I am not that desperate, but I will like to know and be advised:

My wife's intimacy has drastically dropped to -1 after 2 kids.
Pls what can I do to bring her back. I dont want the other side of this problem.
Doctors in the house, pls help me.

tayoor07@yahoo.com

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sad to hear that. its common for women to have low s[size=1pt]_.[/size]ex-drives after popping out kids
you have to find a way to spice up the relationship. unfortunately i'm no expert in that area.

Go to health section if u need help from an expert.

In most cases its like that. First talk with her to express how u feel. show her more love and understanding cos of her mutiplied chores.

most importantly make the environment conducive for expression of love. dont act "papa somebody" it draws women away, perfumes, flowers and suprises could make her feel eager again.

Dont forget good communication goes along ways to expose the mind.

sorry to hear that. I also go through the samething 2 years ago. what i can say is you need to be there for her, be patient with her and this is the time to show her love and care and with time things we normalise again. We need to be able to tolerate each other, marriage is give and take, we should not be selfish by thinking of receiving everytime. After all those trying time i and my wife have now come back to our pre dating time, we even do it everyday.

This is the first time I am getting real solution to problems on Nairaland.

I thank my people here for constructive ideas. It has started working for me. I pray real issues will continue to receive solutions here.

Thanks to Seun for this medium.

thanks to all nairalanders.

Remain blessed!