I'm really going to make this brief. I broke up with my ex last year due to some misunderstandings and I haven't been in a relationship since then. Fast forward to this week, I got to find out my best friend made out with him recently (he confessed to me) and he asked for forgiveness cos he wants to come back. I actually found it hard to believe so I checked her phone and I saw their chats . The problem here is I'm scared of confronting my best friend cos I feel its gonna affect our friendship (she'll always feel guilty whenever she sees me) I don't want to lose something we built for 8 years cos of an asshole. but another thing is I'm really mad at her, like I'm really dissapointed. So please do you feel I should confront her or I should just let it slide?.

If you feel you can't lose your gf 'cause of an asshole(your ex), isn't your gf an asshole too?. It takes two to tango and the blame should be shared.

How do you guys eat and dine with friends who could sleep with your boyfriends?.

Friendship kor betrayal ni

She's your best friend you said?Did it happen while you were dating or after you broke up?
If it happened while you were dating,you should say it.Why would she do that as a friend if she truly was one?
You should confront your friend and decide if you can forgive her and move on with your friendship.She messed up and she ought to know.

I fear female frds. Too much envy. Its better u don't have a friend than to have a backstabbing one.

You need to confront her but don't let it look as if you are fighting her cos of a man, that is what she will tell people.

Nma27:
I fear female frds. Too much envy. Its better u don't have a friend than to have a backstabbing one.

True.

shayo18:
I'm really going to make this brief. I broke up with my ex last year due to some misunderstandings and I haven't been in a relationship since then. Fast forward to this week, I got to find out my best friend made out with him recently (he confessed to me) and he asked for forgiveness cos he wants to come back. I actually found it hard to believe so I checked her phone and I saw their chats . The problem here is I'm scared of confronting my best friend cos I feel its gonna affect our friendship (she'll always feel guilty whenever she sees me) I don't want to lose something we built for 8 years cos of an asshole. but another thing is I'm really mad at her, like I'm really dissapointed. So please do you feel I should confront her or I should just let it slide?.

Baby girl you have two asshole to let go!

kimbraa:
If you feel you can't lose your gf 'cause of an asshole(your ex), isn't your gf an asshole too?. It takes two to tango and the blame should be shared.

How do you guys eat and dine with friends who could sleep with your boyfriends?.

ex boyfriend..

U guys dated for 8 years only to break up. Why did u date for that long cos ur relationship shud be strong.


U left him for a year n he slept wt ur best friend...ur bf has no honor, ur best friend is a tramp and u hv no right to be angry because u guys were not in a relationship wen it happened.

Now wat bothers me most is why u wana keep both of them close. ....

U also have the power of freewill to look beyond all d trash.


Choice is yours.

thorpido:
She's your best friend you said?Did it happen while you were dating or after you broke up?
If it happened while you were dating,you should say it.Why would she do that as a friend if she truly was one?
You should confront your friend and decide if you can forgive her and move on with your friendship.She messed up and she ought to know.

after we broke up actually. She even asked the boy not to tell me she came to his house

I'm just trying to reason this...

Me having a Rship with my ex's friend ... I am just thinking If she would be jealous..

yomi007k:
U guys dated for 8 years only to break up. Why did u date for that long cos ur relationship shud be strong.


U left him for a year n he slept wt ur best friend...ur bf has no honor, ur best friend is a tramp and u hv no right to be angry because u guys were not in a relationship wen it happened.

Now wat bothers me most is why u wana keep both of them close. ....

U also have the power of freewill to look beyond all d trash.


Choice is yours.

nope we didn't date for 8 years. the friendship is 8 years (the girl and I )

shayo18:
nope we didn't date for 8 years. the friendship is 8 years (the girl and I )

She is not ur bestfriend...u jus dont know it.

shayo18:
after we broke up actually. She even asked the boy not to tell me she came to his house

dingbang:
ex boyfriend..

I get that now.

shayo18:
after we broke up actually. She even asked the boy not to tell me she came to his house

You should discuss it with her.I personally think it is forgiveable since you had broken up with him at that time.She should be remorseful though if you decide to forgive her.
As for the guy,you had better close his chapter for good.

vingeophysicist:
Baby girl you have two asshole to let go!

I wish its that easy

Your ex was stupid for telling you that he made out with her. That's kiss and tell.

You guys were not dating then for fvcking sake! I feel like strangling that son of a bìtch right now for being such a pussy nigga!

A single guy/girl has the right to fvck whosoever he/she wants to fvck, so long as they are not blood related. I wonder where people got these silly rules from.

Your friend did absolutely nothing wrong because she fvcked your EX, not your BOYFRIEND! There's a reason why he's an EX!

Get that into your head please! Jeez!

I'm so pissed off right now mehn. Somebody should send me 100K to cool off.

shayo18:
I'm really going to make this brief. I broke up with my ex last year due to some misunderstandings and I haven't been in a relationship since then. Fast forward to this week, I got to find out my best friend made out with him recently (he confessed to me) and he asked for forgiveness cos he wants to come back. I actually found it hard to believe so I checked her phone and I saw their chats . The problem here is I'm scared of confronting my best friend cos I feel its gonna affect our friendship (she'll always feel guilty whenever she sees me) I don't want to lose something we built for 8 years cos of an asshole. but another thing is I'm really mad at her, like I'm really dissapointed. So please do you feel I should confront her or I should just let it slide?.

So your so-called best friend of 8 years will choose DlCK over you. Imagine. Well, i guess the sex must have been so good, or the guy is just too fine.

So wait o, "I broke up with my ex last year due to some misunderstandings and I haven't been in a relationship since then", na wetin you dey wait for sef? Since last year? Are guys so scarce to that extent?

Both of them deserve to be red carded out of your life

I don't think our opinions count since you're already considering the asshole back

truthsayer009:


So your so-called best friend of 8 years will choose DlCK over you. Imagine. Well, i guess the sex must have been so good, or the guy is just too fine.

So wait o, "I broke up with my ex last year due to some misunderstandings and I haven't been in a relationship since then", na wetin you dey wait for sef? Since last year? Are guys so scarce to that extent?

lol. guys are not so scarce. I'm a pretty girl with BRAINS so its not that I don't have people asking me out. Im not just ready for a relationship

tosyne2much:
Both of them deserve to be red carded out of your life

I don't think our opinions count since you're already considering the asshole back

I'm not considering him back sir. He's tryna come back which obviously can't happen

shayo18:
I'm really going to make this brief. I broke up with my ex last year due to some misunderstandings and I haven't been in a relationship since then. Fast forward to this week, I got to find out my best friend made out with him recently (he confessed to me) and he asked for forgiveness cos he wants to come back. I actually found it hard to believe so I checked her phone and I saw their chats . The problem here is I'm scared of confronting my best friend cos I feel its gonna affect our friendship (she'll always feel guilty whenever she sees me) I don't want to lose something we built for 8 years cos of an asshole. but another thing is I'm really mad at her, like I'm really dissapointed. So please do you feel I should confront her or I should just let it slide?.

you can live in denial with fake friends (and enemies) around you, or be real about your life and the people you allow to be around you. that snake needs to go, and thinking of her wellbeing while she plans her next backstabbing mission, will be your downfall.

here is a question for you:
why would you even want to keep such frienemies in your life?!

as for your ex who had the audacity to fukc your friends, he showed you exactly why going back with him would be a dire mistake... but hey, to each their own misery!

MrBrownJay1:


you can live in denial with fake friends (and enemies) around you, or be real about your life and the people you allow to be around you. that snake needs to go, and thinking of her wellbeing while she plans her next backstabbing mission, will be your downfall.

here is a question for you:
why would you even want to keep such frienemies in your life?!

as for your ex who had the audacity to fukc your friends, he showed you exactly why going back with him would be a dire mistake... but hey, to each their own misery!

oh well, just what I needed to hear.

ikp120:
Your ex was stupid for telling you that he made out with her. That's kiss and tell.

You guys were not dating then for fvcking sake! I feel like strangling that son of a bìtch right now for being such a pussy nigga!

A single guy/girl has the right to fvck whosoever he/she wants to fvck, so long as they are not blood related. I wonder where people got these silly rules from.

Your friend did absolutely nothing wrong because she fvcked your EX, not your BOYFRIEND! There's a reason why he's an EX!

Get that into your head please! Jeez!

I'm so pissed off right now mehn. Somebody should send me 100K to cool off.

You have no honour nor loyalty...

I'd find it pretty hard to forgive such a friend... but it depends on how remorse she is, anyway.

PrimadonnaO:


You have no honour nor loyalty...

Use your head and stop being sentimental. It's not that hard babe! The logic is very simple.

Your ex is your fvcking ex! Move on! He is not your friends' ex! Get it into your head! Jeez!

That you guys broke up doesn't make him a bad person. I can even beg my ex to date my friend when I have moved.

The key word is "Move on!"

Let me book this space, would come back and zknock that mumu head of ya