He knws about d relatnshp since 2004,nw dat i am in d midle of my luv,he cals my lady,cried,begged and rubbished me al in d name of he wants to c wat only me can c.nw dat i knw,he does nt knw dt i knw bt wat do i do.my woman did nt want to tel me @ first cos of our frndshp,bt she is nw scared n promis to tel me wen she coms frm service.what shld i do abt dat my frnd ,shld i face him,ridicule him or wat.help me

Let him be, nemesis will catch up with him sooner or later.

Play the big boy role. Do not act rudely towards him, keep ur relationship with him at the same pace. But if u must confront him about it, do it very very wisely and let him appear to be a fool in the presence of ur woman (but that is if ur woman is faithful to herself because i fear woman. they are very deceptive)

elecktra:

buy them condoms . . . .

just listen 2 u
dont go and settle your problems 1st~
when i he's done with u
you would have more dan condoms to buy around


@post
Round up some thugs from under the bridge and go spank his butt up to some hell
arrant rubbish
what kinda see finish is that~
u gave him that stupid chance~

you said your girl is scared? what is she scared of?is it that she lied or she is scared of you beating the dude?
confront the boy and tell him that you heard from a bunch of people that he was trying to get with your girl. If he can beat you, chances are he would say so what and if you can beat him, he will either deny or appologise

your friend aint a true homeboy, school him

unban190:

just listen 2 u
dont go and settle your problems 1st~
when i he's done with u
you would have more dan condoms to buy

ehm emm. . . . . . sorry sir you don vex ??

no vex abeg

I thot guy's dont do this to each oda. This dude's breaking the unspoken unwritten rule.
If its true, then u have to ask him to stay away from u n your girl
_{Afta u've knocked his tooth out}

[/b] BIG QUESTION - Is she really your girl? [b]

If she is then, go and relax cos when a real woman is in love, nothing, not even her parents can stop her from being faithful and loving her man,

Slap him and then lock him them he would get back to reality.

buy a correct horse whip and flog the living daylight outta his prick

Cut of his manhood!

Pweety4me:

Cut of his manhood!

That's mean.

are we sure the story from our friend is entirely true . . .

u never can say with some chics u know ?

I too trust u mama gee!

mama-gee:

That's mean.

_{Na i don't think so. . .}

lycan_net:

He knws about d relatnshp since 2004,nw dat i am in d midle of my luv,he cals my lady,cried,begged and rubbished me al in d name of he wants to c wat only me can c.nw dat i knw,he does nt knw dt i knw bt wat do i do.my woman did nt want to tel me @ first cos of our frndshp,bt she is nw scared n promis to tel me wen she coms frm service.what shld i do abt dat my frnd ,shld i face him,ridicule him or wat.help me

Let me beat him up for you.

Poster call him in d presence of ur girl n settle,bear in mind dat girl can be funny at tyms.U sud no what i mean.

stay dere and watch what belongs to u go down d drain.
jus lost mine some hrs ago, cos i jus got to realise that she got laid by a friend who i wasnt comfortable with but decided to leave it to trust.
at least she's nw pregnant and im on d loosin end.
GUYYYYYYYYYYYYYY hold ur babe tight even if it takes u hittin d guy on the head.
OPEN UR MOUTH AND TALK!!!!!!!

@jflex i support ur views the fact that ur babe is scared is cuz she's considering it.but what the heck relationships at one point are to bound to end so my advice enjoy the ride for a while,

Bro you really get to take it easy and be more observant,some women could be cruel and smart on issues like this.
dont be too quickie to judge your closest friend base on what your girlfriend is telling you,get your facts right before you ditch your homeboi for some kind girls that dont wanna be truthful to themselves, my true life experience on the subject matter had taught me alot,bitter lesson though.

@poster
I have a little problem with the title MY BEST FRIEND he is definately not ur best friend, but ur best enemy cos even a friend cannot do this to a friend. So I advice u terminate the friendship with him after you assert the what you heard is truth.

why should ur best friend want to sleep with ur babe, knowing well she's urs?

@ poster
what u still doin here askin if u love ur babe u would knw wat is best to do.

Just make sure your girl's being honest about the whole issue.wont be surprised if ur girl was giving him the green light and is now scared ur guy's going to rat on her.it has happened before.if it's true,kick him outta ur life after giving him the scare of his life.