Some guys take ladies for granted when she is trying all her best to be a good lover and partner.

They know the next thing to do to make a relationship move forward, but because the lady has ignored all protocols for the sake of love they think they have gotten it all which makes the lady to be filled with regret and more than anger.

Here are things you can do to make him think of the way forward when you are sure he has all it takes to be a man:

1. Talk about it:

This is the first stage. Don't hide it at all, be vocal about what you want and how you feel about his non-charlatan attitude towards the growth of the relationship.

Hear his side and from there you can decipher if it is genuine or not.

2. Stop visiting:

If the chat session isn't fruitful you need to start reducing the visitation, allow your presence to be missed. When he sees you often the probability of him thinking on the way forward will be limited.

3. Let your social networks speak:

Go out with friends, all gender and in beautiful and attractive outfit. Take pictures and post it.
You don't need to tag him, he is watching you, so, there is large possibility that you are posting it into his hands. When he sees more of you in pictures especially on social media he will think more on how to get you completely.

4. End the call first:

When he calls, try not to let him end the call. Try also not to always use the "i love you" verbiage before you end, let him anticipate it and do the needful if he want it always.

5. Reduce your social availability:

Yes, you really need to pretend you are not available when he is chatting with you on social platforms, your availability is causing him not to think straight.

Don't allow a guy to waste your time and take you for granted. You need to put a great worth on yourself for him to guide you jealousy. If he truly loves you all those are enough for him to read positive meanings to.


Source: http://www.bamisepeter.com/2017/09/5-ways-to-encourage-him-to-take.html

Force him ke...?

Aahh ahhh!

Women are wicked!

You need not force anyone. What will be, will be.

These are unintelligent points. How bout she makes herself useful and show to him that she can be committed and supportive when/if the need arises.

Women please, not all advice is meant to bring positive results o. Afterall the devil adviced eve to eat that apple...look where we are now.

Don't force anyone to marry you, don't box them into a corner where they have no other option than to give in to your desire of marriage. If you do, you'll never enjoy that marriage and someday you'll be forced out of it by the man, his family or even by yourself.

Work on yourself instead, your character, your future and wait for the man that loves you to come.

If a man loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, you need not force him. He knows your worth and will die to marry you. That is the man that will cherish and love you.

Some people will just go and copy Oyinbo post and paste it here..... If you play by those rules up there you ll probably end up in MFM fasting n praying for husband to come


Some guys philosophy: you don't hold them like a pinch of salt and expect them to carry u like a bag of rice!

As a lady I follow this rule too...

must you force a man to take the relationship to the next level? you think is every relationship that leads to marriage?


and you're even advising then to stop visiting, the dude will change them with a slay queen and life moves on!

Hahahaha, you don't force people to take a relationship to the next level, they do it out of their own free will.

Well said,oya go take 1 origin for inside fridge