A lot of people have different views and opinions about s*x but look at what people have to say about sex before and outside marriage

http://www.jaydee.com.ng/2017/06/opinion-premarital-sex-who-is-at-losing.html

But who do you think is at the losing end, the male or female

Female of course, though objectively they gain more, getting paid and ecstasy.

The two of them because it is more than what we generally think it is.

No one lose, so far it's not a rape

adem30:
No one lose, so far it's not a rape

Well said!!!

If 2 people decide to have premarital sex then it will NEVER be a loss. That's their decision and they stand by it or whatever consequences. If religious person decide they don't want to have sex before marriage then fair enough, they stand by their decision and live by whatever consequences arises from such act. nobody is losing either way

TO EACH THEIR OWN!

The lady has much to lose
1. Loses her reputation and men may not see her as worthy of being a wife
2. She might get pregnant and face the consequences
3. It is much easier for a female to contract STDs because of a wider opening
4. Women may not be able to dispose of the emotions[color=#006600][/color