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After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by ijustdey: 5:20pm On Jul 03, 2017
From LINUS OOTA, Lafia




It was a tortuous search for the fruit of the womb for a Nasarawa State- born couple, Shedrack and Mercy Audu. For 17 years, they ran from pillar to post, seeking medical and divine solutions to their childlessness after tying the nuptial not in 1998.

On November 7, 2016, God answered their supplications and blessed them with a set of twins, a boy and a girl, whom they christened Joseph and Philomena.

Expectedly, their birth instantly wiped off their tears and pain they suffered for almost two decades, as they savoured the glory of God wherever they went.

Basking in the euphoria of the arrival of their precious babies, Shedrack, a lecturer at Nasarawa State Polytechnic and his wife went to Makurdi, Benue State, on the invitation of his bosom friend, Fidelis Mbaka, to show him their bundles of joy.

On the scheduled date, Monday, April 17, 2017, the couple set out with the babies at about 10.30am aboard a commuter vehicle, which took off from the Lafia motor park en-route Makurdi. Then, the unexpected happened a few kilometres to their destination.

A 911 vehicle loaded with yam coming from the opposite direction rammed into their vehicle while manouvring off a crater, killing seven persons on the spot including the 5-month old twin babies. Among the dead were the driver and four other passengers aboard the Toyota car in which Shedrack was travelling with his family.

Life is worthless now


However, the couple were the only survivors, rescued and rushed to the General Hospital, Daudu, where they were revived and placed on intensive care for one week, before being transferred to the Dalhatu Specialist Hospital, Lafia, Nasarawa State capital. They were recently certified fit and discharged.

“My brother, life is worthless and meaningless to me now; I have surrendered my life to God. I am 50 years old while my wife is 42; we have allowed God to do His wish”, says Shedrack, as he told our correspondent the story of his battle with childlessness before a breakthrough, but the joy was short-lived.

“My twins were born on November 7, 2016, and they died on April 17, 2017. I met my wife who is of Eggon extraction from Akwanga Local Government Area of Nasarawa State, in 1998 at the University of Jos where I was studying for my Master’s degree in Business Management; she was a student in the Theatre Arts department.

We dated for a year and got married. Three years after our marriage, there was no pregnancy and we became worried; we visited Dalhatu Specialist Hospital for medical checkup and after a detailed examination, it was discovered that she did an abortion in 1997 through a quack doctor, which affected her womb.

“From that time till 2016, we were in and out of the hospital trying to see how she could conceive to no avail. We were initially afraid that once she reached menopause, it would be a big problem; she suggested we go for in-vitro fertilization (IVF-test tube) where the eggs and sperm are fertilized outside the womb into test tube, but I disagreed. We remained faithful to God until February 2016, when she conceived naturally and delivered through caesarian operation. We were extremely happy, but God has taken them away”, he lamented.

How my babies died


Shedrack, who hails from Lafia Local Government Area of Nasarawa State, also gave graphic details of the fatal crash, which claimed his babies. “As we were approaching Daudu in Guma Local Government Area of Benue State, a fully loaded 911 truck was dodging a pothole at the time our car was also negotiating to dodge it; the truck rammed into our car. My wife was carrying our female baby, Philomina, while I lapped the male, Joseph; they died instantly as they were badly hit by fragments of the crushed car; the driver and four other passengers also died on the spot, while my wife and I sustained injuries. We were taken to the Daudu General Hospital unconscious, but my twin babies who died instantly were taken to Lafia and buried by my younger brother who was contacted through my telephone”.

Highway of death


Checks indicated that Shedrack’s fate had befallen many others who had lost loved ones on the terribly bad Lafia-Makurdi highway. It is a nightmare for commuters plying the road, as auto crashes are recorded almost daily.

Within the past two months alone, no fewer than 47 lives were lost while 42 others sustained injuries in 21 incidents, according to available statistics. Barely a week before the accident which involved Shedrack’s family, the driver and entire passengers in a 14-seater commuter bus perished when a trailer conveying livestock rammed into their vehicle. The accident occurred less than one hour after the Abuja bound bus departed Makurdi on April 8, 2017.

Four weeks later, a 16-year-old girl, Fatima Usman, whose father died in a crash on the road in 2001 when she was barely two weeks old, lost her mum on the same spot, which claimed her dad. Apart from her mother, Fatima lost three other members of her family, including her grandfather, aunt, and a cousin. She was the only survivor of the crash, which occurred on May 9, 2017, while they were travelling to Makurdi to attend a naming. Sadly, Fatima is the only child of her late parents, now left alone in a daily battle for survival.

“I remember everything that happened on that ill-fated day”, she told our correspondent in an emotion-laden voice; “I remember crawling out of the vehicle with deep cuts on my knees, I remember my aunt screaming my mum’s name and she wasn’t answering; I remember pulling out my mobile phone and calling a neighbour in Lafia to inform him of what had happened; we were taken to General Hospital Gbajumba in Guma Local Government Area of Benue State, where my mum, aunt, cousin and grandfather, all died, except me. I’ve been diagnosed of post traumatic stress disorder. I don’t know what to do.

Friday, June 16, 2017 was my mum’s birthday, and I spent the whole day crying”, Fatima, an SS3 student of Government Science Secondary School, Lafia, lamented.


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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by smartty68(m): 5:20pm On Jul 03, 2017
So sad

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jul 03, 2017
It's better to die in a plane crash than to die in a motor accident.

She lost her father, mother, siblings, cousin, grandfather in the accident.


Imagine the amount of money she would have collected if they died in a plane crash angry

Don't quote me biko


I'm too money conscious these days

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Papiikush: 5:44pm On Jul 03, 2017
Damn!

Accidents everywhere these days. You can't travel without seeing an accident scene. Lord have mercy! cry

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Cuddlebugie(f): 5:45pm On Jul 03, 2017
The Lafia-Makurdi highway is the 'highway to heaven/hell'..... May God console the Audus. 17 years of barrenness is no joke

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Wiseandtrue(f): 5:46pm On Jul 03, 2017
Hmmmm how does one begin to console these people if not God no one can.

May God forgive your sins and wipe your tears away in no distant time

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by ignis: 5:46pm On Jul 03, 2017
Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un.... "We belong to God and to Him we shall return."

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Jaytecq(m): 5:46pm On Jul 03, 2017
wow.... sad cry
Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by coldsummer: 5:47pm On Jul 03, 2017
Tiv people don kill the children.


.why ask them to bring the kids to you.






Why didnt he go see them.




Evil

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by mindworx: 5:48pm On Jul 03, 2017
cry
Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jul 03, 2017
How do you console this ones now??

How do you tell them God exists ?

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jul 03, 2017
cry cry
Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jul 03, 2017
this is tragic
Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Biggty(m): 5:51pm On Jul 03, 2017
This is so sad

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by oshe11: 5:52pm On Jul 03, 2017
chaiiiii......
.This One WEAK ME lipsrsealed



SPEECHLESS ME......

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jul 03, 2017
This government sef embarassed embarassed embarassed

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by cerowo(f): 5:53pm On Jul 03, 2017
God time is the best... All glory to God... Congratulatn
Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by grandstar(m): 5:53pm On Jul 03, 2017
God didn't take away your babies. Never, ever say that!

Below is what Job 34: 10- 12 says

So listen to me, you men of understanding:*
It is unthinkable for the true God to act wickedly,+
For the Almighty to do wrong!+
11 For he will reward a man according to what he does+
And bring upon him the consequences of his ways.
12 For a certainty, God does not act wickedly;+
The Almighty does not pervert justice.+

Rather bad things can happen at anytime to anyone! Even Jesus faced the threat f being killed in a storm.

Please read Ecclesiastes 9:11-12 which says

11 I have seen something further under the sun, that the swift do not always win the race, nor do the mighty win the battle,
+ nor do the wise always have the food, nor do the intelligent always have the riches,+
nor do those with knowledge always have success,+
because time and unexpected events* overtake them all.

12 For man does not know his time.+
Just as fish are caught in an evil net and birds are caught in a trap, so the sons of men are ensnared in a time of disaster,*
when it suddenly overtakes them.

So God is not to blame. He made everything pretty in its time but the devil come put sand sand in we garri (Read Eccl 3:11, John 8:44, 1 John 5:19)

Let's all pray for God's kingdom to come and rescue all groaning creation. That is the only hope for mankind (Read Matthew 6:10)

Read what Psalms 72:12-14 says will happen when God's kingdom comes

12 For he will rescue the poor who cry for help,
Also the lowly one and whoever has no helper.
13 He will have pity on the lowly and the poor,
And the lives* of the poor he will save.
14 From oppression and from violence he will rescue them,*
And their blood will be precious in his eyes.

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by HyconMojo(m): 5:54pm On Jul 03, 2017
And even after all these, one still needs to be thankful because everything God does; he does it for a reason...Besides, he's unquestionably unquestionable

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by thorpido(m): 5:54pm On Jul 03, 2017
Hmmm.Sad situation

.,.....but why carry new born babies up and down?

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jul 03, 2017
It's a Wastern problrm..
Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by yeyeboi(m): 5:55pm On Jul 03, 2017
Buhari Why

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Daniello25: 5:56pm On Jul 03, 2017
Hmmmmmmmmm e no easy oooo..... I pray that GOD ALMIGHTY Will keep on PROTECTING US......

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jul 03, 2017
I know not what to say, let us hope the person after me has something better to say.

R.I.P to the twins!

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by MrHenshaw: 5:58pm On Jul 03, 2017
cerowo:
God time is the best... All glory to God... Congratulatn


Did you really go through the story? They are not talking about the kids thanksgiving service.

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by Westadon(m): 5:58pm On Jul 03, 2017
Take heart
Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by 7footre(m): 5:59pm On Jul 03, 2017
There are no words with which to describe the sadness
Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by TinaAnita(f): 5:59pm On Jul 03, 2017
That so-called bosom friend is a bad luck that blows them no good. What a fateful day!

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Re: After 17 Years Of Childlessness, Couple Loses Newborn Twin Babies In Auto Crash by dayleke: 6:02pm On Jul 03, 2017
O ma se o...
Iku doro oooo

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