I want to present this daisy topic before thi honourable house. Every day we hear of one domestic violence or the other which personally I think Is not the best way to resolve differences.
In a home, there are emotional violence which most times are perpetuated by women and there are physical violence which is perpetuated by men. Here my question is which amongst the two is more damaging?

They are both damaging.

Emotional abuse will leave you psychologically fu--ck up.

Physical abuse will leave you physically and psychologically fu--ck up.

So you do the math.

Physical Violence brings Emotional disorder, so it's got the effect of emotional violence in it.

As a guy no human born of a woman can emotionally hurt me.. But I guess everyone can b hurt physically.

i dont know o buh lemme differentiate first...

emotional: u carry sledge hammer knack pesin heart
physical: u carry sledge hammer knack pesin head

both na die o

how pesin wey don die dey get damaging??

internationalman:
As a guy no human born of a woman can emotionally hurt me.. But I guess everyone can b hurt physically.

That means you've been emotionally hurt by a woman before to make such a statement.

Emotional hurt is more painful. You can't see the injury physically , don't even know where to start bandaging from. A broken spirit, who can bear? It even tells on your body physically. What goes on inside will determine what shows on the outside.
Physical hurt is damaging. This one leaves scars and will always tell a story. The good thing is you know where the pain is coming from and how to bandage it!! It can also affect you emotionally.

But finally shaa both are damaging. People respond to each according to their personality. One man's meat can be another man's poison. Preventing the two is better.

Both are not good but the most damaging depends on the situation and the people involved.

Rokia2:


That means you've been emotionally hurt by a woman before to make such a statement.

I have never. I'm one of the strong types.

Emotional violence

internationalman:

I have never. I'm one of the strong types.

yea right.

Emotional damage is worse than drug

Emotional to me. Physical violence always comes with and also leads to emotional violence. If u r assaulting somebody physically it nt only hurts their body but their heart too, plus u will also be saying hurtful things to accommpany ur physical assault.

Rokia2:
They are both damaging.

Emotional abuse will leave you psychologically fu--ck up.

Physical abuse will leave you physically and psychologically fu--ck up.

So you do the math.

Lolx...the maths is quite simple, can you help me find X in the equation ?

internationalman:
As a guy no human born of a woman can emotionally hurt me.. But I guess everyone can b hurt physically.

Lolx...guy hope you understood what you wrote. You can only be emotionally free when you stay a way from love.

Kaxmytex:
i dont know o buh lemme differentiate first...

emotional: u carry sledge hammer knack pesin heart
physical: u carry sledge hammer knack pesin head

both na die o

how pesin wey don die dey get damaging??

Smiles...

Pynkylypz:
Emotional violence

Why do you think it's emotional violence?

laliga01:
I want to present this daisy topic before thi honourable house. Every day we hear of one domestic violence or the other which personally I think Is not the best way to resolve differences.
In a home, there are emotional violence which most times are perpetuated by women and there are physical violence which is perpetuated by men. Here my question is which amongst the two is more damaging?

Physiologically both have and produce the same effect in the body system just that in physical violence there may physical scars but in emotional the scar might not be physically noticed

laliga01:

Why do you think it's emotional violence?

Same with Ritajovy

casa101:


Physiologically both have and produce the same effect in the body system just that in physical violence there may physical scars but in emotional the scar might not be physically noticed

I think I want to agree with you.

Pynkylypz:
Same with Ritajovy

In some cases, I have heard kids/teens say they prefer their mum to beat them than to :nag on them.
That is giving me another impression that emotional violence shouldn't be encouraged as physical violencr.

Both
But emotionally is likely for life, except one sees a counselor

laliga01:


In some cases, I have heard kids/teens say they prefer their mum to beat them than to :nag on them.
That is giving me another impression that emotional violence shouldn't be encouraged as physical violencr.

Yeah, its more painful/hurtful. Infact emotional violence is just like a deep scar.

Financial violence

Pynkylypz:
Yeah, its more painful/hurtful. Infact emotional violence is just like a deep scar.

I think we should sensitize ourselves both male and female on how to talk to our partners/friends/colleagues n co.
Some say negative words cut deep like a knife.
Let's try and minimise violence.... the bad part is both the victim and the perpetrator will not have rest of mind.