Women are very complex beings, you can never read their minds from what they do. They might show you all affections, call you all the time, or query you for not asking after them.

I fell for all these with one lady, she has been a good friend for more than 2years. Best friend ever, people even thought we were dating. I was even very sure she was going to accept if I ask her out. But to my greatest surprise, my friend who could never bear seeing me sad turned me down flatly when I asked for a relationship. She said no relationship could work out between us, stating that I know all her weaknesses and her strong point.


I implored and pleaded to her to give reason why these could stand as obstacles, just for her to stop picking my calls and responding to WhatsApp chats. I'm sad and feel rejected. I'm pained more because I even lost her friendship.

Now I know the difference between like and love. She only liked me so well as a friend, she could not bear to give me her love.

cc, mynd44

Eeeehyah... Sorry bro

It's not every lady you date. Some are better off as friends

Please you have no reason to feel bad, at least you only expressed your affection. Try to meet her in person and try to apologize to her to have told her how you feel about her

This will make her head swell a bit

You have been friendzoned..Pele..that is why i tell guys...ask a lady out early..don't agree to let us just be friend if you want to date her......sorry once again

asking for a relationship from your female friend atimes brings end to the friendship...

some people are better off with just friendship

Thank God for your English Teacher

sekxyqueen:
asking for a relationship from your female friend atimes brings end to the friendship...

some people are better off with just friendship

that is hindsight anyways...I wouldn't know things would turn out that way. Thanks à lot.

I really find it difficult making friends with the opposite sex
Thank God u know the difference now

tosyne2much:
Eeeehyah... Sorry bro

It's not every lady you date. Some are better off as friends

Please you have no reason to feel bad, at least you only expressed your affection. Try to meet her in person and try to apologize to her to have told her how you feel about her

This will make her head swell a bit

bro I think you came up with a good advice there. That is exactly what I'm going to do, just that it will take a while. I can't bear to lose her at least as a friend, that will result in me avoiding her, we attend the same school.

donproject:


bro I think you came up with a good advice there. That is exactly what I'm going to do, just that it will take a while. I can't bear to lose her at least as a friend, that will result in me avoiding her, we attend the same school.

I know that feeling bro. Just try to apologize to her and tell her such a thing shouldn't ruin your friendship

Moral lesson don't date friends

This story reminds me of someone too bad too bad we should have stayed friends but u had to drop the L bomb

Friend zone the best zone once you leave that zone it's just STRESS .. b
Take heart Op .. now u lost her as a friend it must be extremely painful

100ft deep in the zone lmao!