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Your question is a bit confusing considering that it makes no sense. What happens when your kid needs to start school? Will you follow her to school then to avoid being separated from him or her?

peacettw:
Your question is a bit confusing considering that it makes no sense. What happens when your kid needs to start school? Will you follow her to school then to avoid being separated from him or her?

Considering you are the only one who thinks such question is confusing or makes no sense, you should have just kept quiet!

Are you a mother?!

rully2:


Considering you are the only one who thinks such question is confusing or makes no sense, you should have just kept quiet!

Are you a mother?!

I am a mother of 5 and the 'only one' to reply this post in 3 weeks. That should at least tell you something.

For almost 48 hrs and counting, I have been in my workplace trying to save lives and striving hard to be a mother, wife and also a career woman all at the same time in other to help my hubby provide a better future for my kids and to ensure I lack nothing.

Millions of women do it successfully without their children growing up to be malfunctioned. Surely your child cannot be the only exception!

peacettw:


I am a mother of 5 and the 'only one' to reply this post in 3 weeks. That should at least tell you something.

For almost 48 hrs and counting, I have been in my workplace trying to save lives and striving hard to be a mother, wife and also a career woman all at the same time in other to help my hubby provide a better future for my kids and to ensure I lack nothing.

Millions of women do it successfully without their children growing up to be malfunctioned. Surely your child cannot be the only exception!

Does your response now not make better sense than the first?.

I mistakenly sent two threads on this topic and people responded more to the first thread, so know that it was not ignored, i simply ommited the content of this one. So yppou probably didn't get the fact of the message. Some mothers offered suggestions and directed me to another thread.

So now I'm only wondering why a mother of five would have sounded unsympathetic to the plight of another mother who happens to be new in the game and only needed some form of assurance from older mothers?!

rully2:


Does your response now not make better sense than the first?.

I mistakenly sent two threads on this topic and people responded more to the first thread, so know that it was not ignored, i simply ommited the content of this one. So yppou probably didn't get the fact of the message. Some mothers offered suggestions and directed me to another thread.

So now I'm only wondering why a mother of five would have sounded unsympathetic to the plight of another mother who happens to be new in the game and only needed some form of assurance from older mothers?!

If it's my response, then trust me it contains a great deal of sense. You just don't want to see it and I won't enable you to go on believing that you or your child can't cope. If I can do it and other moms did and are still doing it, then so can you.

peacettw:


If it's my response, then trust me it contains a great deal of sense. You just don't want to see it and I won't enable you to go on believing that you or your child can't cope. If I can do it and other moms did and are still doing it, then so can you.

I think she's a first time mum just like me, the thought of leaving your baby at 3 months (the normal maternity leave time) is just HEARTBREAKING true but I guess we'll get used to it (just like you have). I had to resign from work and start a business (the pay wasn't that good self) so I understand the need for the question. Your opinions are both correct.

No need for e-kasala BTW 5 kids is not a joke TUWALE

poshestmina:


I think she's a first time mum just like me, the thought of leaving your baby at 3 months (the normal maternity leave time) is just HEARTBREAKING true but I guess we'll get used to it (just like you have). I had to resign from work and start a business (the pay wasn't that good self) so I understand the need for the question. Your opinions are both correct.

No need for e-kasala BTW 5 kids is not a joke TUWALE

LOL.... I understand you dear. But I guess I took off on another note. I am sure op will do fine.

poshestmina:


I think she's a first time mum just like me, the thought of leaving your baby at 3 months (the normal maternity leave time) is just HEARTBREAKING true but I guess we'll get used to it (just like you have). I had to resign from work and start a business (the pay wasn't that good self) so I understand the need for the question. Your opinions are both correct.

No need for e-kasala BTW 5 kids is not a joke TUWALE

Thank you for getting the point