If you find out that you wife happened to have slept with one of your closiest friends before your married her will you forgive and forget, or will you file for divorce for something she did B4 you knew her.

thats a tough one, it depends,

if she slept with my friend while she was going out with me, then thats cheating, and once a cheater always a cheater,

if this happened before we were going out, so i suppose there is nothing i can do about it, i expect her to have a past, i probably will forgive and forget.

its always easy to say that. but its hard to forget that kind of incidence whether she did it before or after. god knows why we are like that. besides if we start forgetting pple will start erring without any qualms of conscience. so i will say i will forgive but not forget.

What she did before I met her is her business and not mine. Even if it was my Uncle or Father she slept with.

Are you saying she did that before you MARRIED her or before you MET her?

ElRazur:

What she did before I met her is her business and not mine. Even if it was my Uncle or Father she slept with.

Guy i dey feel u oh well well!

why not

djakarta:

its always easy to say that. but its hard to forget that kind of incidence whether she did it before or after. god knows why we are like that. besides if we start forgetting pple will start erring without any qualms of conscience. so i will say i will forgive but not forget.

What's the use Forgiving if You can't Forget?

NO I will not.
Not because she did anything with my friend. Just because she should hv told me while we r dating. No need for going as far as divorce tho.

Hairat007:


Guy i dey feel u oh well well!

Shuo See this hairy-rat Why una no go feel am, na so dem dey start, lemme see you blowing kisses to my husband na2day again thunder fire that ya hairy yansh

I wouldn't forget it. No way.

Freiburger:

If you find out that you wife happened to have slept with one of your closiest friends before your married her will you forgive and forget, or will you file for divorce for something she did B4 you knew her.

File for a divorce for something she did when they werent dating? no wonder the girl didnt tell the dude abt it cus she knws he is an irrational guy. . .shior

The matter aint as straightforward as some of you make it seem, it's awfully complex. Since she slept with the dude BEFORE meeting her husband, one may logically expect the husband to forgive. Unfortunately in the world we live in, and Man being a complex, psychological creature, the harsh reality is that logic is a feeble match for ego.

It would shatter a husband's ego to be aware of the grim reality that his close friend knows the ins and outs of his wife's privacy; knows how she moans; knows her G-spots; probably penetrated all three orifices in her body; and must have treated her with the reckless abandon that most husbands spare their wives for the sake of spousal decency. How can a man forget that, even if he forgives? Seeing a smug smirk on his friend's face anytime he and his wife encounters the former, how can he handle that? It would take a husband with remarkable amnesia to forget it ever happened and live in conjugal bliss with such a blighted wife.

May God save us these kinds of misery oh. Thats all i can say.

Oligarch:

The matter aint as straightforward as some of you make it seem, it's awfully complex. Since she slept with the dude BEFORE meeting her husband, one may logically expect the husband to forgive. Unfortunately in the world we live in, and Man being a complex, psychological creature, the harsh reality is that logic is a feeble match for ego.

It would shatter a husband's ego to be aware of the grim reality that his close friend knows the ins and outs of his wife's privacy; knows how she moans; knows her G-spots; probably penetrated all three orifices in her body; and must have treated her with the reckless abandon that most husbands spare their wives for the sake of spousal decency. How can a man forget that, even if he forgives? Seeing a smug smirk on his friend's face anytime he and his wife encounters the former, how can he handle that? It would take a husband with remarkable amnesia to forget it ever happened and live in conjugal bliss with such a blighted wife.

May God save us these kinds of misery oh. Thats all i can say.

I agree with some of the things u said . . . . .the woman shud have told her husband b4 they got married, that is where her fault lies. Yes its not easy to forget but he shud atleast forgive not file for divorce.

I wouldn't forgive him for any reason, he was plain stupid.

mama-gee:

I wouldn't forgive him for any reason, he was plain silly.

Don't also expect forgivness from anyone if u ain't got forgivness in your dictionary, lol.