Hi friends,
Iam still recovering from a recent breakup with my fiancee.She was a wonderful person in every way but we had no secrets cos she tells her mum,friends and sister everything.Everything we did and discussed was reported to d mum,my words were relayed verbatim,i mean evrything,down to some embarrassing and ridiculous stuff.Every single sentence started with ''mummy said''and shes nt a child;almost 30.All my sisters are married and they never tell my mum their family business coz she totally discourages it.Many times I told her hw uncomfortable i wz with it but she insisted that her mum and sis tell her everything which turned out to be untrue（she even told d mum abt my discomfort）.I left after some very painful embarrassments.I know it sounds trival but privacy means a lot to me.
Kindly advice me please,thanks.

You did the right thing. I've been in your shoes, only that he was talking to my friends not his mum or siblings. I tried putting up but we've all got our limits, I eventually got there and snapped. I just hope he's a changed man now tho.

shey you don break her hrt come dey feel pain, my brother you did the right thing, let her go get married to her family, by the time shilo comes knocking on her door, she would differentiate between what to tell her family and what not to.

[quote author=Blackhawk01 post=62070173]You did the right thing. I've been in your shoes, only that he was talking to my friends not his mum or siblings. I tried putting up but we've all got our limits, I eventually got there and snapped. I just hope he's a changed man now
I wonder y some adults cant keep their mouths shut.I jst wonder.

Even in marriage she will still be running home to report to the mom.

Chidonc:
shey you don break her hrt come dey feel pain, my brother you did the right thing, let her go get married to her family, by the time shilo comes knocking on her door, she would differentiate between what to tell her family and what not to.

No b soo o,i just felt completly naked and exposed.its a very nasty feeling.

rebirthforgoody:
Even in marriage she will still be running home to report to the mom.

she actually told me she'll do exactly that.She was always rigid and unbending

Sphinx02:

No b soo o,i just felt completly naked and exposed.its a very nasty feeling.

I can relate bro, that moment when you tell her you like it doggy only for her to tell her mum,sisters and friends ur preferences, imagine the embarrassment and you are like lord take me now.

Sphinx02:

she actually told me she'll do exactly that.

Nawa thank God you realize this early.me I like privacy

Chidonc:

I can relate bro, that moment when you tell her you like it doggy only for her to tell her mum,sisters and friends ur preferences, imagine the embarrassment and you are like lord take me now.

hahahaaaa..

We have not heard her own side nah. You no go ever find fault on your side bro. Do whatever suits you man.