And Of Sex! And Of Sex!! And Of Money!!!

I was broken down and consumed, really tired one day and could not but rest my aching head on a well fitted furniture under the faculty of Agricultural sciences student union donated pavilion. In a flash, I slept off. It would have called off a good sleep, but, for the interruption fired up by the discuss of two pretty 100 level ladies(freshers you would say)."I'm better than you," lady A claimed. "Funny, how can you be? You lost your maidenhood to a stranger, someone you didn't even know,remember?" Lady B countered. "See you, you lost yours to your brother,your blood bloke for that matter," Lady A returned. "Oh! The hymen that I cherished," Lady B reacted, smilling. Truth be told, at that point, I could catch the wink no more(you know how interesting sex talks could be). It was a time to think, a time to be sorry and a time to reason. This is the minim, for an average up-to-the-minute African girl, what is it about life? It is simply of sex! And of Sex!! And of money!!!

For a senior high school
girl, the hobby is sex.You think I lied? That your daughter is still unstolen? Sincerely, a 13yrs old girl is informed and un-wrapped. She knows every principle of visiting Disney land.She's already an expert in 'doggy', research might be on in 'the cat' and 'head rush' styles though. At 18, a good-looking African girl is already randomly sampled and can handle more than one man in horizontal jogging. The questions are: Isn't this the same continent where a man would display blood-stained white clothes, just about half a century ago, as a prove that he met his wife a Virgin? Isn't this thesame continent, where some 100yrs ago, a lady would gambol and/or horse around naked and matter-of-fact in untouchable, beyond wildest dreams and out of the question innocence? "In our days as young girls, you must strip yourself of clothes before pounding yam for elders, as they wouldn't want you to contaminate the food with the dirts coming out from your apparels," my grandma told me. Why do African ladies now eat the forbidden fruit so early and would even slaughter a white porn star in contest?

Little wonder, an average University girl would run up to you for satisfaction,If you were really a bed smart. Prostitutes offer promo to bed champions, so that you won't bear the cost more than once as you would be free to explore for as long as you want.Like a generation under a spell,your female close friend would tell you how she prefers Collins' Tuna turpedo to yours and all other fifteen she had crunched. Tell me you've not heard a girl declare, while seeing a Korean movie, how she would love to have sex with Ahn Jae Hyun and/or Kim Soo Hyun at least once and I'll tell you, how up-to-date you are not. An above suspicion Nigerian girl would tell you how having a full night with Kiss Daniel(without any commitment whatsoever) is her dream.It is that serious!

For a modern day girl, the only qualified rival of great orgasm is money.Sugar Daddies here and there.They must slay, they must wear latest clothes and be expensive too, so, someone must cough up.In fact, a girl now sees nothing wrong in telling her fiance about her sugar daddy. To her,having a side chic, who spends on you is as natural as going hungry. Daughters of important people are on the street as call girls and steetwalkers(Olosho) just to get money for that latest Gucci bag and/or i-phone 7. Do you notice how strangely, grooms behave in weddings today? not their fault. The husband-to-be, knows he's a lucky man if his bride had only tasted 10 different clam hammers, so, he has almost nothing to be proud of. Wedding night is nothing to look forward to anylonger.But, If it is this bad today, what will happen tomorrow?

Genuine beauty, for an African damsel, used to be her innocence,purity and excellence.It used to be chastity, integrity and intelligence. In those days, Africa would boast of decent, befitting, decorous, dependable, submissive and first-rate maidens.Some hundred years ago, ladies had reasons to dream of their wedding nights and smile.They would preserve themselves and would not take down their panties at the slightest urge.They believed in themselves and would work hard to make money.They would not make prostitutes and/or whorls of themselves. They would support their husbands and be to their children, role models. How I wish African ladies can re-visit the culture of chastity, the culture of faithfulness and that of angelic innocence.

Ayeni Faith Damilola is a writer, public speaker and eulogist.
faithdamilolaayeni@yahoo.com