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Why Singles Run From Premarital Counseling by easyboss1(m): 7:50am On Jul 25, 2017
It is not a new thing to hear that singles run from attending

premarital counseling class but the thing of concern is why?

They prefer to run from it rather than learn from the strategies that have worked for people over the years.

Premarital counseling is an integral part of marriage and must not be taken for granted by any individual that wants to be successful in marriage. It is very important to attend premarital counseling class in order to build a great marriage, maintain love and keep the fire of romance burning in your marriage.

Listed below are some of the reasons some singles usually hate attending premarital class

They are Ignorant of the benefits of the class, though it is a general saying that ignorance is not an excuse and can never be an excuse when others are daily seeking to increase in knowledge. But, it is a sad thing that in this age and time, some singles still prefer to be ignorant without seeking information that can help them succeed.

Some Singles see it as a religious thing, it must be clearly known that premarital counseling is not about any religion but an avenue to learn from people that have gone ahead and are having a blissful marriage. You tend to benefit from their wealth of knowledge.

Some believe few Seminars they have attended here and there can be exchanged for premarital counseling class. They are two different things, even married people attend seminars to keep learning and building their home. So, marriage seminars and premarital counseling class are not the same.

While the above reasons are why some singles don’t attend premarital class, some also don’t attend because they feel they know it all and so don’t need to attend.

Whatever the case may be, as a single intending to be married, you will be doing yourself a lot of good by attending premarital class and in most cases it is free. So, you are not paying a dime.
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Re: Why Singles Run From Premarital Counseling by Niftyrules(m): 9:19am On Jul 25, 2017
Some people sha! What is bad in attending Premarital counselling.
Will it bite you?

After now they will be saying one 'Winsh' from their village is chasing them.
Winsh sef wan rest small abeg!
Re: Why Singles Run From Premarital Counseling by creative11(m): 10:29am On Jul 25, 2017
Some of the people that churches assigned such responsibility are archaic when it comes to the issue of marriage some of them are analog parents/elders that want to mentor digital children I don't see why singles we not run away from them.
I think am aware there is marriage school in town now they can attend to update them selves.
I will attach one of the fliers I saw on line about a marriage school may be we can share with every marriage committee of churches to attend.

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