NwaAmaikpe:
-It is obvious the guy has seen your gf náked before and was not impressed when he saw her bra and panties.

So he is helping you change her undies.

Guy I swear u no get sense and you are too savage. Can't you even be diplomatic about it? Na now I know why people they always de find your comments on threads upandan... cos you fit make person laugh die

koolsnoop2:

According to her she reject the gift but he insisted n when she open it n discover wat is inside she return it but he refuse to collect it...

Interesting

This guy magically forced your girl to collect a gift she doesn't want to collect? Despite her 'unwillingness' to accept the gift, she was 'cooperative' enough to open it. The fact the guy things she will be excited about underwears speaks volumes.

Girls, let your no mean no.

koolsnoop2:

I trust her no matter wat...
n again she's a godly girl n not one of those slay Queen.
In fact she is free to collect any gift in as much her conscience permit her.

Good u trust her

But human beings are not reliable

Trust with sense bro

MMotimo:
Once upon a time in Nigeria, seems like a thousand years ago now, girls did not accept gifts from toasters they had no intention of dating. Each party knows the gifts are not just "from the goodness of his heart." A girl can argue that she didn't ask for the gifts but then, why are you accepting it/them? By accepting gifts (cash or kind), you are setting an expectation, wittingly or unwittingly.

I don't know if poverty/awoof mentality has taken over and basic dignifying behavior is no longer a consideration or if it is just upside down civilization that makes it okay to accept gifts from someone you don't want.

Gifts of underwear to boot! Can it get more intimate than that? The audacity! And this girl has no intention of going out with this person? She has not given any green light whatsoever to warrant this situation? And she didn't express any outrage to him?

I'm old school, I cannot understand. Wait for those that can rationalize this, I can't.

Well said. I agree a million times with everything you have written.