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Well I think your friend should ask her what is her passion....

Must Have All These Ladies Are Ingrates! They Later Dump U After She Get What She Want..I Advice Him Not To Empower Her

OP pls permit me to ask two questions.
1) If your friend is man enough do you think it is public opinions that will determine his decision?
2) If he really loves the lady and find her compatible and fit to be his wife, isn't it better for him to marry her before thinking of empowerment?

GraveMan:
Must Have All These Ladies Are oloriburuku They
Later Dump U After She Get What She Want..I
Advice Him To Empower Her

with dis kind of comment you seem like an oloriburu yourself

Oledia:
OP pls permit me to ask two questions.
1) If your friend is man enough do you think it is public opinions that will determine his decision?
2) If he really loves the lady and find her compatible and fit to be his wife, isn't it better for him to marry her before thinking of empowerment?

I just wonder if all this people open threads to actually seek advice or attention

u and ur frnd ar actually trying to map out a gud plan 4 her bt her decision matters most, ur frnd shud first find out Wat she actually want,she is d one 2 decide

lalanice:
with dis kind of comment you seem like an oloriburu yourself

u are one of the oloriburuku ladies no doubt

Oledia:
OP pls permit me to ask two questions.
1) If your friend is man enough do you think it is public opinions that will determine his decision?
2) If he really loves the lady and find her compatible and fit to be his wife, isn't it better for him to marry her before thinking of empowerment?

1. What he needs is advise to make the right decision. No man is an island of knowledge. If he knew it all, he'd definitely not be here.

2. Act first then think later. That's the type of decision fools take and my friend is definitely not one.

IAMSASHY:
u and ur frnd ar actually trying to map out a gud plan 4 her bt her decision matters most, ur frnd shud first find out Wat she actually want,she is d one 2 decide

If you have more valuable advise I'd appreciate it.

GraveMan:
Must Have All These Ladies Are Ingrates! They Later Dump U After She Get What She Want..I Advice Him Not To Empower Her

True. But he loves her dearly and she feels the same way about him

He is not...I have seen people experience such

lalanice:
with dis kind of comment you seem like an oloriburu yourself

Tell him to marry her. As long as she's a good woman. Is it the certification he wants to get married to? He can start a business for her, and enrol her in NOUN, simple !

lalanice:
with dis kind of comment you seem like an oloriburu yourself

No be today man de empower woman later to regret my sister.

Your friend should probably look for someone who has the level of education that he feels is up to per. Some might get angry with this community but remember that women will mostly marry someone who they feel is up to a certain level of financial success. So your buddy should do the same. Besides there are too many stories of a man helping to pay for a woman’s education and she later leaves.
If you want to empower her do it because you want something good for her future. If you want to marry her, get to know her and make sure she loves you and is willing to further her education before doing anything