chi gurl you sound like a girl who has been a bridesmaid several times but can't find a date. Ouch. I don't want to speak for other guys but human beings are human beings period. Oyinbo's, akatas, kokoyes and chinkos are humans beings also and not different species.
The truth of the matter is that most of the naija girls i've seen here in yanki are either downright ugly or average looking, they don't look like the beautiful ones in the UNILAG, IMSU, or UNIPORT campuses (and even those ones have bad attitudes). So i definitely, am not going to stoop low to marry someone i am not attracted to simply because they are naija. I believe that several other naija guys agree with me, can i get a witness.

Well, I believe folk should find love wherever they're most comfortable, there's no right or wrong choice.

@ Davidif: Like your signature, respect to Robert DeNiro, I agree whole heartedly!

"I love my women like i love my coffee, hot and black.
-Robert DeNiro"

Yes, some of us can’t help with whom we fall in love; but to the extent that one can, I would rather a Nigerian. A Nigerian woman is not likely to throw you out of your home; she is not likely to call the cops on you based on flimsy reasons; she is not likely to drag you through the judicial system; she is not likely to throw the divorce papers at you at the slightest provocation; she is not likely to turn her backs at you in times of financial difficulties and other crises. In order words: Nigerian women are likely to stay and be loving and generous and supportive for the long haul! Again and again and again, they have proven that of all God’s creations, they are the very best. And indeed, they are!

Nice one, but I totally disagree with it. Live here in the ATL, Nigerian women are sending naija men to jail for no good reasons and living large from child support. According to a local survey, the rate of divorce between Nigerian/Nigerian relationship in the state of GA, USA is above 50%.Greed and decit is the other of the day.

I would to say it's not all Nigerian girls that gives a damn if naija men marry foreigners. AS FOR ME I DO NOT CARE FOR SUCH RUBBISH.

since u call it rubbish, i guess it bothers u alot too

stillwater:

I would to say it's not all Nigerian girls that gives a damn if naija men marry foreigners. AS FOR ME I DO NOT CARE FOR SUCH RUBBISH.

u got a witness bro, hitting it right on the head. its like 9ja just ships out ugly girls out of the country man, u think it is a cultural purification?

davidif:

chi girl you sound like a girl who has been a bridesmaid several times but can't find a date. Ouch. I don't want to speak for other guys but human beings are human beings period. Oyinbo's, akatas, kokoyes and chinkos are humans beings also and not different species.
The truth of the matter is that most of the naija girls i've seen here in yanki are either downright ugly or average looking, they don't look like the beautiful ones in the UNILAG, IMSU, or UNIPORT campuses (and even those ones have bad attitudes). So i definitely, am not going to stoop low to marry someone i am not attracted to simply because they are naija. I believe that several other naija guys agree with me, can i get a witness.

davidif:

chi girl you sound like a girl who has been a bridesmaid several times but can't find a date. Ouch. I don't want to speak for other guys but human beings are human beings period. Oyinbo's, akatas, kokoyes and chinkos are humans beings also and not different species.
The truth of the matter is that most of the naija girls i've seen here in yanki are either downright ugly or average looking, they don't look like the beautiful ones in the UNILAG, IMSU, or UNIPORT campuses (and even those ones have bad attitudes). So i definitely, am not going to stoop low to marry someone i am not attracted to simply because they are naija. I believe that several other naija guys agree with me, can i get a witness.

I certainly do not agree. There are beautiful ones out there, the only problem is they are very difficult to find.

na2day?:

since u call it rubbish, i guess it bothers u alot too .

na2day
I just knew it that someone ("male" would arrive to a different meaning to my post to probably elevate his ego as a naija dude. I called it rubbish because I do not categorise myself as the "average naija girl" who cares if you marry the sun, moon and stars, OK?

na2day?:

u got a witness bro, hitting it right on the head. its like Nigeria just ships out ugly girls out of the country man, u think it is a cultural purification?

;DMaybe the ones you've been seeing are ugly like your sisters and nieces because I'm not ugly .

if u were half as beautiful as my sisters, u probably would have gotten a man right now, but i am so sure of ur ugliness. it shows the way u let out ur frustration online

stillwater:


na2day
I just knew it that someone ("male" would arrive to a different meaning to my post to probably elevate his ego as a naija dude. I called it rubbish because I do not categorise myself as the "average naija girl" who cares if you marry the sun, moon and stars, OK? ;DMaybe the ones you've been seeing are ugly like your sisters and nieces because I'm not ugly .

Gosh na2day, you killed me there . But I won't die. How old do you think I am? What constitutues my frustrations at this moment is passing my exams and not looking for husband, ok.

summary pls
too scared of headache to attempt reading it

Well Ifyalways, its all about naija girls giving themselves headaches over the fact that naija guys are marrying foreigners.

stillwater:

Well Ifyalways, its all about naija girls giving themselves headaches over the fact that naija guys are marrying foreigners.

thats a sweetie.thanks dear. it looks so simplified now.

@ topic well,both ways,one way are all WAYS

a likely story. 12 years old nowadays even have heart breaks because of guys not to talk of u.  we don dey hear this talk since wey yansh dey back. 

stillwater:

Gosh na2day, you killed me there . But I won't die. How old do you think I am? What constitutues my frustrations at this moment is passing my exams and not looking for husband, ok.

You are crazy

BACK TO SENDER

stillwater:

You are crazy

Were, madman before nyansh dey for front?

And I've never had my heart broken before, yeye man abi boy

WHY U DEY FRONT, NA WHO ASK U IF UR HEART DON BREAK B4? ABI NA GUILTY CONSCIENCE?

stillwater:

Were, madman before nyansh dey for front?

And I've never had my heart broken before, yeye man abi boy

Actually it was a response to your 12yr olds getting their hearts broken, Mr boy.

ovularia, u beta learn to read between the lines. anywayz, i have to go to bed, we will continue this talk lata. sweet dreams

stillwater:

Actually it was a response to your 12yr olds getting their hearts broken, Mr boy.

Hey I am a foreign wife my baby just told me tonight I am the best woman he has ever met even though I am foreign there is no wahala with me and I am not materialistic and indeed I am not. He then told me that in his afterlife (if there is one) he would hope to meet me in it. I agreed. Takes a whole lot of compromise to even half succeed. Thats why I am here.

sweet heart, u are a rare gem, God bless ur sweet soul; keep doing what u do best to make a happy home, some nigerian women dont even know the meaning of compromise. ***********do i see a stillwater frustration coming ***************

Leilah:

Hey I am a foreign wife my baby just told me tonight I am the best woman he has ever met even though I am foreign there is no wahala with me and I am not materialistic and indeed I am not. He then told me that in his afterlife (if there is one) he would hope to meet me in it. I agreed. Takes a whole lot of compromise to even half succeed. Thats why I am here.

You made me laugh right now . I told God this morning I would not curse anybody. And good for you Leilah.

Now na2day, what can I do to make it sink into your head that I don't care. Please give me the benefit of the doubt.

i am trying sis, i am trying but for some reason i believe u do care

stillwater:

You made me laugh right now . I told God this morning I would not curse anybody. And good for you Leilah.

Now na2day, what can I do to make it sink into your head that I don't care. Please give me the benefit of the doubt.

I rest my case

See, more bias once again.

Please explain what you mean na2day?

You think no matter what I do I am not capable of being taken seriously? please explain and clarify your comments.

nah, i am actually proud of u. i know u work hard on ur relationship and must be a good woman. my statement implication was that i wish every1 else knew what u know, which is, how to compromise with their partner to get a stable relationship that actually works and not a hollywood joke of a relationship. u r a good woman and i praise ur worth.

Leilah:

See, more bias once again.

Please explain what you mean na2day?

You think no matter what I do I am not capable of being taken seriously? please explain and clarify your comments.

if nigerian men marry outside nigeria i guess it is an advantage. b/c nigerian women suck . . . all of them, igbo, yoruba,fulani,hausa etc they all suck.

thank God my mama no be nigerian. perhaps my dad would have had hypertention now. . . or stroke

thank you na2day

YW

Leilah:

thank you na2day

does this include foreign wives from ghana,niger republic,cameroon,pakistan,afghanistan,iraq and other taliban countries?

yes it does! u got a problem with that?

OMUWUNMI:

does this include foreign wives from ghana,niger republic,cameroon,pakistan,afghanistan,iraq and other taliban countries?