At 25 to 30, ladies may seem desperate to marry, but may only come across chop-clean-mouth guys or married men. In this era were guys prefer free fornication to commitment & don't mind to be friendzoned as long as the friendzoner is offering sex.

With the above, chances become slimmer for ladies. But certain factors reduce the chances of ladies getting a husband.

1) Bad news: With the advent of cheating wives or paternity mismatch, guys take it slow choosing a spouse.

2) Flexing: As long as you smoke sisha, club & s3x your boyfriend like a prayer warrior, your wife-like anointing drops in his eyes

3) Bad character: The anger of some ladies is like bomb blast, they have sharp mouth like AK-47, & can say all their mind at simple provocation.

4) Body odour: Some body odor can crack dstv channels & can make someone re-apply for internship in mortuary.

5) Playing games: some girls double date, while others can date men "in a whole local govt at once"

6) Following 419 prophets: These guys can hinder ur marriage chances

What of when they are coming but you too fuccking selective cos it's a lifetime something.

Interesting. When a lady is getting past her prime and is becoming desperate, you'll realise that most time the fault is hers.
Most of such women, during their youth, lived very nasty lives. People are watching our daily lives, our activities and characteristics unknown to us. Some of these women hang out from guy to guy all in the name of enjoying their youth. From one sugar daddy to another. Others are club girls...night in, night out. At that point, they are getting so much attention and they think they are desirable by men. No way!! Those men aren't loving you but what you have to offer in the bedroom. Would you take a night crawler, a sisha monger as your husband and future father of your kids? No! Same way those men won't ever take you serious enough for marriage. So all the attention you get then was only lust.

Secondly, the friends and places a girl hangs out matters a lot. You don't expect to meet responsible men at the strip joint, booze party, or amongst your fellow wild girls. You'll meet men, but not husband materials. Go out and socialise, hang out with mature people. Be decent when amongst them, behave. They'll be attracted to the person in you and not your skin or thighs. When you get any attention there, it'll most likely be a serious one. Not some hunter, hunting to eat. You need to find a hunter, hunting to keep. Hang out at mature social circles. With career minded people, the working class. The business minded people.

Thirdly, watch what you do on social media. The internet is the smallest global village ever. The way gossip goes round in a small village, is the same way, a story or scandal spreads on the social media world on the internet. The obvious lack of privacy is the primary cause. You post a lewd image, make some slutty comment all in the name of fun and you finally forget. The internet never forgets. Those pics and those words will spread like wild fire, into peoples phones, into homes, to countries you never even heard their names before. Slut shaming comes with it. And it sticks. You meet a man, he likes you, he takes you out to hang with his friends and unfortunately one of them has your dirty photo out there. Shows it to your man, and poof! He's gone. Who wants to marry a slut. Maybe you aren't, maybe you were just playing around, but who cares. Slut shaming is a serious thing and it sticks to you.

Attitude to relationships also matter. Most female have had their minds conditioned to believe that they shouldn't contribute in a relationship emotional wise until the man shows he loves em so much. ' i shouldn't love him more than he loves me' . To each his own. It might not matter to a Bleep boy whether you love him or not, as long as he's getting between the legs. But to a serious man, you need to show commitment and not treat him like the yahoo boys you used to date. Show seriousness and back it up with actions and commitment. A good man will appreciate that.

Finally, luck plays it's own role. There are many good girls out there, who unfortunately fall into the hands of playboys every now and then. Those are the ones, the very spiritual people will ask to go and see a Pastor. ( personally i don't know about that). I just think such girls should look around themselves and environment and change whatever might seem to be causing the problem. These Pastors could complicate issues.

And i can't help but mention that guys, plenty guys aren't serious. Regardless of the girl they are with. Some aren't ready for marriage. The economy dictates especially as most girls too won't want to start small. The guys won't want to get in on a marriage with a nagging woman.

Me sef, won't marry if i was broke. Don't wanna keep my wife in a 'lets manage' situation. Or start raising kids in a small uncomfortable home.

Spiritual veil covering ya face... There's this lady that have Python following her about, off course no man approached her until she was delivered.

Op Na economy and recession cause am.

No guy is ready to marry and soak garri and salt with his wife afterwards.

And no lady is ready to marry and suffer.

That's why it looks like guys are not proposing marriage like before.

Everyone is hustling left, right and center to have a good home.
Husbands plenty, wife material plenty but no money.
Alot of youths are frustrated, with the future bleak.

So let's be realistic for once stop painting both male and female as rubbish.

2017 version of NIGERIAN girls be like

I need a real man that can look into my eyez and say baby pls manage this 2million


STOP BEEN SELECTIVE IF U NEED A HUSBAND

I don't think it's wise for a lady to be desperate even if she's approaching 30...There's no reason to be desperate whatsoever.

Husband no scarce.

One of the limiting factor is that some ladies don't socialise..they stay indoors from morning till night...how husband go take see that one.

Change of environment could be helpful too.

It's only God that will answer all dese playboys.

Adaumunocha:
Spiritual veil covering ya face... There's this lady that have Python following her about, off course no man approached her until she was delivered.