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Yinabim:
Hello Everyone,

I am writing here for the first time, i don't know how to feel about this because i a very private person but since the death of my husband i had to wake up everyday to sadness. I never knew the extent of pain people feel when they lose their loved ones until now. I cant even concentrate on anything else and his family are making things difficult for themselves already.

I'm so young and with a 2 year old daughter, i just hope God help me scale through this storm. I'll come here to update this page as things unfold.

The story
My husband is a very kind man, he is way older than I am because he was a divorcee , ultimately he loved God and was very prayerful, I’ve known him for over seven years but we got married 4years ago and legalized the marriage in 2022.
He has 5 children plus my two years old makes 6, tbh my husband is a very wonderful man and I doubt if men like him still exist. He holds my hands in middle of the night praying for me and my baby, he loved me sincerely. He met me in 100level and waited till I finished school. Anyways after I had a baby he said he wanted me to go to Canada to further my studies. I didn’t want to go because I was thinking of how he would cope without me, he promised to come every quarter and assured me it was for the best.

I left Nigeria in 2023 (April) , his last visit was January 2024, he was preparing to come again in September, however, I got the news of his death July 17th 2024. My whole world came crashing. I didn’t believe it, why did God give me such a wonderful man only to take him away from me suddenly.

For clarity purpose, it’s important to state that he has six children including mine

First child (female) married and resides in Australia
My husband told me that her mother (woman A) had walked out of the marriage because he was poor, saying “she wouldn’t sit down with him in poverty” . They never had a legal marriage. So Woman A left to marry another man.


Woman B, legally married him had four children (two males and two females), I didn’t hear her side of the story and out of respect for her, I’ll just say irreconcilable differences, he decided he couldn’t move on with her and he divorced her. He however left her in their matrimonial house and left her with the water factory which she was running, although he didn’t hand over the documents


I am woman C.

I came home for the funeral, but before I could make it home , Woman A’s daughter has gotten home, gone to my matrimonial home and cleared all documents.

Please note that , no one ever lived with my husband and I in the house apart from my younger brother, Woman A daughter has also never visited the house.

My husband was into properties and he has two schools also (primary and secondary in different locations) .
Durning my stay in Nigeria, Woman A’s daughter (lady A) has conducted herself like a kind person , although I saw red flags but in my state of grief I didn’t think much about them, from Fighting for my husband’s phones , to taking away his SUV, changing security guards at the gate etc. I honestly didn’t see her as a greedy person.

I came back to Canada that same week, she already brought in some lawyers who will handle letter of Administration and help oversee estate matters. Myself and all the children were on the same page till lady A said she wanted to be the sole signatory to the schools account.

I disagreed and suggested that three of us (myself, Lady A and one of woman B children) should sign concurrently alongside on all transactions.

Lady A was so adamant about the signatory issue that she started to throw shades and subtle insults , I stood my ground and it took her lawyer’s intervention before she agreed. Since then I have become lady As enemy.

Guess what?
Lady A in recent development had instructed the security that no one should enter into my matrimonial home without her permission, I sent my brother there on two occasions and he was denied access, I can’t imagine seeking the permission of lady A who is in Australia in her husbands house before entering my own husbands house, a place she has never lived in or visited!! I don’t want this to lead to legal suits here and there, but these people are not so gentle and peaceful, I paid my dues in that house it was uncompleted when I married my husband and I contributed in my own way.
I am not greedy and I’m willing to meet everyone in middle but Nigerians are so terrible, she is in Australia and she knows no one can do these nonsense abroad but they take advantage of gentility.

auska2:
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nolamicautos:
I never thought I’d be in a place where I’d have to ask for help, but I’m truly desperate right now. I’m not lazy. I have a commission-based job, but with prices soaring, I haven’t been able to make a single sale. My wife, our kids, and I haven’t had anything to eat all through yesterday. In fact, we’ve been without food since Tuesday afternoon. I feel so hopeless, and I don’t know where else to turn. If anyone can find it in their heart to help us with even the smallest bit of cash for food, it would mean everything. I’m so sorry for asking like this, but we’re really struggling.

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Ahirah7:
N1000 is like a million Naira to me right now, if you help, consider yourself saving a soul today, I will be so grateful.

auska2:
Can it go for 3.5m

InfoGuru118:
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AmalaAtiEwedu:
I visited Makurdi for the first time 2 weeks ago for a contract that pays very well. it is to last for about a month and work started fully few days ago.

so far, i have met some girls here and it wasn’t a difficult thing to get them to off pant. some I met in person and hit it off. others on social media or tinder. some will form, so won’t and are straightforward to the point.

see an example of the chat I had with the one I just fvcked this very afternoon

I will still call her later for some of my guys that are working with me.

I gave her only 5k . initially she said 15k

AmalaAtiEwedu:
I visited Makurdi for the first time 2 weeks ago for a contract that pays very well. it is to last for about a month and work started fully few days ago.

so far, i have met some girls here and it wasn’t a difficult thing to get them to off pant. some I met in person and hit it off. others on social media or tinder. some will form, so won’t and are straightforward to the point.

see an example of the chat I had with the one I just fvcked this very afternoon

I will still call her later for some of my guys that are working with me.

I gave her only 5k . initially she said 15k

chatinent:
The man who said "the farmers will make more money, cassava, agbado, beans, Ewa zgsbdjdjdhdjsjs.." has not even done a single thing to better the lives of the people.

The overrated individual who ushered in Buhari, the calamity from Daura, led many astray with the illusion that Nigeria flourished under his stewardship. Buhari blamed Jonathan throughout his reign, for Jonathan was of the PDP. Tinubu, the god of hardship, cast shadows upon Buhari, yet spared the APC from his arrows of blame. In the blink of an eye, the price of fuel has soared from ₦165 per litre, with subsidy in hand, to a staggering ₦1300 per litre, still under the cloak of subsidy. And it is not a matter of debate as to who claims the ₦1125 per litre with each transaction made.


Even the Isrealites didn't suffer this much!

Farmers cannot go to their farms due to insecurity.

No money.

The rate of crime has increased.

The rate of prostitution and internet fraud is in an all time high. It's not even seen as a crime anymore on the street.

Imagine that your salary cannot fuel your car for two weeks.

Taxes were increased on bank transfers.

The police and the army are littered on the road enforcing payment of bribe. The disbanded SARZ roam the streets, flying off from Siennas and ensnaring the unsuspecting. And when you are spotted with a lighter, you find yourself besieged until you yield to their demands for a bribe. In Nigeria, you struggle to tell friend from foe, as the line between those who guard your safety and those who threaten it blurs like shadows at dusk.

MTN blocked those who did the 1tb plan from sharing. A grand deception, cloaked in shadows. They are aware they dwell in a land where the unexpected is the norm. Even the network providers may be pulling the wool over your eyes. One may purchase the data trove of 100gb, yet when it finishes, the tally may reveal only 62gb spent in the span of a month. In these times, it seems that the shadows of kidnapping, armed robbery, and other misdeeds have woven themselves into the fabric of our daily lives. In the land where shadows loom, the voice of the people is stifled, for to rise against the darkest of rulers is to dance with danger, facing the specter of treason and the weight of terror's chains.

The man who claims he built Lagos though subsequent governors of the state (not even his own tenure) can no longer mix cement.

If you complain, some sponsored nitwits will tell you that America and Nigeria are buying fuel almost equivalent so it's kinda cheaper in Nigeria. Cheaper? Is there any worker in America earning the ₦30k equivalent in dollars o'er there?

There are no jobs available.

EFCC is an emergency operational agency with closed eyes for politicians. The EFCC have refused to arrest Bello, who has been declared wanted, in a small state like Kogi. DSS is quiet; Army is quiet; Police is quiet; the DFHQ has lost her voice. If it were peaceful demonstrations, though, they would threaten bodybags. Emergency lovers of oneness, law, and truth.

If the economy was better, we wouldn't need to be reminded every 24hrs, we would have felt it.


Yet,

Tinubu is utilizing the nation's resources without our consent for his own extravagant comforts, silencing any dissent with arrests. His misguided daughter is imposing undue burdens on market people in a manner that lacks constitutional legitimacy. Yet, some educated illiterates would be worshipping her: "iyaloja, iyaloja."


Spiritual leaders are proclaiming that divine revelations indicate our nation is grappling with profound spiritual challenges, urging us to engage in prayer. The individual who shares a cup of tea with the divine has transcended the mundane concerns of where to find Ovaltine. Soaring through the skies in lavish private jets, acquired with the hard-earned contributions of impoverished churchgoers, all while surrounded by armed security, and urging them to seek divine protection through prayer. The other ugly one is selling fake items to stupid people. Dear DaddyGOs, God told me that e no go better for you and na your generations go suffer am.



History will hurt.

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Oxdorf:
Hi guys, my question is about Legalization and notarization of documents in Abuja.
The agent I had contacted gave me a very unreasonable price so right now, I'm considering going there myself to do it.
The documents are:
Police Character Certificate
WAEC Certificate
My High school transcript
Birth certificate.
They are all 1page each. Please guys, how much would it cost me to notarize and legalize all of them(respectively)?
Your answers would be highly appreciated.

Stargangz:
What Is The Safest Area To Live In Cotonou?

Andyblaze:
My friend has 4m available and wants to Japan. He's not a Nairalander so I'm here posting for him.

What country can that take him to...?

Wimkeh:
When a girl denies you sex, by men’s standard, you’re supposed to deny them money and also attention.

But what happens when you go broke and can’t provide for your babe. Is it okay if she denies you only sex?

Vikkyexman:
It's like visa officer just pack November 10th applications for one side. Mine too was November 10th, no decision yet as well

BluntCrazeMan:
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SoftChordz:
Good day folks, please I need your input in this. Which country can 8 million take someone to. I mean like the first world countries and what type of visa is the best one can go for?

Gatess:
THE UNDERRATED COTONOU

Since I was born till date, we Nigerians have always looked down on a lot of neighboring countries like Cameroon, Togo, Benin Republic etc.
Well, you are not to be blamed if you are among those who look down on some of these countries, even when we have not had an opportunity to cross border.
Bro I schooled in Benin, that place is a complete mess nothing is cheap there, have you looked at the exchange rate lately Even if you buy a bag of rice for 20k cfa and you convert that money to Naira it’s about 40k Naira, please if you don’t have money don’t near that place please, Benin is a nice place if you’ve made money and your going there to spend it, girls there do hookup and the guys do yahoo, in terms of electricity the have 247 light and water but then, it’s not just worth it plus the scorching sun there Omoh

Well I was one of those people who actually looked down on most of these countries until I had an opportunity to sail round west Africa and the narratives changed.

Meanwhile I was completely marvelled the first time I visited Cotonou, the business hub of Benin Republic about 4 years ago when Patrice Talon newly took office
Two years after I re-visited, after touring round other west African countries. I spent 3 days here and without a waste of time, I concluded to relocate down to this place based on the level of development I saw, the security, serenity etc.

Finally I am now living here and I have no regret so far.

I will say this country is blessed with the best president who is working tirelessly to improve the living conditions of his beloved citizens and I am glad hearing citizens saying positive things about the president.

Things You Don't Know About Benin Republic...

*They have currently have one of the best roads/road network in west Africa
* The maintain law and order
* Security is good
* Security personnels are friendly and don't intimidate anyone. If caught intimidating you, he or she will severely be punished
" If you are caught in a robbery attack which involves gun, forget it, u are gun forever.
* Electricity is 247. No low voltage or unecessarily interruptions.
* Steady clean water supply by the government at an affordable rate
* 247 transport system cos of good security
* Night life is topnotch.. in fact their balling na night with street light almost every nook and cranny of the city.
* Amazing beaches with super duper fun.
* Nice Bilingual schools for your kids
*Stress free movement without traffic jam.
* Policemen scattered at every nook and cranny of the town to maintain law and order and not for stop and search.
* Drugs are only bought or sold at a registered pharmacies and not from quacks or roadside vendors
* Foreigners almost have same right with citizen and can't be treated anyhow
*Women are like egg here. Any maltreatment or mistreatment, you will face the law.
*Public school, go to sch by 7:30am and return home for break by 12noon and return back to school by 3pm to dismiss between 6-7pm Monday- Friday
* You can choose to relocate from your rented apartment after a month or two cos of the privilege of monthly payment plan
* Their money now more valuable than naira in black market
*This is the only safe transit route coming from other African countries to Nigeria. Of course you should know how that helps an economy.
*Internet is steady and fast but a bit expensive
*Pepper body no common here like naija
* ETC

Business Opportunities
From My Findings So Far...

*Tailoring is a place to explore especially when you sew English wears and Nigerian attires
* Sales of any kind of electronics which you can bring from Nigeria and Togo cos they are cheaper over there and expensive here.
* Sales of second hand phones and laptops, not forgetting their accessories too. Very lucrative
* Nigerian foods are in high demand especially areas where Nigerians live more. U go sell tire
* Sales of sewing machines(more of manual)and it's accessories are in high demand cos this is their major skill work with hairdressing.
* Phone and laptop repairs needs serious attention here cos most of the engineers are not competent enough
* Sales of motor parts/bike parts. Both are very good biz here too.
* Bilingual schools are still in high demand in some places including teachers.
* Transportation biz- As a naija man, u will do better plying from border to town, if you are a smart. As an okada rider, concentrate around Tokpa, Misebo and Beach, you will be fine too.
Those who are into okirika(2nd clothes, shoes & bags), it's still very profitable till date but you must have a good contact for you not to be cheated.
Etc


Let me drop my pen here for now. I will be sharing some photos of the places I have been to like the beaches etc . So stay tuned as we will be dropping more information to give you a comprehensive info about the country generally.

Dannydrums889:
Hello Nairalanders

Happy Festive Season 🎊🎈🎉

As we all know that year (2023) is gradually coming to an end

So this year has been a great one to some people while some is "Let's just thank God" and some is the other direction
Made real millions this year, my best year so far
So tell us in one word how the year 2023 is to you

MINE: Is splendid and fabulous

So tell us your own