ROBOTIC PARENTS!

If parents will learn to touch their children a lot, most especially the girls, saying "I love you" to them as often as possible, hugging them, giving them pecks on the cheeks and fore head (especially from mum to the girls) and meeting their financial and material needs when needed, not acting like robots who only issue commands, most innocent girls and boys won't be taken advantage of!

These kids are desperately searching for love at the wrong places! The girls are looking for a father figure in the boyfriends, the boys are looking for their mother in the girlfriends and we know a boy and a girl can't parent each other!

Touch your children a lot! Let them feel your warmth and love. Meet their emotional, spiritual and financial needs at home and they won't go looking for it else where!

I hug my boys a lot. My husband hugs both of them after they wake up, rub his hand on their heads before asking him to prostrate and greet. My son says regularly, "mummy, I like you..." I respond enthusiastically, "I love you too..." I want him to get plenty affirmation at home so he won't get carried away by Jezebels.

My son is very handsome and I tell him so. I shower prayers on him daily and he prays for me too. Yesterday, he kept pouring prayers on me and my heart swelled with love...

My toddler has this intelligent, no nonsense gaze! I and hubby smile and play a lot with him, he's learning to laugh, hug and show dad and mum plenty of affection. When these kids' needs are meant at home, they won't fall victims of sexual abuse, rape, incest and exploitation by pedophiles...may the Lord grant us understanding!

Singles, do not marry a man or woman who is irresponsible! If he doesn't have time for you, how will he have time for the children? Think and pray very well before you choose. Your future is at stake! Good morning and have a blessed day ahead. Feel free to share...God bless you, cheers!
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you just made my day! I'm so happy to hear this that a couple come together to give their kids affection courage and to have a vision of how to appreciate their future family life!
many families lack the basic ingredients to achieve 60% love in the home. men feel they're paying the bills, the women feel they're just to cook and keep the home tidy, that's typical but you just showed us there's the extra mile!
I agree. the best way to boost confidence positively in a child is to first give it to him at HOME! lots of fathers and mothers wait til a child makes a mistake or forgets a chore then they tongue lash that child! what stops you from ANTICIPATING the mistake or forgetfulness?
a 10 year old isn't as perfect as you a 35year old! it takes practice to get to that level.
we need to have a look at ourselves and change the attitudes we have.
a mother will sit and keep a child on his/her toes just sending left and right. now tell me how the child will feel? and what does he have in mind as he grows to adulthood? a boy will definitely believe mothers are built like that! therefore his wife should sit and send!!
a couple means doing ALL things together and looking at how things should be done to attract minimum emotional and physical friction!
Hope to read more from you soon!