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Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by mark2sunny(m): 12:19pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
maclatunji: If you don't let it, then its not love. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by maclatunji: 12:20pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
deepwater: Ask Seun O. I am as innocent as 'Innocent Egbunike' O. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by linearity: 12:20pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
bukatyne: Am lost at the point you are trying to make here. The guy was not developing her at his own expense or do you think, if the lady had told this man something like this before, he would have continued? And the guy can't train himself simultaneously, the income is meager, plus someone have to work to make that money and their is little or no time left after trunk driving to go to school. This is the exact same scenario that plays out in the USA with especially Nigeria men, who are not professionals but do menial or contract work with their immigrant wives who they brought and Train to nursing school. Since the husband job is not constant and in-between, the wife eventually become the breadwinner and the only person with a steady income flow and trouble starts...and in many cases I have seen, it does not always end well for wife, husband and kids. 1 Like |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by vicmangs(m): 12:20pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
She can upgrade his status or better still pay back every penny he spend on her three times. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by maclatunji: 12:22pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
tigonana: I won't lie, this went through my mind too. The guy should just have extreme patience. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by BigNickTrading: 12:22pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
bukatyne: Nice comment. The best she can do is change him to the kind of man she desires. That man is an angel in disguise. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by mark2sunny(m): 12:22pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
FortuneTeller: You are as wicked as the girl in question |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by mark2sunny(m): 12:24pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
FortuneTeller: Somehow I agree with you on this |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by Tsmart1(m): 12:25pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
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Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by Missonas(f): 12:25pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
She should help him up his game as well. Thats what she should do..Symbiosis. That way even if they dont end up together nobody feels used |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by maclatunji: 12:25pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
mark2sunny: LOL, who is feeding you with this lie? Biko, my own love is not blind O. It is even wearing spectacles sef. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by Seanpierce: 12:26pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
DuBLINGreenb:with what money? Lol |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by KAYD007(m): 12:28pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Jazmiynne: True Talk!! 1 Like |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by AuroraB(f): 12:28pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:They. Are. Coming. For. You. Remember, for most people, it's a one-way traffic For all saying, she must marry him, it's best they gorge their eyes out of hatred for each other to please you lot 1 Like |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by Nobody: 12:29pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Jazmiynne:If the situation were reversed now, you go dey preach to us how men ain't worth sh*t...but you do make some valid points, it's a mistake to groom anyone with intent of any prospective filial relationship ....however, it does appear from the little info garnered here that the man may have committed a lot of effort and time to the vision of being wedded to a well educated lady...she would be embittering a visionary man irrespective of how absurd the situation may have become...dumping the man after graduation portrays her as no more than a dupe without any integrity. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by vislabraye(m): 12:30pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
maclatunji: There's no way he won't feel hurt. She's selfish. Stories like this are so common. I hope people learn when investing so much resources in a lady or guy with the hope of getting married. Most of the time it won't work out. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by MrEgghead(m): 12:33pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
maclatunji:Based on the story line,The man must have asked for her hand in marriage.personally,I wouldn't advice her to go ahead with the marriage because of what need would the marriage with hatred and discomfort be.Rather,I'd blame the man having that mentality that she's going to be her wife..For the fact you've helpful to someone doesn't warrant you getting something in return. Personally I help others without expecting something in return from them.This erases any disappointments that may arise when things don't work out as planned. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:37pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
I dont have a problem with her wanting to leave him, I have a problem with her REASON for leaving him. She's mad! 1 Like |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by Dexema(m): 12:41pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Just get her a pack of cold farmfresh yoghurt and peppered meat with a good dose of otapiapia, kill and dry or better still sniper. Useless human being. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by maclatunji: 12:42pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: LOL. Sometimes when people are suffering and we pity them, we do not know that they would become monsters when they have been uplifted from their predicament. 1 Like |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by Excellentmind: 12:45pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
This is really not new in the history of relationship between man and woman. But my concern is why is it taking so long for men to understand that such is a deadly venture that is not worthy of engaging in. As for the advice, there is no way or tactics to adopt in order not to hurt him. But since you have decided to repay good and commendable gesture with ingratitude, born out of lawyer level and classical sentiment, go ahead and spill the beans, for divinity will grant him a heart of gold to absorb the shock and move on with his life. But remember, there is always a reward for every action! |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by precious1967(m): 12:49pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
my advice to d lady is to reciprocate by sendin d man to school to meet her status. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by Jumbus31(m): 12:49pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
maclatunji:You dey mind this one? Hypocrite |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by Dexema(m): 12:50pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
FortuneTeller: From the details we can obtain from the story there has always been a hint of a relationship from the onset, so its not like he wants to enslave her for helping her it's more of helping himself through his lover and future wife by doing all he could to help her get an education. This makes the lady in question a scam artist who couldn't refuse his help back then but rather played to the gallery to get all she can from him. However, I agree with you on one thing and that's that he should just let go because he won't even enjoy his life with her cos she will do all in her power to make his life miserable. 1 Like |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by trendyprettygir: 12:53pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Na wa oo! Which kind of story is this? My advice to both parties - Karma never forgets! |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by djon78(m): 12:54pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
It is very painful, but if I was the guy, I will just dust myself, pick myself up and move on. One big truth people don't realise about life, which I have come to realise is that whatever you sow you will reap. This is the truth and nothing but the truth, but many people out of ignorance overlook this fact, then when they begin to reap all the seeds they sowed, they will start running helter-skelter. When you sow good things into people's life like in relationships and you get rewarded with evil, never be troubled because you will get the reward back. And most times the reward comes from a better mate than the one that did you bad. I am talking from experience. People may call you mumu or stupid, because most human beings are very selfish, let it never stop you from still sowing good things into people's life when next you have the opportunity. That guy should move on, it will be painful, but he should never be discouraged because as long as there is day and night, he will get a very better Reward, far better than that lady. 2 Likes |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by IFNOTGOD(m): 12:55pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
FortuneTeller: if u know wat it means n d deception she may have used to collect d cash den u wudnt say so, in as much as i support u in saying d man shud move on but d word pay him back is fees is a no no for me, i did same for a girl, she wud say she wud marry me, from delta i came to lag on transfer n still helped her true sch, finally she graduated last yr n i sent her to learn a trade i borrowed d cash to do dat n on feb 2017 she ran away wit a guy she felt he had more cash n had to lie to friends about me so dey wudnt blame her n by March 2017 dey broke up, her friend called to say she was suffering n i sent her some money n she said she has repented n ready to go learn d work which she stopped half way, she begged to come visit n i allowed her n den i realised she fooled me again i got angry n beat her cos for d two yrs n 6 months i dated her i have always been abused by her, checked her fone saw d oda guy n oda guys pics n cudnt find mine n d pain was just too much i beat her n in july on my birthday seh refused to post my pics wit d excuse dat we are many she cant post only my own on her dp, n den revelations started coming out how she slept wit a guy she told me was just a friend, i forgave her n a week later she started again with d insult but den wat pained me most was dat she goes about telling d new toasters how am older dan her, where as i told her my age n asked her if she was ok she said yes, now tell me fortune how much can she pay me back, d only thing u can tell me is work away.but its not easy cos two yrs n 6 months is not a joke not to talk of 12yrs for a guy to b abused by a lady for 2yrs not dat am crippled or she feeds me o,infact money n fud stuff she will use it to feed guys n my shirt she wud borrow to male friends though i have let go cos she wanted to leave but d hurt is there, relationship is not same as injury not all heal, in my own case i had to move on for two weeks now i have been recovering daily n praying for help, now i have girls coming but i cant really do anything cos i like to b alone. DEC her pay was higher to wat i sent to is more dan wat i gave to my mum*3 n to my younger ones hmmm i no know d percentage but i knew i did eveil to my mum to give an ungrateful girl more cash dan my own mum. 1 Like |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by doyinbaby(f): 12:55pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
If she doesn't want to marry him.......she should calculate the amount he has spent on her multiple by three (because of inflation over ten years) and pay him back.............she should settle him financially |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by ijalobafeetal: 12:56pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
wait ooooo, this isn't a matter to be deliberated on. she must marry am shikena. what nonsense. haaa radarada. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by einsteine(m): 12:58pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Let her pay him off with applicable commercial interest rate on the money he has spent on her. |
Re: The Tragic Love Story Of A Lawyer And Truck Driver by Nobody: 1:02pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
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