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Advice Needed!!! Ladies Get In Here. by ybalogs(m): 9:46pm On Oct 18, 2017
WOW Ladies What Do you think Gbagam!!!
Husband and wife decide not to be on facebook, they jointly made the decision to wipe everything on their accounts and deactivate it.
But then, each secretly opened another facebook with a different name and pictures.
Somehow they became friends and uncle started catching feelings.
Now uncle Started feeling guilty of using a fake picture and didn't want to betray his new found friend, in case she does agree to come visit him when he asks.
So he decided to open up, and sent her his real pictures ,telling her he has a reason for using fake pictures on facebook.
Madam realized her facebook Chyker is Her husband, so she maintained that everything is alright, that she understands, with the hope of running away and deactivating that account.
That was when uncle told her how he's feeling about her and would Want them to meet ,that he is seriously looking for a wife.
Though she was furious, she just told him she can't make the journey because she is broke.
But surprisingly, he asks for her account number so he can send her money for flight and other things she would be needing for the journey.
She got even more furious, she has been the one footing their bills at home because her husband who is away on a job claims he has not been paid for over 6 months, she even sends him money for feeding.
So she angrily decided to collect money from him, and sent him a cousins account number. And asked him to add something extra that she needs to pay someone to look after her sick mother while she is away.
He sent her a total of 400k.
Immediately which she blocked him and deactivated her account.
Now here's the koko. He came back home one week after that betrayal very sick and temperamental . She knows he is angry, but doesn't care, but then his temperament is affecting her children ,because he is always shouting at them.
Do you think she should give him back the money or not. If she should, how would she explain how she got it ?
What will you do if you are in her shoes.
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Re: Advice Needed!!! Ladies Get In Here. by tripplephi: 9:53pm On Oct 18, 2017
awesome piece

anyway... they need to start afresh...... say the complete truth to each other... and start dating again.

Its easy to say but nearly impossible to do.!!!
Re: Advice Needed!!! Ladies Get In Here. by MhizzAJ(f): 10:00pm On Oct 18, 2017
Give him back the money for what nah

He doesn't have money to take care of his family but he has money to spend on a side chick and he even lied about his marital status

I really don't pity those struggling men that engage in extra marital affairs...

Nobody send them work

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Re: Advice Needed!!! Ladies Get In Here. by SweetWJ(m): 10:05pm On Oct 18, 2017
ybalogs:
WOW Ladies What Do you think Gbagam!!!
Husband and wife decide not to be on facebook, they jointly made the decision to wipe everything on their accounts and deactivate it.
But then, each secretly opened another facebook with a different name and pictures.
Somehow they became friends and uncle started catching feelings.
Now uncle Started feeling guilty of using a fake picture and didn't want to betray his new found friend, in case she does agree to come visit him when he asks.
So he decided to open up, and sent her his real pictures ,telling her he has a reason for using fake pictures on facebook.
Madam realized her facebook Chyker is Her husband, so she maintained that everything is alright, that she understands, with the hope of running away and deactivating that account.
That was when uncle told her how he's feeling about her and would Want them to meet ,that he is seriously looking for a wife.
Though she was furious, she just told him she can't make the journey because she is broke.
But surprisingly, he asks for her account number so he can send her money for flight and other things she would be needing for the journey.
She got even more furious, she has been the one footing their bills at home because her husband who is away on a job claims he has not been paid for over 6 months, she even sends him money for feeding.
So she angrily decided to collect money from him, and sent him a cousins account number. And asked him to add something extra that she needs to pay someone to look after her sick mother while she is away.
He sent her a total of 400k.
Immediately which she blocked him and deactivated her account.
Now here's the koko. He came back home one week after that betrayal very sick and temperamental . She knows he is angry, but doesn't care, but then his temperament is affecting her children ,because he is always shouting at them.
Do you think she should give him back the money or not. If she should, how would she explain how she got it ?
What will you do if you are in her shoes.
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I have only seen things like this in d movies.
Honestly, if am d wife, i will open up to my husband and give him back d money. It will make him feel really guilty. Its better than making him transfer d anger on innocent kids or probably die of Hypertension.
Dis one worse pass monkeypox ooo.
Cc Lalasticlala.

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Re: Advice Needed!!! Ladies Get In Here. by ybalogs(m): 10:08pm On Oct 18, 2017
I really don't think they both deserves to still be in the relationship. It's obvious the hubby has been irresponsible and the wife now knows her hubby doesn't really love her. If the hubby won't repent, I think the lady should just file for divorce.
Re: Advice Needed!!! Ladies Get In Here. by ybalogs(m): 10:14pm On Oct 18, 2017
SweetWJ:
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I have only seen things like this in d movies.
Honestly, if am d wife, i will open up to my husband and give him back d money. It will make him feel really guilty. Its better than making him transfer d anger on innocent kids or probably die of Hypertension.
Dis one worse pass monkeypox ooo.
Cc Lalasticlala.
Remember they are both guilty and it's obvious the wife was also playing along to have made the hubby really open up. They're both not committed to the marriage and I really don't think that will change anytime soon.
Re: Advice Needed!!! Ladies Get In Here. by SweetWJ(m): 10:25pm On Oct 18, 2017
ybalogs:
Remember they are both guilty and it's obvious the wife was also playing along to have made the hubby really open up. They're both not committed to the marriage and I really don't think that will change anytime soon.
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I quite agree wit u. Both of dem are guilty. Both of dem need RESTRUCTURING like 9ja
Re: Advice Needed!!! Ladies Get In Here. by attention007(m): 11:25pm On Oct 18, 2017
If am the woman

I will take the money, my kids and move out of the house so that he can finally get his new wife he so desire.
Re: Advice Needed!!! Ladies Get In Here. by jesusdiedLOL(m): 12:19am On Oct 19, 2017
I cant read all this long thing...God forbid

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