YelloweWest:

Cheating during a marriage is different from cheating just before...

When people get married they love tends to disappear. That's a fact.
What's left is acceptable and tolerance.

If u cat cheat just before your wedding u have no regard what so ever for that union. It bound to fail.

I disagree, you simply confused yourself with how you want it. Cheating in and before marriage is the same my dear, it's even worse inside of the marriage than before....You have this one in the reverse, finally, i don't get myself fixated on cheating. I don't get fixated on cheating, but focus my thoughts on love, and cultivating the relationships...

[Quote author=abdelrahman post=60974639]you should haven't do it.[/quote] wat !

the lady made the right choice. she is your wife to be, after marriage she becomes an extension of your self. op can you test yourself with slap?

I am so sorry for the guy cos his next babe would experience same thing.
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bonifieldstun:
can I woze u slap ?

WO challenge ni

bonifieldstun:
can I woze u slap ?

WO challenge ni.

JamesReacher:
You have sense o jare, don't let them force you to lower your standards dear

Thanks

YelloweWest:
Nope. Married ages ago.

ok. All the best.

Sterope:
lil excuse?

I meant to say ***she was looking for a reason no matter how small it is to quit the relationship*** and mind you, op said small slap....

YelloweWest:

Domestic violence is not a little excuse. Tiny drops make a mighty ocean.
This is how it starts!
If she had kept her cool and gone ahead with it she would be a punching bag in no time.

I meant to say *** she was looking for a reason no matter how small it is to quit the relationship*** and mind you, op said small slap...

agarawu23:
U will be surprise to know that all the ladies typing trash here eat punches every day from their husband and dey go come here come dey form and give negative advice when they are facing the worst in their matrimonial homes


One slap and she ends the the relationship? She go old for house

Hian!! How many slaps should she take before she ends the situationship?

ladyF:


Hian!! How many slaps should she take before she ends the situationship?

LadyF,


Do you still deal in Skrill? I need to sell ym Skrill urgently...

agarawu23:
U will be surprise to know that all the ladies typing trash here eat punches every day from their husband and dey go come here come dey form and give negative advice when they are facing the worst in their matrimonial homes


One slap and she ends the the relationship? She go old for house

I believe you Sir

My ex even beat me up that my arm was dislocated. In fact, I called it off in August when the wedding was supposed to be October, not minding the trad had been done in march that same year. Believe you me, there was no other guy then. From little slap and begging thereafter to big slaps, beating, lady getting injuries and if not watched, it leads to death. I wonder why some ladies think that for a guy to slap you means he loves you. I am now married and hubby never beats me for once. There are better ways he treats my Bleep up.

supersystemsnig:


LadyF,


Do you still deal in Skrill? I need to sell ym Skrill urgently...

Not anymore dear.

Just bitcoin, PM and RMB now

ladyF:


Not anymore dear.

Just bitcoin, PM and RMB now

Can you hook me up wif any trader for Skrill?

Yeye man!

I'm happy for her to have seen these warning signs before the wedding

JamesReacher:
Yes let her old for house, is that the point of discussion? Domestic violence is a no no

Domestic intentional disobedience is a NO NO

Just for picking your call you slapped her. What will you do if she mistakenly call you her former boy friends name?

Your ancestors were stupid pple,it just came through you.

Takeit2017:
Who thinks she made the right decision?

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You must be very stupid!!!. Is she an object that you can just slap? The lady made the right decision to dump your ass.

supersystemsnig:


Can you hook me up wif any trader for Skrill?

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ladyF:


Cc: Dagr8 3RNEST

Aiite... Gracias Madmaselle...

lasisi69:
I meant to say *** she was looking for a reason no matter how small it is to quit the relationship*** and mind you, op said small slap...

What the fùck is small slap?

folly22:
Rubbish. So that you can follow it up with big slap and serious punching after marriage

Intelligent person sited!

I trust the lady because she knows her worth. Not even as a joke should a man with a sound man raise his hand on a women. Go girl before it's too late.

supersystemsnig:


I disagree, you simply confused yourself with how you want it. Cheating in and before marriage is the same my dear, it's even worse inside of the marriage than before....You have this one in the reverse, finally, i don't get myself fixated on cheating. I don't get fixated on cheating, but focus my thoughts on love, and cultivating the relationships...

I never said cheating in a marriage is better than cheating before. I said it different!

When u are dating and your partners cheats it's easier to break it off or reevaluate than when married!
I'm being as realistic as possible. Speaking from 12years of marriage.
I bet u are still single.
Lala land is not real Bro.
If a woman cheats just before her wedding there should be no room for forgiveness!
Marriage is hard work. You don't want to get in with all that baggage.

Just keeping it real...

toprealman:
My mum said.....smh

Lol. Indeed.

Mynd44:
The man, his mother, his phone, and the hand he used to slap her are all mad

who will ban you for insulting this man's mother?

YelloweWest:

I never said cheating in a marriage is better than cheating before. I said it different!

When u are dating and your partners cheats it's easier to break it off or reevaluate than when married!
I'm being as realistic as possible. Speaking from 12years of marriage.
I bet u are still single.
Lala land is not real Bro.
If a woman cheats just before her wedding there should be no room for forgiveness!
Marriage is hard work. You don't want to get in with all that baggage.

Just keeping it real...

Well said... I'm not an advocate for cheating before or after marriage.... It's just like you made it sound too easy. Cheating within a marriage can also be extremely painful, depending on how the other party can endure the pain, in the end, i believe they should be things in the marriage to keep both parties in it...otherwise, parting ways should be really easy...

YelloweWest:

So basically you're saying she should have proposed the date right?

If your fiance is cheating after a fixed marriage date, would u go ahead with it?

If there's concrete evidence of cheating that's a different case. Here we are talking of trivial issues like phone call, "test slap" and "my mom said..."

supersystemsnig:



Well said... I'm not an advocate for cheating before or after marriage.... It's just like you made it sound too easy. Cheating within a marriage can also be extremely painful, depending on how the other party can endure the pain, in the end, i believe they should be things in the marriage to keep both parties in it...otherwise, parting ways should be really easy...

EXACTLY!!

In reality most people will cheat at some point in their marriage.
That number is about 95% for men and 60% for women.
Hardly will you ever see a couple married for 40years and both parties never cheated.

However what keeps them together is stronger than what should tear them apart.
Eg. Stability of the family.
For instance I have a good loving husband. He is an amazing father too.
If he cheats will I deprive my kids of their dad just because my feelings got hurt?? No!
I'll have to look at the big picture and forgive.

Those circumstances are not there when single.