HOW DO YOU VIEW MARRIAGE

DO YOU THINK THAT IT COMPULSORY

FOR EVERYONE TO GET MARRIED?

OR

ONLY THE ONES THAT WISH TO?

It depends on what you want in life

Each time i tell people i only need baby mama and wont be getting married...



They look me as someone stupid..
So i decide to keep my thought to myself.

The problem in marriage is much more than the joy when MONEY is not involve(even when true love is involve)



I once teach in a primary school and i withness the challenges many married people faced when it comes to money issues.. Some wife do come to me and explain the challenges they are facing at home all because of 20k school fees.


I live in a face me and slap you apartment.there was this my neighbour who fight often,the only moment you see them play is when the wife is cooking in the kitchen...



My thought,marriage is not compulsory when you are not ready.....


loving your partner or age shouldnt be the only factor to be consider before getting married.



With the little experience of mine,i decide to remain single or look for someone who accept to be a baby mama(optional) till am wealthy enough to get married.

Marriage isn't a right or heritage, it isn't a must, or a necessity.

It's something that u wanna embark upon, because u wanna embark on it. It's like a responsibility that u take upon, because u feel u want to move into the 'next level' of life.(P.S, i believe there are so.many "next levels" of life )

It's not an achievement, or a trophy.

It's something that u feel will make u feel good, or fulfilled(like falling in love, and getting hitched with the love of ur life )

So, the logic is(not just for marriage, but everything in life), do what makes u fulfilled in a good way, that won't negatively affect others.

Its not compulsory but the society makes it look so.

It isn't.