My friend has been on the phone for an hour now... She's been crying and I can sense this is the last straw. She's packing. I'm on my way but don't really know what to say to her.

I'll try and cut it short.

She's been married for 4 years and has 3 children. Her husband is a cheat. With no effort at all, he make it so obvious and she can't take it anymore. He doesn't even discrimate. It's on skirt, yep! He's getting it.

She's been sick recently and following some tests done, she just found out she's got STI's... two of them.

I've tried to calm her down but she's not listening.

She's been picking his calls too and hears different women call her husband various sweet names. I told her this one is a no no. She has broken 2 of his phones in anger previously. She has caught him before and that caused a separation for 3 months.

What do I tell her? He hasn't come home since Friday.

This is sad.

But in all situations, u can either Accept, Change or Leave.


God help them.