A man needs to attain or achieve five levels of maturity before he can consider himself a man. However these levels are relative and doesn't have any particular order.

Emotional maturity: how well can you cope emotionally?how strong are you when things that will demand your maturity response happen and how well do you manage your feelings.

Financial maturity: This is the most controversial maturity level in any relationship,courtship or marriage but on the absolute a man must be financial stable before he can truly have full control over his house or his woman. You must be ready to provide for them at all time.

Spiritual maturity: a man must be close to God, hear from him and obey him. A man is the spiritual head of the family, the little lord under lord Jesus Christ discharging his duties in light of God instruction.

Social maturity : How mature are you when relating to people . we humans are social being that must relate with each other, the emphasy here is character formation. Character become an habit if your character give you an edge.

Administrative maturity: a man may have all I have mentioned above but I'd he cannot organise and manage them all, he's as good as nothing.

The Facts... No.2 is the koko.

Number 2 ought to be the number 1