Iam the kind of man that believes in getting the things I want easily without necessarily sweating out that much. I know in Nigeria, we believe everything must be achieved through the hard way but I dont always buy that idea, that's why when I ask a girl out and doesn't give me unnecessary delays, I do really love her.


Now to my worry with guys. Why is it that anytime a girl expresses love for a guy, comes out for him, calls him, chats him up, spent time with him, spend cash on him and all these things that indicates acts of love for the guy, he then calls it " disturbance"


He ll be like: guy, seriously that girl dey disturb well ooo..., why is that gal disturbing me.? stuffs like that. And when this happens, most guys ll see the girl as cheap.


Now I ask, do we guys always want ladies to make us sweat it out by pretending then dont love us much before we ll value what they ve for us?

Dont we think its normal for a guy to express love outwardly for the guy?