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Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by AgbesuyiJosh(m): 11:54am On Oct 14, 2017
I resumed in a secondary school in Lagos about a month ago (this term). Little did I know that a student I don't even teach though am her class teacher had fallen in love with me. I teach Art and Commercial students, she's in science class S.S 3. The funny thing is, it is forbidden for a male teacher to be close to a female student. This young student is 16 years old! She came to the staff room to ask for my full name, I gave her since am her class teacher, later that day, she asked if that's my Facebook name, I said, yea. The following day, I saw her request, I accepted. That was how we started chatting. All of a sudden, she'll flash or send SMS that Master, am Online or please come online now. I just knew sth was wrong, I asked her which she first denied but later admitted she was in love with me. I told it can't work. According to her, it's not the first time she's falling in love. She asked me to give her time to get over it.
Please, don't castigate; it can happen to anybody. Just give your profound advice.
I said something to myself at resumption to the school that any teacher who falls in love with his female student has a challenge, I still stand on my word. I just need to advice her now.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by wahles(m): 12:01pm On Oct 14, 2017
Good!
Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Nobody: 12:12pm On Oct 14, 2017
Haaaaa
Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by jaychubi: 12:29pm On Oct 14, 2017
U think a child of 15 yrs kws anything abt love, what advice do u need self op

Anything u do with her is as good as rape until she is of age

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Oct 14, 2017
First and foremost, why is she on your contact list?. Your conversation with her so far shows you seem interested or happy she's in love with you even though you're trying to hide that fact from us. Oga, the greatest you'd do for her now is to advice that little girl to focus on her books, while you do your part by stopping all communication with her. You may be tempted to indulge her further if you don't put an end to this.

She knows nothing about love. Don't take advantage of her naïvity.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by RapportNaija(m): 12:31pm On Oct 14, 2017
You pushed her to reveal she is in love with you, so TF you bringing to Nairaland?

You are a pervert for even instigating a conversation with your student up to the level love is been mentioned.

You are not been professional, and if I could, I would send this to your school management!

You seem to enjoy the power you have over her falling in love, don't you?

You know it's wrong, yet you steered the convo towards falling love.

How could you say your student could fall in love with you? What have you been doing that made you think she would fall in love? Why did you ask her?

What else did you tell her?

Perv!

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Nobody: 12:42pm On Oct 14, 2017
RapportNaija:
You pushed her to reveal she is in love with you, so TF you bringing to Nairaland?

You are a pervert for even instigating a conversation with your student up to the level love is been mentioned.

You are not been professional, and if I could, I would send this to your school management!

You seem to enjoy the power you have over her falling in love, don't you?

You know it's wrong, yet you steered the convo towards falling love.

How could you say your student could fall in love with you? What have you been doing that made you think she would fall in love? Why did you ask her?

What else did you tell her?

Perv!
He clearly doesn't know the ethics of his job. How could a teacher be discussing love with his student? A minor at that. Very unprofessional thing to do.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by THUNDER4real(m): 12:43pm On Oct 14, 2017
@OP....ATTENTION SEEKER...

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by RapportNaija(m): 12:53pm On Oct 14, 2017
Oh you are even the one! I found you easily ! Google took me straight to your profile! Very sweet!

I found the innocent girl too, Mr Pastor!

Your school principal will soon hear now! You will learn your lesson today!

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by tensazangetsu20(m): 1:02pm On Oct 14, 2017
RapportNaija:
Oh you are even the one! I found you easily ! Google took me straight to your profile! Very sweet!

I found the innocent girl too, Mr Pastor!

Your school principal will soon hear now! You will learn your lesson today!
cheesy cheesy grin. The guy's brain is made of starch.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by MhizzAJ(f): 1:11pm On Oct 14, 2017
RapportNaija:


Don't mind him. He couldn't even protect the girl's ID. I checked her profile, and she is so little.

OP, since you have started it, I will try my best too...

If you are the person in the first pic below, and you teach in that school that's on the girl's profile, be ready to visit the Police.


grin grin grin grin

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by UnknownT: 1:23pm On Oct 14, 2017
You couldn't even edit her profile off the Picture. From the chat, you were leading her on just for you to rush and post it online

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by AgbesuyiJosh(m): 1:31pm On Oct 14, 2017
Nawa o! Can't someone ask for advice again. People can be funny o. Anyway, I've learnt my lesson

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by lenghtinny(m): 1:33pm On Oct 14, 2017
Why are you having this kind of conversation with your student in the first place angry ( A 15 year old for that matter)...
E be like say you sef dey interested...

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by DonaldGenes(m): 1:35pm On Oct 14, 2017
RapportNaija:


Don't mind him. He couldn't even protect the girl's ID. I checked her profile, and she is so little.

OP, since you have started it, I will try my best too...

If you are the person in the first pic below, and you teach in that school that's on the girl's profile, be ready to visit the Police.
I support you

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by THUNDAR(m): 1:37pm On Oct 14, 2017
OP I have been in your shoes, but your case is really different, you pushed her to the wall!

Kids of today don't really know What they are doing,
They will land you in trouble without realizing it!

Pls set boundaries! Some talks just lead to another things!

Fellow Nairalanders Pls let this just be a warning to him, he is just one of us trying to earn a living! Pls remove his pictures, something you won't realizing how sweet the road to trouble is until you finally land!

Pls!

In the school environment you command respect!

Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 14, 2017
RapportNaija:
Oh you are even the one! I found you easily ! Google took me straight to your profile! Very sweet!

I found the innocent girl too, Mr Pastor!

Your school principal will soon hear now! You will learn your lesson today!
So, he's even a pastor...these are the ones claiming God called them, whereas, they didn't even see a flash. grin

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Jfrankination(m): 1:41pm On Oct 14, 2017
RapportNaija:


Don't mind him. He couldn't even protect the girl's ID. I checked her profile, and she is so little.

OP, since you have started it, I will try my best too...

If you are the person in the first pic below, and you teach in that school that's on the girl's profile, be ready to visit the Police.
Mynd44 Lalasticlala Seun
Rule Number 7 and 10

7.Don't say, do, or THREATEN to do anything that's detrimental to the security, success, or reputation of Nairaland.

10..Don't violate the privacy of any people e.g. by posting their private pics, info, or chats without permission.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Lalas247(f): 2:02pm On Oct 14, 2017
Wow
As a teacher you know she is young and naive! So what exactly are you asking us ?
“In love with you”seems u are actually loving it seff .... a teacher won’t even use that term to begin with , 2) you should be sacked too!
Exposed the girl and her name for what ... You are the adult here and really you seem like an ss3 boy undecided

You were expecting a cheer or some form of hailing to massage ur deflated Ego...

Just take al look at the conversation ... leading her on even more A CHILD! Shame on u ....

Mynd44 lalasticlala he needs flogging by the mass grin

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by tolanibae(f): 2:04pm On Oct 14, 2017
Where is the conversation?

Why are you threatening him?

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by RapportNaija(m): 2:15pm On Oct 14, 2017
Jfrankination:
Mynd44 Lalasticlala Seun
Rule Number 7 and 10

7.Don't say, do, or THREATEN to do anything that's detrimental to the security, success, or reputation of Nairaland.

10..Don't violate the privacy of any people e.g. by posting their private pics, info, or chats without permission.

Oh, so because the girl not a Nairalander, she deserves to have her own security, success, and reputation down, right here on Nairaland?

Privacy? With his pics already on his profile?

Continue your jargons!

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Nobody: 2:18pm On Oct 14, 2017
KimbraA and Lalas just Wasted That Guy... All These Babes Wey No Get Chill... You Sure Saytiat Guy Still Dey alive So? What If You Were In His Shoes.
Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Nobody: 2:25pm On Oct 14, 2017
DeadRat:
Kimb.raA and Lala.s just Wasted That Guy... All These Babes Wey No Get Chill... You Sure Saytiat Guy Still Dey alive So? What If You Were In His Shoes.
You well so?, how we take waste am?. grin

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Nobody: 2:30pm On Oct 14, 2017
kimbraa:
You well so?, how we take waste am?. grin
The Guy Ran Away na. I Saw Those Cold Arrows Of humilation and Shame fired At Him. There Is No Way He Wasnt hit

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Nobody: 2:37pm On Oct 14, 2017
DeadRat:
The Guy Ran Away na. I Saw Those Cold Arrows Of humilation and Shame fired At Him. There Is No Way He Wasnt hit
It couldn't have been me. It's the other dude that humiliated him.

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Joephat(m): 2:49pm On Oct 14, 2017
RapportNaija:


Here it is.... I have receipts, and if it means getting kicked out of Nairaland, I don't mind. I will have a pervert learn! It could your own sister or daughter tomorrow!

let's forgive him..

no job around, don't allow him to loose the one at hand... I am a professional teacher, I know how tempting these students are.

but, that should av been a private issue.

please, remove those pictures of the Geh n d guy too.

God bless you!

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by tolanibae(f): 2:53pm On Oct 14, 2017
RapportNaija:


Here it is.... I have receipts, and if it means getting kicked out of Nairaland, I don't mind. I will have a pervert learn! It could your own sister or daughter tomorrow!


This is horrible!

I even thought maybe the girl was stalking him or something. This is very shameful for a guy, a teacher to an SS 3 student.

This is manipulation of the highest order, he manipulated the poor girl into saying she fell in love, it wasn't even convincing.

And to think that the kid teacher brought the conversation to social media is another level of heartsore.

This guy cannot last in the teaching profession, take my word for it. I know this because I have young tertiary lecturers around me and I have first hand knowledge of how they handle female students so this is just all shades of wrong.

How did they even get to be chatting on Facebook or what sort of nonsense is this?

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by danieljessy: 2:53pm On Oct 14, 2017
Pedophile that needs advice undecided
He even brought it to nairaland
Shame on u disgusting homosapien

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Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by Ademat7(m): 2:55pm On Oct 14, 2017
RapportNaija:


Here it is.... I have receipts, and if it means getting kicked out of Nairaland, I don't mind. I will have a pervert learn! It could your own sister or daughter tomorrow!
how do u get those chat details?
Re: Please Help! My Student Has Fallen In Love With Me. by tolanibae(f): 2:57pm On Oct 14, 2017
Mr Josh, Kindly apologize here, nobody is perfect but this one you did is not right.

I agree that he should be forgiven but on the condition that he acknowledges his fault.

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