Dont condemn any body, but why is it that many born again christian sisters, even the ones that wear long skirt are not virgins

Who use to disvirgin thenm?? Some even look strict on the face, but they are not virgins... Please can someone help me explain this very properly, so that we do not get deceived with this stupendous and hypocritical sermon of "no sex till marriage"... If no sex till marriage, how come many christian sisters are not virgins?? I am not supporting sex before marriage though.

Please lets stop these our rubbish strictness and fake holiness, and loosen up with love, care, peace and joy.

Christian sister that doesnt put ear ring and make-up, yet is not a virgin, so your private area uses make-up, while your face doesnt?

Please lets be decent........This post is not for genuinely born again Christian sisters who are not playing 419