sirusX:

She could have seen the red flags from the get go, yet she kept spending the man's money. He was tying to collect dividends hoping she was feeling him online

We really need to be mindful of the people we meet on social media. Fake lives dwell everywhere

On another note, shez really strong to be a 2 time survivor and still have the courage to trust men. Most ladies resolve to end there cz it's not easy

soberdrunk:
"2 time rape survivor' and you went out to meet man, ordered 'Long Island', drank it and still followed man to his house. This is in no way 'victim blaming' but if you read the story well and check her out on Instagram, it seems she likes to lead men on.........

folakemigeh:
I won't bother to listen to the audio. My dad use to tell me that if you don't want to fall for any man, do not stay back and listen to him. If i can stand to listen to you and go out with you on a date, it's because i see you as someone worth it and i wont blame you if anything bad happens to me eventually

Flaghouse1:


You comment makes sense, sorry to say I think that lady is very stupid,how can you follow a guy out because you feel you share same ideology on some discourse and went ahead to believe he cannot behave otherwise

folakemigeh:
I won't bother to listen to the audio. My dad use to tell me that if you don't want to fall for any man, do not stay back and listen to him. If i can stand to listen to you and go out with you on a date, it's because i see you as someone worth it and i wont blame you if anything bad happens to me eventually

All these shallow comments. How will you know a guy is worth it without staying back and listening to him and some ignorant îdiots liked this trash

UndisputedBosom:
Is she tryin to xplain what happened that she couldn't finish and also insultin us on the same hand


Somebody tell me cox ayam not understandin

thesuave10:


All these shallow comments. How will you know a guy is worth it without staying back and listening to him and some ignorant îdiots liked this trash

folakemigeh:
I won't bother to listen to the audio. My dad use to tell me that if you don't want to fall for any man, do not stay back and listen to him. If i can stand to listen to you and go out with you on a date, it's because i see you as someone worth it and i wont blame you if anything bad happens to me eventually

folakemigeh:
Instincts my dear, Instincts!!!

thesuave10:


How do you get those instincts? Is it not by talking to him. The fact is that if you want to know if someone is "worth it" you must listen and observe because if all your instincts is by just looking OR hearing from people you will end up being shallow

Evaberry:
Online people and their wahala

I won't advise anyone to try it

most are liars who will never take u seriously

folakemigeh:
She might not be actually stupid, but i just guess she's the type of girls that quickly judge a man and assume evil deeds even when he's intent isn't pointing towards that direction

folakemigeh:
I would have loved to school you more on girl's instinct but I'm kinda too busy to write long.
A lady doesn't need to listen to a man before he knows that man. Just like u said "observe". Whenever u say hi with me online, i go through all your online posts you have made, i deduce some facts from there. From there we strike an online conversation where i put u on a hot seat.

NB: How do you think we ladies know when Emeka don make am, even though we haven't seen or talked in years and the moment he "makes it" different forgotten girls calls troop in?

Flaghouse1:


You may be right, to me I will advise young girls to be very careful of the social media as in time past unpalatable stories about kidnapping,death etc of promising ladies were reported some years back. I think these stories should be like a timetable in their minds,The economy is really not helping as people with good heart have changed within this new dispensation.
Don't judge a book by its cover ,do a thorough background check,

Why do people love thinking shallow. This is just psychology and your brain playing games on you, you're 5 times more likely to have all these bad things happen to you in real life than via social media. The issue is because it's via social media so it adds more tricky psychological concerns to the human mind. Also there's literally nothing you can do with your background checks because anyone who is coming online to get girls will always watch the way he posts. It's like a man registering as a woman. Do you think, he's gonna come online and chat like a man? and some social medias are different for example nairaland, unless the lady is jobless if you have work, some people school, businesses going through a random guy's up to 5000 posts will be the last thing on your mind. You might go through some but it's difficult to go through everything