no rules in love & war, said the English.

Inna ehn
So your girl must work in the same office with you
Stop this excuse already
Tell us what is on your mind biko

ZarZar:
You're not in love with her. Simple. The rest is just excuses. Because of you truly loved, all this other stuff wouldn't matter.

There are no rules in love & war, said the English.

are u sure about that?

it depends. but 3-4 years is enough for me..
age doesn't really matter when u are in love tho

ZarZar:
You're not in love with her. Simple. The rest is just excuses. Because of you truly loved, all this other stuff wouldn't matter.

There are no rules in love & war, said the English.

Love isn't the issue, and i don't wanna use the word liability , cuz in a way it's turning out that way....

Do you understand where I'm coming from?

As long as she's up to 18 no one cares about your age difference.Even if anyone cared and so what?

I'm guessing the age difference in your relationship is 10-12 years tho OP

Martin0:
are u sure about that?

Yeah

Prince4945:


Love isn't the issue, and i don't wanna use the word liability , cuz in a way it's turning out that way....

Do you understand where I'm coming from?

No, I don't understand.

Do whatever you feel is right for you. That's all I can say.

ZarZar:

Yeah

hmmm well love is unconditional,sometimes it's turns,

ZarZar:
You're not in love with her. Simple. The rest is just excuses. Because of you truly loved, all this other stuff wouldn't matter.

There are no rules in love & war, said the English.

gbam!

though pple use to say age does not mata, but as for me I will like my wife to be younger than me both physically and in age

Maybe my problem is not explaining it clearly enough

Prince4945:
Myself for example , I'm working , done with nysc about a year ago, and my current girl friend is just in 100level in the University .

It just happened too fast tho and before you know it we're dating

I'm beginning to feel the gap is too much and she might not keep up to par with me in every aspect,

So I'm wondering cuz I'm abit confused here..

I understand your fears. You have nothing to worry about tho. You guys can get married anytime. Hope she's not in a private school.

seriously though



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get over yourself before you know it you're her ticket to a new apartment


I didn't say anything sha

Age gap? OP lets start with your age. How old are you? be sincere to yourself.

No age gap matters, simple



If you worry about age gap in a relationship, I'll bet you are not in love............................... When you are in true love, [/b]even if there are [b]1001 reasons to quit, you'll still not quit............ From experience

Prince4945:
Maybe my problem is not explaining it clearly enough

I get you bro.

Now you're working, you're thinking maybe a working class babe or one done with school will be less of a burden and even potentially

But if she has able parents or family or guardians, then you shouldn't be too worried... if you love her stick to her...

But always bear in mind that she is never yours until you put a ring on it... so if you love her, at the right time put a ring on it n seal it...

All the best amigo

futurerex:
Age gap? OP lets start with your age. How old are you? be sincere to yourself.

Lol , in my mid 20's

Prince4945:


Lol , in my mid 20's

age is just a number. But I wouldn't advice you to waste your time on a fresher (100L) bcoz she still have more years to explore and you might end up heart broken. My 2cent

Not beyond age gap of 5. My husband is just one year older than me.

Amarabae:
Not beyond age gap of 5.
My husband is just one year older than me.

The gap here is just perfect ,the understanding and maturity I feel would be mutual

TheRealestGuy:


But always bear in mind that she is never yours until you put a ring on it... so if you love her, at the right time put a ring on it n seal it...

wise words bro. even my guy who's getting married by month end told me something close. in his case, he said "until the marriage rites are done and she's been handed to you, she's not yours".