PDPGuy:
I see nothing wrong with his move. After all, now that they are married, the apartment now belongs to both of them.

FortuneTeller:


My dear friend, I'm going to give you some advice. Never ever move into a woman's home. Move her into yours or move in together. I have never seen it work out for any man. I can personally attest to this as well. If the man comes in without his own, a level of mutual respect will be missing. Don't try it.

PDPGuy:


Moving into the woman's apartment may be a temporary move until they find a new place. Maybe he stays in a studio whilst she lives in a one-bedroom apt. Of course, they could both contribute towards the payment of the rent for their new place

Femsyn:
Don't let love becloud your judgment. Theoretically, there shouldn't be any hassle, after all they are now one, but practically, I have never seen this work ever.

A woman will forever be a woman. I'm not trying to demonise them, no no, far from it, but you don't leave a yam in care of a goat!

Sooner or later, your ego will question all her actions and she will react with her "wonderfully" made mouth.
Don't even make it temporal.

Kseafresh:
It's very wrong ...Mess up and One day she'll Chase you out

MrBrownJay1:
there is nothing wrong with the act, unless you are a low self esteem insecure man. you guys marry for better or worse, isnt it?



you mean, she will DIVORCE him, and get her house back?! whats wrong with that?! who would even want to stay with a woman who does NOT want to be with you?! what kind of insecure muppet is that?! if she doesnt want to be with you then get the fukc out of there. marriage is NOT by force!

FortuneTeller:


My dear friend, I'm going to give you some advice. Never ever move into a woman's home. Move her into yours or move in together. I have never seen it work out for any man. I can personally attest to this as well. If the man comes in without his own, a level of mutual respect will be missing. Don't try it.

Femsyn:
Don't let love becloud your judgment. Theoretically, there shouldn't be any hassle, after all they are now one, but practically, I have never seen this work ever.

A woman will forever be a woman. I'm not trying to demonise them, no no, far from it, but you don't leave a yam in care of a goat!

Sooner or later, your ego will question all her actions and she will react with her "wonderfully" made mouth.
Don't even make it temporal.

@emboldened got me lmao!

PDPGuy:
I see nothing wrong with his move. After all, now that they are married, the apartment now belongs to both of them.

MrBrownJay1:
there is nothing wrong with the act, unless you are a low self esteem insecure man. you guys marry for better or worse, isn't it?

you mean, she will DIVORCE him, and get her house back?! what's wrong with that?! who would even want to stay with a woman who does NOT want to be with you?! what kind of insecure muppet is that?! if she doesn't want to be with you then get the fukc out of there. marriage is NOT by force!

Femsyn:
Don't let love becloud your judgment. Theoretically, there shouldn't be any hassle, after all they are now one, but practically, I have never seen this work ever.

A woman will forever be a woman. I'm not trying to demonise them, no no, far from it, but you don't leave a yam in care of a goat!

Sooner or later, your ego will question all her actions and she will react with her "wonderfully" made mouth.
Don't even make it temporal.

mysticwarrior:
you are very correct, some women will even go as far as to subject the man to all form insults, the man will have no say on who the woman bring in as visitors. A woman may coax you to stay in her house but my brother when the music changes, you will helplessly be filled with surprise when she begins to exercise authority over you, some of them will even refuse to open the door for you the day you come home late, and if you question her action she will throw your property outside, a woman she is and a woman she will always remain, it happened to a man in man street, and am only giving my opinion judging from my own eye witness experience.

Kseafresh:
It's very wrong ...Mess up and One day she'll Chase you out

My dear friend, I'm going to give you some advice. Never ever move into a woman's home. Move her into yours or move in together. I have never seen it work out for any man. I can personally attest to this as well. If the man comes in without his own, a level of mutual respect will be missing. Don't try it.

PaperLace:


For most men, it's an ego problem _nothing more. If I am the woman, I will prefer we get a new place, I don't want any man's insecurity to give me headache. I won't even be with an insecure man to start with.



It's the revised standard marriage. They marry each other, take vows _ while they plan how to outdo each other in their hearts. Then you hear statements like "a woman will always be a woman and men will always be men". They use that statement to justify the Great Wall of China, they surround themselves with inside a marriage.

Why be with someone you have to so protect yourself from?!

PaperLace:

For most men, it's an ego problem _nothing more. If I am the woman, I will prefer we get a new place, I don't want any man's insecurity to give me headache. I won't even be with an insecure man to start with.

It's the revised standard marriage. They marry each other, take vows _ while they plan how to outdo each other in their hearts. Then you hear statements like "a woman will always be a woman and men will always be men". They use that statement to justify the Great Wall of China, they surround themselves with inside a marriage.

Why be with someone you have to so protect yourself from?!

MrBrownJay1:


if it is an ego issue then THIS man is the problem and should work on his own demon...but what shocks me is that you would actually move and get a new place accommodate such low self esteem insecurity in your own union?! then you are no better than these deluded men.

these are damaged people, and anyone should run away from these miserable people.

PaperLace:


True, that's why I said I won't even be with such a man in the first place. Though some people go ahead to marry such people, then device various mechanisms to make it work _ (e.g) the illustration I gave of getting a new place.



You can say that again.

ahnie:
You need advice.....all these my friend crew has started again.

Femsyn:
I can tell you categorically that as we speak right now, a friend's once loving family is being threatened by this same singular decision. Some of us warned him then, but was equally quick to mention "low self-esteem", "insecurity", "misogyny" and other big big grammar.

My stance is not based on what I read, but what has been experienced by friends and colleagues - Never ends well. But all the same, I would love to learn from the experiences of those whose result went differently.

PaperLace:


For your friend's single case, there are 10> cases of women being at the receiving end. What do you suggest for those women? They shouldn't move into their husbands house because men will always be men, right?

Do you people ever see the good marriage experiences of friends and colleagues?

Femsyn:


No PaperLace, you are getting it wrong, it's not about who is at the receiving end. In fact, for now, just assume I'm not a male. The marriage is the entity I'm concerned about. They say, where two elephants fight, the grass suffers. In this case, the grasses are the children and marriage itself.

When the chips are down, they both suffer, wife and husband. Back to the example I gave, currently, the wife and husband are living separately, because the husband suddenly rented a new apartment without the opinion of the wife. In this case, they are both suffering, their marriage is suffering and their little child shares in it too.

OP, I would like to ask, why does he want to move to his wife's apartment? Proximity? Some peculiarities? Or he is broke?