Fakemumu:
Am using my friends moniker without him knowing...will love to get ur advise as quick as possible.
am a married lady and I have dis feeling that my husband is not d man for me..
. Am not just free with him...more like we r not best of friends,we argue ,querel and our ideas to life ain't dsame.

am less than 23 and am yet to do my white wedding,he just paid my bride price n we have a daughter...
pls wats ur advise,if I were to be ur sister wat will u advise me to do?

Fakemumu:
Am using my friends moniker without him knowing...will love to get ur advise as quick as possible.
am a married lady and I have dis feeling that my husband is not d man for me..
. Am not just free with him...more like we r not best of friends,we argue ,querel and our ideas to life ain't dsame.

am less than 23 and am yet to do my white wedding,he just paid my bride price n we have a daughter...
pls wats ur advise,if I were to be ur sister wat will u advise me to do?

darlenese:



you are not serious at all.

ur story is as fake as your so called borrowed moniker

Fakemumu:
no vex pls am not joking here,its a serious matter. Dat I would love u to take seriously

darlenese:



I see, u went into a relationship at a tender age of 15 I guess, u weren't emotionally prepared for marriage as u eventually ended up in his house as a result of pregnancy , I think the problem here is u, u aren't even sure of your feelings for him cos u only got married to avoid Shame,


see a counselor
speak with him about your feelings, your marriage is very young and having misunderstanding is a normal thing as both of u are still trying to adjust.

you can date a man for donkey years but it's far different from spending a month with him living under the same roof.

baby124:
Fake mumu werey

Nma27:
This one weak me o.
So your eyes were closed when u entered d relationship?
Well, you can ask your people to return d brideprice.
Fear exes. Reason y I block and delete

Benita27:
Just remain with your husband. You've done traditional marriage and you have a child for him, and you're just realising he isn't the man for you. These same questions are questions you should have answered before getting this far with him.

Fakemumu:
Am using my friends moniker without him knowing...will love to get ur advise as quick as possible.
am a married lady and I have dis feeling that my husband is not d man for me..
. Am not just free with him...more like we r not best of friends,we argue ,querel and our ideas to life ain't dsame.

am less than 23 and am yet to do my white wedding,he just paid my bride price n we have a daughter...
pls wats ur advise,if I were to be ur sister wat will u advise me to do?

Antina:



She might got to know this after the hubby experienced "household" melt down.

To the topic! Try as much as possible to spice up marriage, it helps too.

Davidgrey:
Life is brief, Making it pleasant and enjoyable is your sole duty to yourself | If you feel "no connection" with him, Call off the wedding while you still can.

Fakemumu:
av told him lets spice our marrige up but he just took me out for d 1st time ever since we got marriage,i dnt know if he's shy of me going to church with him,we dnt go to church together...if only he can spice dis marriage up,bring fun n life into it...but i see non of these happening...

Nma27:
Hmmm this is serious dear. Maybe you shouldn't talk again but act. Show him that love you want to b shown. On Sunday, dress up and wait for him, follow him to church... Will he chase u back? I doubt that. You can take him out, it is not written anywhere that a man should only b d one taking lady's out. Be romantic and cut ties with the so-called ex pls. Try and work on your marriage.

toastedbread:
do you both have any common interest? understand what he likes and try to flow in that direction.

my new friend can go all day without food discussing about one suzuki 800cc, or a horror movie she saw. if her husband doesn't understand these things, they'll have a big wahala.

get on his level and see if things won't start falling into place.

toastedbread:
do you both have any common interest? understand what he likes and try to flow in that direction.

my new friend can go all day without food discussing about one suzuki 800cc, or a horror movie she saw. if her husband doesn't understand these things, they'll have a big wahala.

get on his level and see if things won't start falling into place.

greatcrown:
U and your so called husband should go for marriage 101 lecture.

Then apply what your learned.

Fakemumu:
tnk u I will try but I know he likes football

toastedbread:

not just liking the football, get to know his favorite team, google news about the team. use that let's see how it goes.

when was the last time you bought a tie for him?

if he sips alcohol, know his brand and buy it at home.

ennon92:
Since i dnt av a sister lemme kip mute

Sarang:


Your ex is not better than your husband you need to realize that first.. Do you know that saying? We dont know what we have till we lose it. You both need to work towards each other, open your heart to each other, and talk to each other. 6 years is a long time to know someone. You need to change that feeling that your ex is better. He is not! Your husband is gentle, nice and never abandoned you. You need to realize that people who are like that are rare. Your husband is rare, you need to appreciate him. No man is perfect. This is the honest truth. You need to love that man.

Sarang:
tnk u so much

Your ex is not better than your husband you need to realize that first.. Do you know that saying? We dont know what we have till we lose it. You both need to work towards each other, open your heart to each other, and talk to each other. 6 years is a long time to know someone. You need to change that feeling that your ex is better. He is not! Your husband is gentle, nice and never abandoned you. You need to realize that people who are like that are rare. Your husband is rare, you need to appreciate him. No man is perfect. This is the honest truth. You need to love that man.