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Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 9:30pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Hello Fellow N'landers' Do people still subscribe to the idea of "abstinence from pre-marital intimacy" in relationships, these days? In the last couple of years i've met potential suitors who walked, soon as they learnt pre-marital intimacy won't be on offer. I'm tired of this trend, i need to meet people of like mind...are they still out there? 3 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by madridguy(m): 9:37pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Yes. 4 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by Vutseck(m): 9:39pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
it's like signing a document without going through the contents only men with inferiority complex can take such a gamble if a lady's puna is as wide as Bore hole and deceive a man into such an agreement then who loose this is a life time agreement Jare...no room for mistakes . |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
flowers4me: Yes but though if I were to speculate, people fear of ending up in a union especially when the other partner is asexual and hides it. I always visit Dead bedroom because I get my kicks from reading married people who are sexually frustrated, you'd see severe case like 12 years no sex because the other partner is not willing and unlike Nigeria nothing gives a man a jolt shock when the word Alimony pops up. Its in reddit thought not to say I support pre-intimacy just shedding light on a diff POV |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by soberdrunk(m): 9:49pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
As long as the lady is a "virgin", you cannot give the cookie to "unserious" buyers and start forming Mary for a "serious" buyer. It is only a foolish man that will buy a "Naija used" car and not test drive it, even brand new car sef needs test driving sometimes.... 7 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by lilmax(m): 9:51pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
soberdrunk: |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by Daviddson(m): 9:53pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Yes, very many. 2 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Vutseck: Did you type "loose" intentionally or was that a mistake ? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by Vutseck(m): 10:09pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
soberdrunk: even the most expensive car ever made (2018 model) must be test driven before the final payment are made |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by Vutseck(m): 10:16pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
pcguru1: the man looses bro, it's like buying over sized pair of shoes which you can't return back to the seller did you lose or not . |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 10:55pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Many thanks to you guys ! @ Madrid, @ Davids, good. i would like to make acquaintances with those. @ Pcguru, your input is quite shocking and revealing at same time...thanks. @ Sober, a non-virgin turned celibate can suffice. @ Vutsec, its in a bid to not become that your "bore hole" illustration, that informed the decision of abstinence, cos most of people out there are on a "sampling spree" including you, who likes test-driving...lol cos any one you test and dump is a potential bore-hole, so why would any right-thinking female keep letting herself be sampled to be discriminated later on by the same people who spoilt her goods, huh? 18 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by yvesboss(m): 11:17pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
There are still lot of guys out there with same policy as yours. I am of that opinion as well and i can tell you i know a lot of people that share the same view. I pray you meet your support soon 10 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by saintvc(m): 11:40pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
yes oooo cast rated men |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 11:43pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
yvesboss: Really? how come i kept meeting those whose opinion are on the contrary even inside the church? Anyways, thanks for re-assuring my resolve. Amen to the prayer and the same to you if you still searching. 4 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by thorpido(m): 7:54am On Oct 01, 2017 |
Yes,there are men like that.It will depend on where you're searching though. For a lady who's a virgin,it might be easier to get a man to agree with you but for a non-virgin who wants a no sex relationship,the guy might think there's something you're hiding. 1 Like |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by bellong: 8:11am On Oct 01, 2017 |
It doesn't matter if you are a virgin or not, you have the right to say no to pre-marital sex. It also gives you the opportunity to eliminate unserious suitors. However, your decision should be done in good faith, either as a result of a new conviction or repentance and shouldn't be a way to "con" men. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by Nobody: 9:00am On Oct 01, 2017 |
well they are but they are very very very very very rare. and they might only do it for the first few months and get frustrated with the whole idea. As for me tho I don't subscribe to the whole abstinence thing maybe because I also don't subscribe to religion. These days alot of people are deceitful so it's best you know the whole deal about someone you hope to marry. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 9:22am On Oct 01, 2017 |
thorpido: Okay, thanks. i have met men online and offline who dont agree, even in the churches. Then regarding the 'hiding stuff ish', nothing is being hidden, the decision is in a bid to lookout for one's self in order not to become damaged goods to the deserving man after falling prey to professional samplers fronting to be suitors. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 9:29am On Oct 01, 2017 |
bellong: Thanks for your input. This resolve is in utmost good faith. I'm not out to con anyone and in the same vein, dont want anyone conning me. God help me to meet my kind sooner than i expect. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 9:32am On Oct 01, 2017 |
Evaberry: Thanks for your time. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by bellong: 9:41am On Oct 01, 2017 |
flowers4me: I believe you will. However, diamonds and golds don't come shining in their raw form until they pass through fire. The person may not have the outward characteristics you are after but will surely have the depth that you desire. Goodluck and Godspeed. 9 Likes |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 9:45am On Oct 01, 2017 |
yvesboss: Please direct them to this topic, i need to meet my kind, thanks. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 9:51am On Oct 01, 2017 |
Daviddson:Please send them a link to this post, thanks. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 9:54am On Oct 01, 2017 |
Vutseck: Answer the question please. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 9:59am On Oct 01, 2017 |
madridguy:I'd like to know them please. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 10:07am On Oct 01, 2017 |
bellong: Really insightful ! thanks so much. Amen. |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by madridguy(m): 10:14am On Oct 01, 2017 |
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Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by flowers4me(f): 10:28am On Oct 01, 2017 |
madridguy: Oh, okay.. I actually meant for you to send them to see my topic in the hope of possibly getting acquainted with the 'single and searching one'... 1 Like |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by madridguy(m): 10:39am On Oct 01, 2017 |
Where do you stay? flowers4me: |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by sisisioge: 11:34am On Oct 01, 2017 |
Oh, you see a good size 40 leather shoes that promised durability, comfort and affordability. Baby, you a perfect size 40. Thank God! It should fit...You took it home a happy person. On your first wear, it didn't quite fit well but you told yourself it's leather, it's one of a kind, you will grown into each other Whew! cos now you've got tons of blisters to show for your bravo. May God help us shop for the best fit... hallelujah I didn't kuku say anything, I just said check your shoes wella |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by Ishilove: 11:54am On Oct 01, 2017 |
sisisioge:You said plenty |
Re: Are There Still Men Who Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by domexydomen1: 12:16pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
flowers4me: You'll meet them soon enough... But before then, weigh your risks. I can tell you the risk is higher abstaining... Its like gambling a big odd. What are the chances? |
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