My gf vistd a guy in d same skool wif me n spent 3dayz in his house and then proceedd 2 my own house.(6 months in2 our relationshp), 1yr n sum later i found out n calld 4 a brake up, she pleaded n promised 2 change, so i 4gave ha,bt lost my trust in her, months later she is still in contact wif this said guy, asked n she said itz jst on a friendship basis, 3yrz later, she givez out ha numba 2 evry guy who asks 4 it, b it in a bus, occassions etc, Do u think this girl is a one man woman, or she wants 2 test d water, i ve had series of talkz wif ha, she criez n promised 2 change n yet nada, CAN SHE CHANGE

Nope she aint changing!!! Even if she changes, she's misused her second chance _{which she shouldn't hv gotten in the first place}

hmmm

Tanx bro, couple of frendz said so, bt i deceided 2 hear 4rm pple who didnt kw me in person, guezz itz bout time i ended tiz relationshp

@poster
you should give a second chance to people who DESERVE it not just anyone. giving that gal a second chance was a mistake. i hope you are moving on with your life away from that rat because if you cant see that she has no respect for your relationship then nobody will.

check this thread who was on the exact same subject:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-382523.0.html

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
you should give a second chance to people who DESERVE it not just anyone. giving that gal a second chance was a mistake. i hope you are moving on with your life away from that rat because if you cant see that she has no respect for your relationship then nobody will.

check this thread who was on the exact same subject:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-382523.0.html

Rat, No no no, i take expectn 2 dat word, tiz gal in question i lv, so i want stand n all call ha namez, plz, dnt again, even if i leave ha, i will neva curse ha wif wordz, tanx 4 d link, learnt sumfin dere

Uc.Lloyd:

Rat, No no no, i take expectn 2 dat word, tiz gal in question i lv, so i want stand n all call ha namez, plz, dnt again, even if i leave ha, i will neva curse ha wif wordz, tanx 4 d link, learnt sumfin dere

the fact that you love her is irrelevant bro, look at the facts and if you are not ready to face the reality then dont come here asking for advices. she treats you like garbage and you are still talking about love?! where do they find people like you?! this is not love, this is called desperation.

i guess, if you feel so strongly about your gal then accept ANYTHING she does and be done with the questioning on NL.

MRbrownJAY:

the fact that you love her is irrelevant bro, look at the facts and if you are not ready to face the reality then dont come here asking for advices. she treats you like garbage and you are still talking about love?! where do they find people like you?! this is not love, this is called desperation.

i guess, if you feel so strongly about your gal then accept ANYTHING she does and be done with the questioning on NL.

lmao, thanx all d same, i kw wat 2 do sha

Oh please, cut off the sappy love bull. She cheated on you! I can't think of too many things that are more disrespectful than that. Are you waiting till she cheats on your matrimonial bed as well? Sure you love her, but she has repaid your love by spitting on you and showing a lack of care for your own feelings. That's piss poor love from her in my opinion. You can love her all you want but you probably deserve much better treatment than that.

^^exactly