Happy Sunday everyone. So sorry to bother u. Yesterday my friend who always comes to my house on weekends to help me out since my family are still on vacation came around. After the normal house chores, we sat down to eat Nd while at it,I noticed his phone has bn ringing repeatedly but anytime he looks at the screen, he will drop it Nd sigh. I was watching him but didn't want to get involved in his private matter. But at a point I Couldnt bear it any more cause the noise has started disturbing me. So I now teased him jokingly that it seems he is owing somebody ? He said no,I asked what the problem is Nd he said he has issues with his girl friend. He said he has spent a lot on the lady for like 8 months now but that just on Friday night he was in a fix Nd called her girl to sent him a recharge card of 400,but the girl told him its not her duty to spend money on him that she is a girl Nd that guys re meant to spend. But what got me was the statement the guy made finally. HE SAID THAT IF AS A GUY U RE DATING A LADY ND YOU VE NEVER SAID THANK YOU TO HER,YOU SHOULD FORGET ABOUT HER,THAT SHE IS NOT YOURS. Pls my people is this a fact? Or is he just bn paronoid?. Thank you.

I still don't get the last part! thank you as in? weldone?for

yaqq:
I still don't get the last part! thank you as in? weldone?for

. As in she bn able to present u gifts or helping u out when in need.

Let me rephrase it. If u re dating a girl Nd she has never deemed it OK to give u a present or try helping u out when u are in a fix,that u should forget about her,she is not yours?

As I always say, I don't see love where there's no compassion. So, yes, your friend was right. Reciprocity of goodness is the soul of any healthy relationship - even though the reciprocity doesn't necessarily have to be of equal proportion.

JONNYSPUTE:
Let me rephrase it. If u re dating a girl Nd she has never deemed it OK to give u a present or try helping u out when u are in a fix,that u should forget about her,she is not yours?

KICK HER TO THE CURB!!!

The truth remains that the lady feels nothing for him for her to be bold enough to say such fvckery to him.

No matter how stingy a Lady can be, I repeat, no matter how stingy a Lady can be, she'll always find a way please and reciprocate the goodness of someone she feels for. No matter how little it might come of.

That's why behind any stingy lady, there's this guy who she likes giving the little she can, even if it means taking from her big money spending guys to please that very guy.


That girl feels nothing for your friend.

You guys brought back a thread since 2017 to life?

Tell that your friend take one Cold Hero at mama oke's bar, in my name, I will Pay when I get back

Blackivy29:
You guys brought back a thread since 2017 to life?

I got confused myself, why the sudden old threads everywhere

logan2:
I got confused myself, why the sudden old threads everywhere

i wonder how far back they dug to get it.

donstan18:
The truth remains that the lady feels nothing for him for her to be bold enough to say such fvckery to him.

No matter how stingy a Lady can be, I repeat, no matter how stingy a Lady can be, she'll always find a way please and reciprocate the goodness of someone she feels for. No matter how little it might come of.

That's why behind any stingy lady, there's this guy who she likes giving the little she can, even if it means taking from her big money spending guys to please that very guy.


That girl feels nothing for your friend.

.. I think you are right.

khiaa:


KICK HER TO THE CURB!!!

. Just like that? Whats your reason?

Well I get 3 singlets as birthday present so I guess I'm luckier.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Just like that? Whats your reason?

She's selfish.