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It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by Riwo11(f): 4:16pm On Sep 18, 2017
It's immature to call or threaten anyone because he or she is chasing after your fiance or fiancee. It is like forcing your partner to love you against their will. Don't waste your time and energy doing that. It will be like chasing goats from an unfenced garden. It is stressful and not wise. The best way is to fence or wall your garden. In the era of social media, you might end up telling your partner to close their account.
No one will love you because you want him or her to; it's like asking them to pretend to love you. Real love comes from the heart and if it's true, it will flow freely in both directions.
Think about calling someone who is chasing your partner, to warn them to stay off, only for your partner to call them back and apologize. You end up losing respect at both ends; your partner and your rival.
Imagine arresting a guy who was threatening the peace in your relationship, but you will be shocked when your girlfriend turned out to be the one who went and bailed the guy from cell. How will you feel?
Your rival is not your business, your business is your partner. When you learn to take care of your partner, he or she will take care of your rival. You are not getting married to your rival and this is why you don't have to make them your business. Make your partner your best friend, pay attention to them, listen to them, make their happiness your priority, cement your spot in their heart, it makes it difficult for any third partner to win them over. They might comment on their pictures, but you own their heart.
If you love your partner that much and don't want to lose them, you don't give up just because someone is chasing him or her, rather use that as motivation to love them and treat them right; when you do that, it makes it difficult for your partner to leave. You end up giving them the power to cut off the third party disturbing the peace of your relationship.
Let your actions and how you treat your partner speak for you; when that happens you won't be bothered with their 5000 friends on Facebook or their 10,000 followers on Instagram. You will care less about likes and comments on their pictures. Love goes beyond words, inbox messages, likes and comments.
Those things are not real and it makes no sense for your partner to choose them over you.
Your warning won't change them; sometimes it might even land you into trouble, and not just losing respect. The truth is sometimes no matter what you do or how hard you try, people will always have their own opinion about you.
Exercise maturity. Learn to walk away from people who threaten the peace of your relationship, the respect you have for yourself and your partner and your personal self-worth.
Don't be clever by calling your rival to settle things he or she has with your partner, instead be a wise person by avoiding such drama, and find better ways to make your relationship with your partner stronger. It is absolutely useless chasing a hacker, the best you can do is to have a strong security.
In conclusion "It’s like this: when I was a child I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child does. But when I became a man my thoughts grew far beyond those of my childhood, and now I have put away the childish things" - 1 Corinthians 13:11 (TLB).
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Re: It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by Nobody: 4:31pm On Sep 18, 2017
It is not just childish. But
Woman wrapper childish.

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Re: It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by Nobody: 4:36pm On Sep 18, 2017
I've never understood the logic behind that.
Sadly most women do that. It's embarrassing.

I can understand 'my husband left me for her"
I can understand " I lost my husband to her"
What I can't stand is " she snatched my man"
Is he a handbag?

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Re: It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by ifex370(m): 4:47pm On Sep 18, 2017
Riwo11:
It's immature to call or threaten anyone because he or she is chasing after your fiance or fiancee. It is like forcing your partner to love you against their will. Don't waste your time and energy doing that. It will be like chasing goats from an unfenced garden. It is stressful and not wise. The best way is to fence or wall your garden. In the era of social media, you might end up telling your partner to close their account.
No one will love you because you want him or her to; it's like asking them to pretend to love you. Real love comes from the heart and if it's true, it will flow freely in both directions.
Think about calling someone who is chasing your partner, to warn them to stay off, only for your partner to call them back and apologize. You end up losing respect at both ends; your partner and your rival.
Imagine arresting a guy who was threatening the peace in your relationship, but you will be shocked when your girlfriend turned out to be the one who went and bailed the guy from cell. How will you feel?
Your rival is not your business, your business is your partner. When you learn to take care of your partner, he or she will take care of your rival. You are not getting married to your rival and this is why you don't have to make them your business. Make your partner your best friend, pay attention to them, listen to them, make their happiness your priority, cement your spot in their heart, it makes it difficult for any third partner to win them over. They might comment on their pictures, but you own their heart.
If you love your partner that much and don't want to lose them, you don't give up just because someone is chasing him or her, rather use that as motivation to love them and treat them right; when you do that, it makes it difficult for your partner to leave. You end up giving them the power to cut off the third party disturbing the peace of your relationship.
Let your actions and how you treat your partner speak for you; when that happens you won't be bothered with their 5000 friends on Facebook or their 10,000 followers on Instagram. You will care less about likes and comments on their pictures. Love goes beyond words, inbox messages, likes and comments.
Those things are not real and it makes no sense for your partner to choose them over you.
Your warning won't change them; sometimes it might even land you into trouble, and not just losing respect. The truth is sometimes no matter what you do or how hard you try, people will always have their own opinion about you.
Exercise maturity. Learn to walk away from people who threaten the peace of your relationship, the respect you have for yourself and your partner and your personal self-worth.
Don't be clever by calling your rival to settle things he or she has with your partner, instead be a wise person by avoiding such drama, and find better ways to make your relationship with your partner stronger. It is absolutely useless chasing a hacker, the best you can do is to have a strong security.
In conclusion "It’s like this: when I was a child I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child does. But when I became a man my thoughts grew far beyond those of my childhood, and now I have put away the childish things" - 1 Corinthians 13:11 (TLB).
Please share with your friends, someone out there needs this.
CLICK BELOW TO READ.....
.
3 Simple Steps To Seduce A Married Coworker

http://www.riwodating.com/2017/09/3-simple-steps-to-seduce-married.html

Please can we be friends?

I've never read a piece that makes so much sense..
It's like I was reading my own thoughts
Re: It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by Nobody: 5:43pm On Sep 18, 2017
I'm a jealous lover, I will not only call her, I will pour her acid.
I don't like to share, just don't let me catch you.

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Re: It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by Nobody: 5:52pm On Sep 18, 2017
...


what the girl above me said.

I might even set you ablaze sef
Re: It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by Dillusionist(m): 5:57pm On Sep 18, 2017
nice piece, ,fighting over someone that doesn't regard you will be the greatest mistake one has to make..if he or she isn't contented with you,please try and move on and save yourself from unnecessary dramas..gosh!I so hate dramas.
Re: It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by Evablizin(f): 6:08pm On Sep 18, 2017
tongue
Tell them
Re: It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by gentlegenius(m): 7:40pm On Sep 18, 2017
Riwo11:
It's immature to call or threaten anyone because he or she is chasing after your fiance or fiancee. It is like forcing your partner to love you against their will. Don't waste your time and energy doing that. It will be like chasing goats from an unfenced garden. It is stressful and not wise. The best way is to fence or wall your garden. In the era of social media, you might end up telling your partner to close their account.
No one will love you because you want him or her to; it's like asking them to pretend to love you. Real love comes from the heart and if it's true, it will flow freely in both directions.
Think about calling someone who is chasing your partner, to warn them to stay off, only for your partner to call them back and apologize. You end up losing respect at both ends; your partner and your rival.
Imagine arresting a guy who was threatening the peace in your relationship, but you will be shocked when your girlfriend turned out to be the one who went and bailed the guy from cell. How will you feel?
Your rival is not your business, your business is your partner. When you learn to take care of your partner, he or she will take care of your rival. You are not getting married to your rival and this is why you don't have to make them your business. Make your partner your best friend, pay attention to them, listen to them, make their happiness your priority, cement your spot in their heart, it makes it difficult for any third partner to win them over. They might comment on their pictures, but you own their heart.
If you love your partner that much and don't want to lose them, you don't give up just because someone is chasing him or her, rather use that as motivation to love them and treat them right; when you do that, it makes it difficult for your partner to leave. You end up giving them the power to cut off the third party disturbing the peace of your relationship.
Let your actions and how you treat your partner speak for you; when that happens you won't be bothered with their 5000 friends on Facebook or their 10,000 followers on Instagram. You will care less about likes and comments on their pictures. Love goes beyond words, inbox messages, likes and comments.
Those things are not real and it makes no sense for your partner to choose them over you.
Your warning won't change them; sometimes it might even land you into trouble, and not just losing respect. The truth is sometimes no matter what you do or how hard you try, people will always have their own opinion about you.
Exercise maturity. Learn to walk away from people who threaten the peace of your relationship, the respect you have for yourself and your partner and your personal self-worth.
Don't be clever by calling your rival to settle things he or she has with your partner, instead be a wise person by avoiding such drama, and find better ways to make your relationship with your partner stronger. It is absolutely useless chasing a hacker, the best you can do is to have a strong security.
In conclusion "It’s like this: when I was a child I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child does. But when I became a man my thoughts grew far beyond those of my childhood, and now I have put away the childish things" - 1 Corinthians 13:11 (TLB).
Please share with your friends, someone out there needs this.
CLICK BELOW TO READ.....
.
3 Simple Steps To Seduce A Married Coworker

http://www.riwodating.com/2017/09/3-simple-steps-to-seduce-married.html
Your point is correct and very true. But you shouldn't have wrote all these just to make a simple point.
Re: It Is Childish To Call Your Rival To Stay Off Your Partner by oluebubeneo(f): 7:36am On Sep 19, 2017
Nice one Op... You have a commitment with your partner and not the other person. Still don't understand why some people do that... the truth is either he/she still loves you or NOT and going to fight the other person doesn't change much. Your partner is not an object that can be dragged like children dragging toys. Your partner is a human being who knows what he or she wants.

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