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My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 2:06pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Good afternoon my humble Nairalanders. ...and i have this girl i've been dating since June this year, our relationship is so strong that she packed all her belongings to my house.. things always go on fine except for the fact that i do spend alot on her and she knew because i do conplain at times about me not having much on me. We are both salary earner but i keep doing the responsibility of a husband by providing the house needs, she does her responsibility also, we both lived like couples. to cut this my blunder short, i was at work when she called me and started shedding tears that she visited a hospital because she's not getting herself, and the doctor told her she was pregnant!!.. Before then, like two weeks back, we had s*x and d condom i used mistakenly broke and i c*m in her. we immediately took a drug called postinor which i learnt that it flush away sperrrms in d body. she told me she called a nurse in a specialist hospital and the nurse told her she's going to need 25,000 for abortion. please Nairalanders, i need your advice on this. 1. i asked how much she got and she said she only has 5000, that i should help complete the rest for her 2. i requested to view the test result of her pregnancy and she said the hospital did not give her. 3. i suggested, we try another hospital for the pregnancy test because im fully sure about the postinor she took, then how comes it did not work. Now, she's giving me serious attitude, she's crying profusely that i dont care because she s d only one in the mess. please Nairalanders, what do you think is happening here. dont mind my Grammar pls. cc Lalasticlala Mynd44 Thank You ....FOR THOSE FOLLOWING THIS!! WE JUST CAME BACK!! GUESS WHAT !!!?? |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by pocohantas(f): 2:08pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Oldest trick in the book. The best way to counter this trick is to jump up in joy, tell her you can't wait to be a father ... It's guys like you that are scared of taking that step, them dey use chop. Most of you men fall into that category. A simple home PT,can solve this. If the sex occurred on her ovulation day and she took postinor2 after that, there is still a very high chance of pregnancy. Though I know issa scam. things always go on fine except for the fact that i do spend a lot on her and she knew because i do complain at times about me not having much on me. We are both salary earner but i keep doing the responsibility of a husband by providing the house needs, she does her responsibility also, we both lived like couples. ...You're both salary earners, you spend on her to the point you become broke and complain? When will you guys have sense? What is her responsibility? Cooking and fecking you ? You're not her husband, she isn't your wife. You both are not even financially compatible. If you marry her, don't come and start disturbing us for advice. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Prec1ous(m): 2:08pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
This is why everyone should be an all rounder. Even though you are not a woman, you should know alot about them. This is what to do... When you are coming home today, stop at a roadside chemist or pharmacist and buy PREGNANCY TEST STRIP for 100NAIRA. Buy 5, to tell that girl you are smarter than her. Tell her to urinate in a container and dip the stick... Instructions are on the pack. You are looking for two lines to confirm pregnancy anything else is negative. She will disapprove and that is where you get her. I don't know why your live-in lover wants to scam you, especially with pregnancy. But it does not spell well for the future . Use your sense and tell her to KEEP THE PREGNANCY! sit back and watch the drama that will unfold! This is super story..... 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Khutie: 2:14pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
•••Dah b*tch gonna milk ya back to square zero if ya ain't goh some thinking funds upstairs. Since ya two rigged and dug it, ya two shoulda visit a clinic. Use ya head bruh...dah lady ain't preggy. |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by ColdSun: 2:14pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
If I were you second test or nothing. If she like make she cry blood. Let her accuse you all she wants at least you know you've done nothing wrong. Don't allow her selfishness determine your future. |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 2:14pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
You guys are not yet married and you live like couples ! Nawa 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by AnodaIT(m): 2:17pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
You are living together as couple You are both salary earners And you are afraid of starting a family There must be something you are not telling us My advice? Don't abort that baby, stop taking postinor so that it won't damage her Go and see her parent and stop playing around 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by izaray(f): 2:20pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
She is just being ungraful my broda, u accomodated her, fed her, etc Even though u are getting the pussy free of charge lucky you Haba!! let her appreciate you for once na...She is trying to get that 20k from you. Since you have suggested of seeing the text result, or going to another hospital for a test and she decline...Tell her to keep the pregnacy with all seriousness, then observe her reactions. |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Adaumunocha(f): 2:25pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Op run for your life! How can you save with a woman like that? I'm ain't perfect but I always advice my man to save and invest for a better tomorrow. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 2:39pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Pynkylypz: yes Sir |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 2:40pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
AnodaIT: sir, the truth here Is I earned less than 30K and she earned 19800. we both ain't ready!! |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by pocohantas(f): 2:43pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
GRAMMARJAMES: You are even saying "yes Sir". When you finish spending all your money without savings...you will know the merit of having a financially supportive gf/wife. By that time, you will be philosopher James. GRAMMARJAMES: Na corper? You sev na advanced corper, na im you carry woman expenses put for head so. Invite her to your house, buy those pregnancy test slip, it's very accurate. Let her test it in your presence. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 2:43pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
izaray: Good Advice Bruh, but my fear is what if she's actually Pregnant! you need to see how she's shedding tears!! making calls to friend that she needs Money!! what I really don't understand is please for those who has done pregnancy test before, is it possible to do test without being giving results? |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 2:50pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Adaumunocha: she hardly advice me on saving. all is spending spending and spending, but she has NEVER bought just a pack of Chops at home!! I even get her her makeup kits and some other "Ladies things" |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Adaumunocha(f): 2:53pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
GRAMMARJAMES:And she works? Tell her u wanna keep d baby 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by izaray(f): 2:54pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
GRAMMARJAMES:They must have given her the result...Its not possible, even the locally urine made test gives you an instant ans..If you are so worried, you can go ahead and give her the 20k na, to safe urself the stress. |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 2:54pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
GRAMMARJAMES:I'm a girl |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 2:55pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
pocohantas: you are very wise. now she has agreed to follow me to a hospital, she said she just spoke with their family doctor and d doctor asked her what symptoms she said observing!! according to her now, all d symptoms d doctor told her is not what she saw, she was now suggesting if the hospital she initially went to made a mistake that we should visit another |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 2:58pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Pynkylypz: I'm so sorry about Ma! pls if I may ask, is it possible for a Specialist hospital to do a test without giving results!?? |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:01pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
use the money to pay her bride price |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Adaumunocha(f): 3:01pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
GRAMMARJAMES:Strip test of 50naira will save u guys this stress... Nawaooo in this age and time |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:05pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
GRAMMARJAMES:It's impossible oo |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 3:13pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Pynkylypz:I'll be back to give you how it unfolds. heading home now so we can try Another hospital!! thanks All |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:19pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:Abi oo |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:25pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Pynkylypz:no Man Deserves Your Love... Try Women Then |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:26pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
DeadRat:Lolz.. E concern you? |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by babyBB: 3:30pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
guy how old are u pls, u sound so childish and afraid. Is she ur first girl friend? U are a serious novice |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:38pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
Pynkylypz:hell No it Doesnt... I Am Not "No Man" after all. |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by rossyc(f): 3:43pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
My own advice is get a pregnancy strip and do the test, if she's pregnant you guys should keep the baby. Secondly she should return to her house, why should you guys be living together at the first place. |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:49pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
DeadRat:Hmm! |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:50pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
izaray: chai girl from poor generation spotted, choi |
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by babyBB: 3:54pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:guy u get sense |
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