Abeg o naira landers, is it ok 4 gal 2 ve sex wit her guy or spend a weekend wit him b4 marrage? Wat age should der be between d both of u? For how long ar u suppose to ve a relatnship/courtship wit ur man before marrage?

Basically everything depends on both parties, its not wat people can judge 4 u. Some av intimacy d first day dey decides 2 av a relationship while some will wait 4 like 4eva b4 doin it! So its not 4 us on nl 2 decide 4 u. When u guys think u r ready 2 get married, go 4 it!

@ Abeg o naira landers, is it ok 4 gal 2 ve intimacy wit her guy or spend a weekend wit him b4 marrage? Wat age should der be between d both of u? For how long ar u suppose to ve a relatnship/courtship wit your man before marrage?

Ma view:
Normally it is not right to hve any intimacy b4 marriage for several reasonable and logical reasons.
1. Your relationships may not work out
2. If you bang her/him b4 marriage, such don become a used package
3. You would not want anyone to bang your wife to be or husband to be b4 u actually get am
4. What if she get belle and u two broke up b4 the wedding
5. What if she/he get some kind of KONK diseases
6. you can fabricates other reasons as u like.

As per courtship, it should be between 6 mons to several years. But the shorter the better with reasonable plannings.

It's better to wait patiently and spend unlimited weekd together than to play a risky game, abi u dey urge ?

Morever, u called it intimacy, weekd , bt I call it fornication!

Sakida:

Abeg o naira landers, is it ok 4 gal 2 ve intimacy wit her guy or spend a weekend wit him b4 marrage? Wat age should der be between d both of u? For how long ar u suppose to ve a relatnship/courtship wit your man before marrage?

Maturity is all dat matters. If he is mature and willing to be in a relationship with you, then go ahead but that's if u like him oo.

About intimacy, if u are not ready 4 it abeg discuss the terms with him. If he loves u he will wait patiently 4 d package. Why peck at ur birthday cake when u can have the whole cake? If he cannot wait then kick him out, Someone better will come around.