Hello guys, please can someone give me a candid opinion on what to do about the situation i find myself I am 9 years married to my wife and the major issue we have been facing is the issue of finance. But there is this brother of my wife and some of her sibling in the UK that want me and my family to live big and they always try their best to make me and my family live above the poverty line. They have offered me many deals to make me live my present work, though not too satisfying but better than none, but i keep trying to convince them that i i don't get something better i cant leave the one i do currently. But the last one that break the camel's back is that this my in-law which is my sister brother have offered us a big apartment in a very good area in Lagos and other juicy offers to go with it including setting up of a big biz for my wife. Here i where i got confused and i need some good advice from Nairalanders on what to do. Do i take the offer and leave my present job and support my wife in the biz or reject the offer?

Hmmmm....


As juicy as it may seem , I am worried about your dignity.

Some people after helping you will rub it to your face that if not for them, you won't be alive.. Just make sure your in laws are not such people

Just as I am typing now, you can hear the noise from the background. It is my neighbour and his wife. It so happened the sister in law is a serving Commissioner and has put up this guy. We've just finished celebrating with guy roofing his 4bedroom flat.

But the guy is in total mess and in a very hot soup. He can't argue anything with the wife. The truth is that he confesses before friends that he's in a very difficult situation but can't do otherwise.

However yours may not be the same. It all depends on the type of woman you marry. Who knows if it was because of your uplifting that God gave you the woman?