zoba88:
Amina  Bala Shagari, the divorced  wife  of  Bilyamin Mohammed Bello  Haliru, wrote the following tribute in  memory  of  her murdered former husband:  

"Will love you always .you would have been 36 today .may Allah rest your beautiful soul as people continue to say your name everyday.you were the kind of person to leave that kind of impact in your wake and slumber .im sorry we drifted apart i wanted you to have peace .i was so proud of myself for letting her have you to herself .ashe ashe .it wouldn't even come close to being enough .my darling friend .in different points of my life you were everything. A brother who pulled my scarf when i did wrong .a friend who knew me best .we decided to get married out of pure friendship .how strong was that bond.and when we couldn't we still found our way back to being friends.my darling.i dont have enough words .you once asked "what would u do if i  die?" I promptly started crying and abused u for suggesting u would die and id be around.those tears shocked u .well if u could see me now.the thing that was most endearing to me that probably meant nothing to you was the way you never ever ever allowed me to cross the road without holding my wrist to do it for me.it used to infuriate me before i came to expect it .id be like " see this guy ,before him didnt i cross the road?"  (Smiles).even when we fought u held on .even if we didnt talk u held on.it was funny,it was special cos it was not the hand but the wrist ,as if to assure urself you wouldn't let go .that was who were .till i suggested i wanted ur jealous wife to have peace .i wouldnt call i said u  would .and u did .whenever you could.and u saw me whenever u could.bye my love .may Allah link us up in jannah .we will love aleesha xx."


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/11/amina-bala-shagaridivorced-wife-of.html?m=1

UbanmeUdie:




If you loved him like you claim, you would have fought to keep him.


You are part of those who killed him!

ebuks4ever:


I beg to disagree in the context of marriage. You must be ready to wage war oh to win your spouse back if it comes to this, especially when there's a strange woman involved.
I will agree with you if there's physical abuse involved.
Marriage no be come go oh

Funkybabee:
This first wife is a big fool.....how can he be kind like this,do that, do this but u still let him go for another woman.....




She should keep showing

talk2percy:
From what u wrote u really did love this man. Buh the question is, why didn't u fight for ur place in his life? If u'd stayed put perhaps he would have still been alive.

helpmewaka:



Hi,

I guess you didn't read me well

stuffs4me:



You are mentally sick.

Penthomi:


We are our own problem: Women. She let him go for another woman? The man is a baby abi or a goat that she can tie down to herself. Her husband left her for another woman, and you are here, calling her a fool. Women like you make men think the world is centered around them and that cheating is their heritage/right, so women have to fight to keep them.

Penthomi:
I'm confused. Fought to keep a man who wanted to go? Why did he not fight to stay with her if he is worthy of being fought for? Women are supposed to be submissive and faithful but that is not enough for you. We should also be warriors fighting to keep our men from being taken away by other women while they stand like zombies and let themselves be pulled by the stronger woman. Abi?

talk2percy:
From what u wrote u really did love this man. Buh the question is, why didn't u fight for ur place in his life? If u'd stayed put perhaps he would have still been alive.

mastermaestro:


You must fight!

Penthomi:


Lolz. Shebi na fight the second wife fight wey lead to another thing. Oya come make we fight na. Lol

SalamRushdie:
I always advice every woman never to give up the man they truly love for any opprtunistic woman, stay there and fight till your man comes to hia senses , dont make it easy for any mumu witch to take the love of life with ease ..These days I see women give up their homes because of common text they see in their husbands phones thereby making it too easy for opportunist stealer women to have their way ..Yes your husband will definitley get infatuated by a strange woman in course of your love journey but remembet those infatuation spells have short term span and could be over from 3 weeks to year but most women just easily give up to fight to keep their man at the sight of the first text message and thats how love stories are being spoilt daily in our generation .. Women don make it easy for scheming women to steal your man just like that.

mastermaestro:


But jealousy truly can be deadly. I always avoid people who can't control the feeling of jealousy. Them fit kill person o.


Anyway how are you today? Hope your weekend is popping well already.

40kobo77:


You claim to be a graduate,but lack basic sense if how to paragraph your write ups.

These EBSU Secondary school graduates sef.

Prettyenit18:
You are right, I misunderstood you

helpmewaka:




Your misunderstanding flaws are perfect for the heart that is meant to love you

Penthomi:


lol. I'm fine, thank you. And you? My weekend is alright.

OldBeer:

Nonsense talk.
Don't remain faithful to your wife o!
Flirt around and look for a mumu woman to fight for you.
Shebi you be gold.

Penthomi:


Very interesting. All the best fun yin o.

SalamRushdie:
I always advice every woman never to give up the man they truly love for any opprtunistic woman, stay there and fight till your man comes to hia senses , dont make it easy for any mumu witch to take the love of life with ease ..These days I see women give up their homes because of common text they see in their husbands phones thereby making it too easy for opportunist stealer women to have their way ..Yes your husband will definitley get infatuated by a strange woman in course of your love journey but remembet those infatuation spells have short term span and could be over from 3 weeks to year but most women just easily give up to fight to keep their man at the sight of the first text message and thats how love stories are being spoilt daily in our generation .. Women don make it easy for scheming women to steal your man just like that.

asksteve:


If she had not left, do u no if she would have died first under mysterious circumstances that will leave no trace?
D spell might just b d beginning, she might have more wonders off her sleeve.
Pls if u r in that kind of relationship leave with ur life else u'll b target number one not d man.
D man became target because she left so b wise n no wen to throw in d towel.

SalamRushdie:
I always advice every woman never to give up the man they truly love for any opprtunistic woman, stay there and fight till your man comes to hia senses , dont make it easy for any mumu witch to take the love of life with ease ..These days I see women give up their homes because of common text they see in their husbands phones thereby making it too easy for opportunist stealer women to have their way ..Yes your husband will definitley get infatuated by a strange woman in course of your love journey but remembet those infatuation spells have short term span and could be over from 3 weeks to year but most women just easily give up to fight to keep their man at the sight of the first text message and thats how love stories are being spoilt daily in our generation .. Women don make it easy for scheming women to steal your man just like that.

Augiiee:

A man was murdered and you want d news to die down before even d killer is convicted, butqt you are on every thread were Ebuka's name is mentioned jst because of an Abagbada #YourStupidityIsBeyondComprehension