Ave known this precious thing for long buh started datin nt quite long..she has been so wonderful so far..and we are really getting along..she's just the type of girlfriend a guy would wish for..buh the only problem am aving with her is she doesn't accepts anything from gifts to be precise..i just felt she undastands am a student buh wat really gve me concern is that wheneva she comes visiting she doesn't eat or drink..she's always she's okay..she only manages to drink water if i force her..i dn't seem to undastand it anymore...help me out guyz

Talk to her, she's in d best position to make u understand her or her motive

If she asks too much now, u go open another thread say she too materialistic.
She's studying your 'giving' habit.

what does men really want in a lady

wahles:
Talk to her, she's in d best position to mae u understand her or her motive

i av don dat..she says she doesn't wantu b a problem..which am yet to undastand

MizLizy:
what does men really want in a lady

men are different

emzeezlee:

men are different

that is the problem

u guys aren't same that's why we ladies change.

If she has been collecting gifts, eating when she visits etc. Wouldn't you start calling hers names like gold digger.

MizLizy:



that is the problem

u guys aren't same that's why we ladies change.

If she has been collecting gifts, eating when she visits etc. Wouldn't you start calling hers names like gold digger.

lmao..well you are right sha

for crying out loud, u are a student!

what ever money, gift, food... u wannna give her comes directly from your parent or guardian, and some ladies (matured and reasonable ones) find it rather condescending and embarrassing to collect from a student/struggling guy who is solemnly dependent.

I once met one who felt really insulted when i tried giving her a little transport fare after visiting me. her response was- "is it the money your mum gave u at home u want to spend on me?"

u see, a sweet lady will feel irritated and uncomfortable to add to your wants when she knows u are only struggling.

tell her u appreciate her concern. but again make it known to her that there is love in sharing and it will bring good joy to have her eat alongside with u.

never give this type of ladies money or gift when u are only a student/struggling, like I said, it is embarrassing.

they only thing they need is your time and affection.

emzeezlee:

i av don dat..she says she doesn't wantu b a problem..which am yet to undastand

its nt a problem. Offer wen u can nd let it b. Just do ur part.

MizLizy:
what does men really want in a lady

d full package ! Nice pix eh!!

emzeezlee:
Ave known this precious thing for long buh started datin nt quite long..she has been so wonderful so far..and we are really getting along..she's just the type of girlfriend a guy would wish for..buh the only problem am aving with her is she doesn't accepts anything from gifts to be precise..i just felt she undastands am a student buh wat really gve me concern is that wheneva she comes visiting she doesn't eat or drink..she's always she's okay..she only manages to drink water if i force her..i dn't seem to undastand it anymore...help me out guyz

The kinda gal I want.