As much as we always try to avoid problems in our relationship, some problem(s) still rise which at times brings the relationship to an abrupt end.

At times the cause of the end of the relationship might not even be infidelity or trust issues but destiny.

When we have to part ways some things are require of us so as to make the separation looks mature, and it is through "Communication".

Some people will bring an end to a relationship and will not be able to face the person they ended the relationship with in future, this is because of the manner at which they ended the relationship.

If it is a must that we end a relationship, we should have it at the back of our mind that apart from dating, human beings are almost tied to each other one way or the other, what happens when you come to realise that the person you ended the relationship with is the one who will sign that huge contract that will throw you into lame light in the future?

This is because you don't know what that person may pursue in future.

When some people get tired of their partner they tend to look for something to blame on them to make him or her to be at fault of the break-up.

It might not be easy especially when the person loves you to tell him/her one-on-one your mind as regards the relationship but it will be better to make it conversational than to make him/her look stupid.

There are some relationship whereby it might be one or more of the characters of the partner you are fed up with which might want you to put an end to the relationship, why not just say it to him/her in a mature manner rather than making them look odd when you know that was who they were even before you agreed to date them?

Communication is a very important tool when it comes to relationship, it can make and break a relationship which ever manner you want it.

Communication will make your relationship peaceful and otherwise depending on how you start it and the aim behind it.

Emotion might be toiled with but when you are not happy or envisage that you might not be happy with someone it is better you make the separation peaceful through calm communication so as to be able to face each other in the future and to be happy to help each other should in case the need arise.

Separation in relationship shouldn't be like a war front whereby even in the future when you see each other you will still start the fight from where you stopped.

Good and highly seductive conversation brought about the togetherness, well, to end it untimely might not require a seductive communication but peaceful communication is at least required.

Let's change our attitude and try to do things right. Don't make some mistakes that will make you so sad in the future, live for tomorrow.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2015/08/how-you-can-end-relationship-in-mature.html

Depends on your reason for breaking up tho

is either she walkaway or i walkaway

leCaptain:
Depends on your reason for breaking up tho

of course, not the one caused by infidelity o as there will be no space for talk let alone discussion.

Hello bamisepeters

It seems you are the male version of Talk2bella... I believe you already know me on nairaland, but I would like to know more about your blog

Ruggedfitness:
Hello bamisepeters

It seems you are the male version of Talk2bella... I believe you already know me on nairaland, but I would like to know more about your blog

lol. Not at all, we are similar in nitch but write-up is completely different. My blog is about life and relationship discussion,nothing else. Thank you.

bamisepeters:
lol. Not at all, we are similar in nitch but write-up is completely different. My blog is about life and relationship discussion,nothing else. Thank you.

The Thank you at the end seems like you were saying end of discussion and you didn't look out when I said I wanted to know more about your blog.

Some people can be very careless with other people's emotions and most times such careless break ups don't turn out well.

There are ways to brake up without hurting the others party so much.
Not everyone is emotionally strong to handle such experience.

Ruggedfitness:


The Thank you at the end seems like you were saying end of discussion and you didn't look out when I said I wanted to know more about your blog.

apologies, i am a customer service representative i am used to that. I sent you a mail already, i didn't mean an end because i know you have reason for asking, sincere apologies once more boss.

some people forget they aren't made of steel and karma's a sexy biatch.

regardless of the circumstances that caused the breakup, talking facially always works best and lets the other party know you aren't the devil she thought you were.

nice write up.
i've learnt how to add "thank you" to every sentence. haha.