charlesisu:

There marriages are all not what they expected, could this be a coincidence, they are all not happy in their marriages.

daylae:

@ladygaga will u marry me!

mama-gee:

Don't listen to them, they want to feel special and let you feel inferior, Go and get married.

charlesisu:

right now i feel superior to them cos all they talk and whine about are about their nagging wives.

charlesisu:

Let me set this record straight,

These guys are wonderful People. they are friends ive known for quite some time and even the most gentle of them says the same thing.

His wife is stubborn and his mother in law intrudes in their affairs, he is tired of the marriage. we chatted for about 3 hours today and he strongly advised me to be extremely careful before i tie the knots with any woman, its not all rosy and women can be pains in the arse after marriage

ladygaga:

loooooooooool@ snow, what exactly is your own? why is it botherin u so much, i bow to you ohh!

snowdrops:

You dont expect marriage to be a bed of roses do you. Same as other aspects of life.
I am sure your friends also have their flaws. THERE IS NO PERFECT PARTNER.
Marriage is about tolerating each other and accepting the other for who they are.
The fact that these challenges in marriage exist does not mean we should all be celibate.
Even if you wait for 20 years, unless God directs you to that person, my friend, it will be a wild goose chase.

coin2008:

I think im commitment phobic.  Cry Cry

Have you considered that maybe the problem is you, not marriage per se.

if you think you're commitment phobic, that says a lot about your state of mind right now, so maybe its best if you take some time off to sort yourself out and figure out just what it is you want.