Dear Jzhane,

I am very sad,please advice me.

Ike and I met in the UK four years ago during our masters study. We became quite close and began dating. A year later,Ike proposed to me. In 2015,Ike and I came home to meet our families. Ike’s parents and family lives in Enugu while my parents live in Benin.

Ike’s parents didn’t like the fact that Ike has engaged a non Ibo girl for marriage. They made it quite clear that they didn’t support the idea of our engagement. My parents on the other hand are Edo state,precisely from Benin. They thought that Ike’s parents dislike for me was a good reason to discontinue the relationship. Secondly,my father insisted that he would not be giving me out in marriage except Ike’s father lead the delegation for the introduction. It was hard to convince Ike’s parents. Ike and I were very distraught with the behavior of our families. We decided to get married in court without their consent. We also got married in church later on in 2016.

My parents especially my father is no longer speaking with me. He is so disappointed....

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I dey wait patiently.

IamKashyBaby:
So what's the problem?

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IamKashyBaby:
So what's the problem?

click on the damn link

am 4rm Enugu state and I cn practically Tel u dat Enugu pple carry tribal matter 4 head pass anytin. It's neva Gud getting married wtout both parents consent, I no of sumone dat did d same tin and she ws faught both physically and spiritually, her womb ws even tied, tank ur God dat Urs is only physical, d deed is done already, d only choice u hv is prayer, dey wl definitely change dia mind, especially ur husbands parents.

any marriage case that starts with "we meet abroad"
or "we are in the same school" they taya me

DOUBLEWAHALA:
any marriage case that starts with "we meet abroad"
or "we are in the same school" they taya me

na the one wey start with "we meet 4 market" or "we meet 4 shrine" no fit tire u abi??

I didn't read to the end, but I think getting married without ur parents consent isn't healthy..

Pls post the rest of the story here if you want to seek our advise

N

Parents and their wahala