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There Are Three Kinds Of Men Out There by cooldrinks: 3:25pm On Aug 24, 2017
The Beta Male

The first type, the most common type by far, is the beta male. About 70% of men in the modern era are betas. Betas are typical “nice guys”. They’re hardworking, submissive, needy, fearful, and play it safe. The spend their lives being controlled by girlfriends, wives, families, bosses, cultural conditioning, and other external factors. “Beta male” is an issue of degree. Betas can go from completely hopeless guys to decently cool guys but who still have lots of regular drama and unfulfilled dreams.
The operating goal of the beta male is to not risk.
• I can’t do that, my wife won’t let me.•
I can’t do that, my girlfriend said she’d break up with me.
• I can’t start my own business, I might not be able to pay my bills.
• I can’t vote for that guy, I hate him.
• I can’t do that. My family won’t approve.
• I can’t do that. Only selfish people do that. You get the idea.

The Alpha Male 1.0

The next type of man is the Alpha Male 1.0. This is the “classic” Alpha Male, and what most people think of when they hear the term. I have also called these men “Needy Alphas”. They make up about 25% of the modern male population.

Alpha 1.0s are tough, masculine, confident, dominant, capable, successful men. They take charge and get things done. Unlike betas, Alpha 1.0s rule others rather than being ruled themselves. Alpha 1.0s are great guys.

The problem with Alpha 1.0s is they are highly sensitive to what others in their lives do or say. If an Alpha 1.0’s girlfriend or wife doesn’t play ball, he loses it. He starts yelling, screaming,commanding, and setting rules. The same goes for his family members, friends, children, and co-workers. When everyone does exactly what they’re told, Alpha 1.0sare great men who live great lives.

When anyone doesn’t act in accordance with their specific parameters (which, of course, is all the time) they’re angry, and feel threatened and disrespected. They often live lives of 60%-70% happiness, 30%-40% anger and negative stress.

The operating goal of the Alpha 1.0 is to control and tobe heard.They love to boss other people around and to issue long lectures about proper behavior. They often get pissed off and love to “set people straight”. Having other people listen to them and acknowledge them is of extreme importance to these strong men.

The Alpha Male 2.0

That leaves us with the final type of man, the Alpha Male 2.0, which comprises the remaining 5% of men. The Alpha 2.0 is exactly the same as the Alpha 1.0 with two significant differences.

The operating goal of the Alpha 2.0 isfreedomandlong term, consistent happiness.

He has structured his life so that every morning he wakes up and can do whatever the hell he wants, the way he wants, any time he wants, without having to check in with anyone. He is free from the agenda of a girlfriend, wife, boss, or society.

That doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a special woman in his life. He certainly can. It means he can do whatever he likes without having to get permission from her, or anyone else.

Very unlike the Alpha 1.0, the Alpha 2.0 doesn’t care what other people in his life think or do. He has structured his life so as to maintain a high level of happiness and well-being nomatter what else happens with anyone in his life.

If the woman in his life throws drama at him, he shrugs and has sex with someone else. He doesn’t argue or lecture; that would damage his happiness. He never needs to worry about a boss, because he doesn’t have one. He’s outcome independent. He doesn’t care what others do…he’s on a Mission.

Because everyone in his life knows he does this, people quickly learn to not give him all the drama, anger, rules, and problems betas and Alpha 1.0s regularly have to wrestle with.

The five traits of the Alpha Male 2.0 are:

•He is consistently happy.Not happy sometimes and upset others, but consistently happy.
•He is confident. He strides boldly through life.
•He is masculine. Every culture has a different definition of masculinity, but regardless he is a bastion of constancy, rationality, strength, courage, and other positive masculine traits.
•He is free. He is not chained down by the rules normally governing relationships, marriages, jobs, businesses, cultures, or politics.
•He lives an abundant life.He does not lack sex, money, fulfillment, love, excitement, or freedom.

The Alpha Male 2.0 is truly free.

not necessarily this category but search yourself you could fall into these category or must have met someone in this category.



this story was written by BD in another blog.

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Re: There Are Three Kinds Of Men Out There by Nobody: 5:02pm On Aug 24, 2017
True. But we shouldn't go about putting any "kind" of guys down; everyone is running his own unique race.
Re: There Are Three Kinds Of Men Out There by Kobicove(m): 11:51am On Aug 25, 2017
Who cooked up this categorization? undecided
Re: There Are Three Kinds Of Men Out There by jaszplus12(m): 1:23pm On Aug 25, 2017
Kobicove:
Who cooked up this categorization? undecided
it's not even cooked yet! just gathering ingredients... it may never even get cooked!!!!!
Re: There Are Three Kinds Of Men Out There by cooldrinks: 3:35pm On Aug 25, 2017
Kobicove:
Who cooked up this categorization? undecided

I believe they call him black dragon
Re: There Are Three Kinds Of Men Out There by Blackhawk01: 3:56pm On Aug 25, 2017
I've met with The Alpha male 2.0 and I like him. cheesy kiss
Re: There Are Three Kinds Of Men Out There by Factfinder1(m): 5:02pm On Aug 25, 2017
cooldrinks:
The Beta Male

The first type, the most common type by far, is the beta male. About 70% of men in the modern era are betas. Betas are typical “nice guys”. They’re hardworking, submissive, needy, fearful, and play it safe. The spend their lives being controlled by girlfriends, wives, families, bosses, cultural conditioning, and other external factors. “Beta male” is an issue of degree. Betas can go from completely hopeless guys to decently cool guys but who still have lots of regular drama and unfulfilled dreams.
The operating goal of the beta male is to not risk.
• I can’t do that, my wife won’t let me.•
I can’t do that, my girlfriend said she’d break up with me.
• I can’t start my own business, I might not be able to pay my bills.
• I can’t vote for that guy, I hate him.
• I can’t do that. My family won’t approve.
• I can’t do that. Only selfish people do that. You get the idea.

The Alpha Male 1.0

The next type of man is the Alpha Male 1.0. This is the “classic” Alpha Male, and what most people think of when they hear the term. I have also called these men “Needy Alphas”. They make up about 25% of the modern male population.

Alpha 1.0s are tough, masculine, confident, dominant, capable, successful men. They take charge and get things done. Unlike betas, Alpha 1.0s rule others rather than being ruled themselves. Alpha 1.0s are great guys.

The problem with Alpha 1.0s is they are highly sensitive to what others in their lives do or say. If an Alpha 1.0’s girlfriend or wife doesn’t play ball, he loses it. He starts yelling, screaming,commanding, and setting rules. The same goes for his family members, friends, children, and co-workers. When everyone does exactly what they’re told, Alpha 1.0sare great men who live great lives.

When anyone doesn’t act in accordance with their specific parameters (which, of course, is all the time) they’re angry, and feel threatened and disrespected. They often live lives of 60%-70% happiness, 30%-40% anger and negative stress.

The operating goal of the Alpha 1.0 is to control and tobe heard.They love to boss other people around and to issue long lectures about proper behavior. They often get pissed off and love to “set people straight”. Having other people listen to them and acknowledge them is of extreme importance to these strong men.

The Alpha Male 2.0

That leaves us with the final type of man, the Alpha Male 2.0, which comprises the remaining 5% of men. The Alpha 2.0 is exactly the same as the Alpha 1.0 with two significant differences.

The operating goal of the Alpha 2.0 isfreedomandlong term, consistent happiness.

He has structured his life so that every morning he wakes up and can do whatever the hell he wants, the way he wants, any time he wants, without having to check in with anyone. He is free from the agenda of a girlfriend, wife, boss, or society.

That doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a special woman in his life. He certainly can. It means he can do whatever he likes without having to get permission from her, or anyone else.

Very unlike the Alpha 1.0, the Alpha 2.0 doesn’t care what other people in his life think or do. He has structured his life so as to maintain a high level of happiness and well-being nomatter what else happens with anyone in his life.

If the woman in his life throws drama at him, he shrugs and has sex with someone else. He doesn’t argue or lecture; that would damage his happiness. He never needs to worry about a boss, because he doesn’t have one. He’s outcome independent. He doesn’t care what others do…he’s on a Mission.

Because everyone in his life knows he does this, people quickly learn to not give him all the drama, anger, rules, and problems betas and Alpha 1.0s regularly have to wrestle with.

The five traits of the Alpha Male 2.0 are:

•He is consistently happy.Not happy sometimes and upset others, but consistently happy.
•He is confident. He strides boldly through life.
•He is masculine. Every culture has a different definition of masculinity, but regardless he is a bastion of constancy, rationality, strength, courage, and other positive masculine traits.
•He is free. He is not chained down by the rules normally governing relationships, marriages, jobs, businesses, cultures, or politics.
•He lives an abundant life.He does not lack sex, money, fulfillment, love, excitement, or freedom.

The Alpha Male 2.0 is truly free.

not necessarily this category but search yourself you could fall into these category or must have met someone in this category.



this story was written by BD in another blog.
Pls don't forget to tag me wen u come up with d female version of dis

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