i have always have a very close relationship with my siblings while growing up, which i have tried much to see that everyone is comfortable. i don,t based in Nigeria, but my family has always been my first priority. but everything changed immediately i want to get married. that i have to settle everyone first before getting married. they automatically ganged against me, that if i don,t settle that no one will come for my marriage. this really pissed me off cos this is the same people i have been struggling for over 10 years now. am no longer a kid if i start to settle i will never get married. this is really disturbing me, they only call you on phone when they need something. it really hurt when people you love dearly treat you like this. how do i go about this cos i have decided what ever will happen let it happen, let me look for my own life.

pls my bro go n marry if dey refuse to cm to ur wedding people will surely cm n if u can take ur wife out go n start having babies I beg

IamKashyBaby:


My first kweshun ...Oga, where do u base?

angola

hdeeman:
i have always have a very close relationship with my siblings while growing up, which i have tried much to see that everyone is comfortable. i don,t based in Nigeria, but my family has always been my first priority. but everything changed immediately i want to get married. that i have to settle everyone first before getting married. they automatically ganged against me, that if i don,t settle that no one will come for my marriage. this really pissed me off cos this is the same people i have been struggling for over 10 years now. am no longer a kid if i start to settle i will never get married. this is really disturbing me, they only call you on phone when they need something. it really hurt when people you love dearly treat you like this. how do i go about this cos i have decided what ever will happen let it happen, let me look for my own life.

Your life and happiness is in your hands... Settle? Dem do apprenticeship for you?

hdeeman:

angola

Ooh ok..I tot ur in Asia

Lol. Funny family u got bro..so after the settling they won't ask u for anything again. Pls my advice is to ask them Wat they want, once they tell u. Break it down and tell them how much u can afford to give each of them and after that everyone face their life. I'm saying this Cs of the wife u want to marry o, Hhmmm. So she can enjoy her marriage

Ignore them and marry.

You have nothing to lose, they will come back to their senses later and apologise for being silly

hdeeman:

angola

iamJ:
what is the meaning of this? Let me not talk

Comot! See person wey dey form husband

Oyindidi:
Comot! See person wey dey form husband

meaning? I will bite u oooo

goan marry,will you settle them till forever?..can't they find their own life to live??some family no just get conscience..

Op, are u really a member of the family or u rented them cuz I can't believe this piece?

iamJ:
meaning? I will bite u oooo

vex no fit you

Oyindidi:
vex no fit you

if i vex do doggy u go like the look

iamJ:
if i vex do doggy u go like the look

Na your wife na, I go dey look una

hdeeman:
i have always have a very close relationship with my siblings while growing up, which i have tried much to see that everyone is comfortable. i don,t based in Nigeria, but my family has always been my first priority. but everything changed immediately i want to get married. that i have to settle everyone first before getting married. they automatically ganged against me, that if i don,t settle that no one will come for my marriage. this really pissed me off cos this is the same people i have been struggling for over 10 years now. am no longer a kid if i start to settle i will never get married. this is really disturbing me, they only call you on phone when they need something. it really hurt when people you love dearly treat you like this. how do i go about this cos i have decided what ever will happen let it happen, let me look for my own life.

abeg if there is any of ur family u need to help,help dem,cos ur family will only b ur family,wife can leave u at any fucking time,ur family will only b wit u,and also we all knw after marriage it ur wife family,ur wife will b letting u looking after to help them,bfor u even remember ur own family,am piece of advice sha,don't sell ur family for penny bro,cos if u do u can't buy it for million dollars shalom

This

this your family people don de do like 'village' people... what's the problem with them.. do u even owe your siblings anything?

and you've been doing great to them..that's to say they will even be happy if u end up not marrying.. come back home and discuss it to them that u owe them nothing... they're your siblings and they've got father and mother


I hate wickedness like this