Lalas247:

And so is he paying rent
Better person will stock up the house with provision n wont touch it ... you know how hard it is to allow someone live in your own house .. not a lot can do it
So he should have compromised on that bloody milk .. bet he wished he didn't touch it

Sacluxpaint:

You my friend have a comprehension problem.

ConcernedNL:
3 spoons for tea? Wow, you are bold o. Someone else's milk. Thing is you shouldn't even be eating on their budget in the first place. Go out work eat come back home, buy stuff on ur way back. Look for means to move out.

Very Nice family to even take a grown man in.

Get a job

NubiLove:
The guy caused it. They gave him accommodation, he should have left it there and took care of his own feeding, the couple just got fed up. If he is so broke, he can go to Lekki and Victoria Island, on some building/construction sites they actually have shortage of unskilled labour.... but I am sure he would feel he is too big for such kind of work.

Some years back I had a female neighbour who sent her NYSC boyfriend packing out of her apartment, somebody in the same compound gave him accommodation for 1 month, after that he told him to leave.

The married couple even tried that they were accommodating and feeding him.

jieta:
fear women

stressedout:
Pls nairalanders, I am in deep mess right now. I have been living in my compound for 6 yrs now but due to some money issues I was evicted and my friend/fellow tenant was kind enough to take me in for the time being. It is him the wife and their small baby son that stays.

The problem started when the wife start complaining that am wasteful. i have never remained food they give me. from then they reduced quantity of food they give me and i dont complain.

Now just this morning am making tea and take 3 spoons of milk in her presence and all hell break loose. she starts shouting and call her husband that even them dont take more than 2 spoons. the man called me later and said it is time for us to part ways.

Am devastated now. i even used my last cash to buy a tin of milk for them. what do i do now? i have no where to go.

propanet:

Why do you take this issue as personal? You have made several replies on this topic as if your life depends on it...what do you stand to gain in all these your wickedness...no wonder Africans have high death rates...not necessarily due to poor health care but rather due to their wicked hearts and unforgiving spirit.always do good...IT FEELS GOOD TO DO GOOD...Wickedness strains and drains the heart...

Odunharry:
Welcome sir. Do you still remember me?

ChelseaDr:

Pardon my forgetfulness, I can't remember actually.... no vex o

stressedout:
thanks for the advice. it is clear. i have to leave that house. i will pack my things today and leave for calabar first things tomorrow. Why i say ordinary is because these people are not suffering at all, they live well. i did not live there free. i did various jobs for the man and even stayed in the wifes store where she sells provisions. This is someone i senior with over 5 yrs. such behaviour was not so at the beginning now i am almost treated as if i came to do househelp. so i will never rely on anyone again as man can fail, but God never fails.

Lalas247:


It hurts

Odunharry:

No wAhala. You actually sent me Airtime of 500 on the 1st of January, 2016.

luminouz:

Lmaooooooo!!!!
Ur crazy I swear!!!!

Thanks for making me laugh dou!!!

frostland:
I stayed wit a family of 6 of which am third to the youngest am nt even related or the same state with dem bt dat family treated me like 1 of there own the wife even told my dad dat my clothing was on her infact up till today she still call me to check on me even her husband even though I left dat Huz since 2008 and her eldest daughter pay for my neco exams so my friend nt all family are the same

banmee:


Lol. You do not have to believe in God to be kind or compassionate. I hope you read the OP's version. They allowed him to stay with them. Should they have allowed him to stay there indefinitely? Like i said before; this thinking happens only in places like Nigeria. Using God to justify all manner of insanity. Every problem is the devil's fault in nigeria. Most Nigerians do not understand the concept of taking personal responsibility for decisions and actions taken. It's always the devil that did it and God is the solution. What a people.

stressedout:
they put my food for me. i dont take by myself. Anyone who can take me in should pm me. am fed up.

StevensJojo:

Lol.I saw your first response.When you waited for a while and didnt get a reply you came to edit it to see if youl get a rise from me.
Well sir iv noticed you.You can now enjoy the rest of your holidays.

aribisala0:
You are the one that is stupid. What has any of this got to do with being black or white? Deal with your complex and stop talking nonsense.

olu77:


Mission accomplished.

You are welcome bro.

Avater0147:
my guy you had to be man, appreciate what that family did for you. after all you are not related to them in anyway neither are you guys friends..I bet he only new you as a co tenants.. first of all is for you ti plead with the man and his wife to give you a little more time.. then you have to try and hustle,make sure you don't eat twice a day in that house..try to be going somewhere in the morning and always arrived when you know the man is back,that something like around 9 or 10..even if you don't have any were to go, just go somewhere else to spend your own time..look for even kponkpon work to do..I wish you can come to sapele, delta state..I could have accommodate you and give you orientation of how to survived in life...if you have talent or anything you can contribute to the society, just do it. try and have the mind of an hustler..like me so long humans lives there,I will surely survived anywhere in the world..God bless

rosalieene:
serves u right!!! u don't have money to buy yet u want to finish those couple provisions and food. you should have been wise enough to know that you are not suppose to inconvenience other ppl in their own house.
see you saying ordinary milk? the least u could have done was to buy ur own provisions separately, eat once in a while in their house, that's called self respect. They only owed you shelter and not feeding rights

stressedout:
they put my food for me. i dont take by myself. Anyone who can take me in should pm me. am fed up.

propanet:

Why not get him a job? Majority of you talk unreasonably as if you don't know how difficult it is to get a job in that miserable country of yours

ikezuora4689:
u are stupid,dont ever pray to see ur self in that position,everybody in this platform is forming hardworking(no be person wey see work go work),most of u dont knw what it means to stay under someone especially woman am speaking from experience,its better for ur mum to shout on u than any random woman,i knw want i pass through when i was living with my blood brother,i vow that once am alive none of my child we live with anybody not even my blood brothers.op i understand ur plight bt dont worry God wey do am for me go do am for u.....good morning to u all

Oyindidi:
Sharraappp!!!!!!!!!!! What is ordinary fvcking milk! The guy is human, see how all of you are insulting the guy. It can be anybody for goodness sake. That guy is depressed and needed help but you all are claiming 3 spoons of milk is too much for a grown up. I'm almost weeping for the op, not cos of his problem but the way you people are attacking him.


Stressedout, go to Calabar. Next time look for advice somewhere else.

ExInferis:
It's funny how every single female in here screams at the OP for being a leach and tell him to go hustle, while their own version of hustling is leaching off some man (or men) somewhere.

Hypocritical bloodsuckers.