say you had intimacy with your former SO and the condom broke. you got pregnant and had an abortion. it's not a habit. it was a mistakeyou terribly regret that you have now moved on from.

should you share these kinds of dark secrets from your past with your SO or take them to the grave, knowing that if you reveal the dark secrets to your SO it will most likely dampen the relationship even if it doesn't immediately lead to a breakup.

some say it's okay as long you did not lie about it, some say it depends, others believe brutal honesty will clear one's conscience.

wetin una think?

Ignorance is bliss. There is nothing new under the sun,so what's the big deal as long as you didn't star in a porn video, stop thinking of your actions in terms of guilt and live your life. Everyone makes mistakes and we don't own up to them all.

S o?

iice:

What's SO?

Depends on where i am in the relationship. Emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

SIGNIFICANT OTHER i.e boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancee or partner

It's better to let the sleeping dog, comfortable.